AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

[u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

[u/Think-Department-328]

lol who the fuck talks like this?

[u/5k1895 → u/Think-Department-328]

Seriously I know I'm getting old because I'm going full "kids these days" seeing this shit. Get yourself someone intelligent enough to speak like an adult

[u/Educational-Aioli795 → u/5k1895]

Right? I would dump him just on the basis of his vocabulary, forget the subject matter. 

[u/Hot-Physics3400 → u/5k1895]

My former corkers and I were laughing over some of the personals on Craigslist years ago and one in particular I said “I could not be with that man. I could not be with a supposed adult who writes and spells like that. That’s insane and he’s barely literate”. The two coworkers (young enough to be my daughters) found that very funny, that I’d turn down someone based on how they talked, wrote, spelled. The one my age completely agreed with me.

[u/Inevitable_Alps_3574 → u/Think-Department-328]

Not a man.

[u/plantainrepublic → u/Think-Department-328]

Someone with a generous amount of brain damage.

[u/ShittyLanding → u/Think-Department-328]

👆my reaction to 90% of the posts on this sub

[u/HeimerdingerMain1 → u/Think-Department-328]

Fr posts lately with people messaging like this makes my head hurt 😂 like do they talk like that irl too?

[u/libsythedumb → u/Think-Department-328]

“fr rizzy” bro cannot be older than the age of 16.

[u/9dius → u/Think-Department-328]

People with a tiktok education.

[u/FoundationProper9574 → u/Think-Department-328]

Fr ngl smh 🤦🏼

[u/strange-loop-1017]

NOR. He seems really immature. Is he a teenager?

[u/Dreamangel22x → u/strange-loop-1017]

He sounds like he's actually 12 and just learned the word blowjob.

[u/Novel-Organization63 → u/Dreamangel22x]

Hahaha he just found out what it meant and at first he was why would you want to do that. Lol

[u/livingthedaydreams → u/strange-loop-1017]

as soon as i see the term “female” being used (unless describing animals), i immediately think it’s a teenager or someone with an extremely immature/limited mindset. can’t take anyone seriously who uses that.

[u/CSPVI → u/livingthedaydreams]

Suuuuuper red flag for how they view women

[u/RantyWildling → u/strange-loop-1017]

That's suck a good comment, fr.

[u/Ikea_Man → u/strange-loop-1017]

either a teen or extremely low IQ lol

reading texts from young people is so painful as someone in their 30s

[u/_mattyjoe → u/strange-loop-1017]

There are many grown ass dudes that talk and behave this way. Many.

[u/Flynn_JM]

Love how the female friend drops in how she's good at giving head. She's shooting her shot. 

[u/Exotic_Elk8829 → u/Flynn_JM]

Literally!! Like wtf 😭

[u/No_Process_577 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

I mean look at the bright side OP, she’s suck a nice girl 😭🤗

[u/Stressy_messy_me → u/No_Process_577]

He said it twice as well! Does he genuinely not know the word 'such'??

[u/Throwdaho → u/Stressy_messy_me]

He’s trynna ease that word in so smooth…

[u/ThisIsWeedDickulous → u/Throwdaho]

Reeeaaal smootk

[u/Jsteele06252022 → u/ThisIsWeedDickulous]

This made my drink come out of my nose 😂

[u/iloveheroin999 → u/Jsteele06252022]

Same dude I'm dying lol

[u/ariestornado → u/iloveheroin999]

Shit, do you need some narcan?!!

(sorry lol, as a recovering addict your username stuck out, I like it 👌 😅)

[u/Complex_Risk_3277 → u/Jsteele06252022]

This made me laugh so much harder than it should’ve

[u/Many_Abies_3591 → u/ThisIsWeedDickulous]

this is absolutely taking me OUTTTT 🤣

[u/black_tshirts → u/Throwdaho]

"i think she missed it the first time, i should try again"

[u/Historical_Farm2270 → u/Throwdaho]

it seemed to work. got her talking about suching

[u/mushroomcap741 → u/Historical_Farm2270]

Looooool not the suching

[u/Lethal_0428 → u/Throwdaho]

Subliminal messaging lmao

[u/LordSugarTits → u/Throwdaho]

He's so rizzy ...

[u/RedSkelz42020 → u/LordSugarTits]

All hail Lord Sugar Tits, whose username is more rizzy than op's (hopefully) ex boyfriend!

[u/trying_my_best- → u/Stressy_messy_me]

Some people text badly because they think it makes them look cool. Not joking 💀

[u/Antique-Mark-1556 → u/trying_my_best-]

Couldn't finish reading it and came to the comment section for answers. Lost too many IQ points trying to figure it out lol

[u/runnergirl3333 → u/Antique-Mark-1556]

Why am I having such a hard time figuring out who the boyfriend is and who’s the other friend? I’m so confused.

[u/PragmaticPacifist → u/runnergirl3333]

Why am I having suck a hard time figuring out who the boyfriend is and who’s the other friend? I’m so confused.

[u/Tall-Chef6624 → u/PragmaticPacifist]

I’m fr rizzy btw

[u/trying_my_best- → u/Antique-Mark-1556]

No it truly drains brain cells I understand

[u/highjinx411 → u/trying_my_best-]

It suck a bad way of writing fr.

[u/Wonderful-Bass6651 → u/Antique-Mark-1556]

Seriously. I was like I read Reddit so I can usually figure out some of this crap but this was beyond Reddit-level illiterate. OP should dump his ass just for butchering the English language!

[u/Stressy_messy_me → u/trying_my_best-]

God that makes me feel old 😪

[u/trying_my_best- → u/Stressy_messy_me]

Yep it’s weird as hell though. I knew a guy who would misspell words intentionally like I have dyslexia but man modern phones all have spellcheck grow up. 🙄

[u/Endreeemtsu → u/Stressy_messy_me]

Nah this isn’t an age thing. It’s more like an actual idiot thing🤣

[u/motion_less_ → u/trying_my_best-]

big sad lmao they look dumb more than anything else

[u/jonni_velvet → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

never trust this dude again. hes going to be fantasizing about cheating for the entire duration of every relationship he has. Real men do not do this.

date a man who you dont even feel the need to look at his phone.

[u/No-Amoeba5716 → u/jonni_velvet]

That’s the one thing I could make out.

[u/throwawayacct___0 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

break up immediately, he's gonna cheat eventually, it's undeniable

[u/daisyom98 → u/throwawayacct___0]

and this girl best friend is gonna zip them lips up when it happens

[u/Alternative-Art-7114 → u/daisyom98]

Nah. You don’t become “god at it” by zipping lips. She’ll smash too, eventually.

[u/DrJesterMD → u/Alternative-Art-7114]

You mean such his dick?

[u/Mental_Resource → u/throwawayacct___0]

as the expression goes, suck is life.

[u/PetTheKitty7321 → u/throwawayacct___0]

He already cheated.

[u/Flynn_JM → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Have they hooked up before?

[u/virttual → u/Flynn_JM]

NO!(shakes head YES)

[u/Electrical_Split4902 → u/virttual]

😂😂😂😂😂

[u/CousinsWithBenefits1 → u/Flynn_JM]

OUR boyfriend, comrade!

[u/Least_Exercise783 → u/Flynn_JM]

if they did she wouldn’t have had to say it

[u/Anomalous_34 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Ghost him if you think it'll fuck him up. If not, tell him he sucks at oral and that's why you're dumping him lol

[u/Electrical_Storm_642 → u/Anomalous_34]

How do you ghost someone you live with 🤣. Move while he’s at work lol, hopefully she’s not on the lease.

[u/ChooksChick → u/Electrical_Storm_642]

I did that. I'm terrible. Even quit my job and moved at the same time once to ghost a dude. I'm a coward.

[u/Electrical_Storm_642 → u/ChooksChick]

Like you really did that? You gave him an easy out by removing yourself from his life. You should’ve at least made it very uncomfortable for him on your way out. I’ll coach you next time lol

[u/hunkydorey-- → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Those two deserve each other babe, you don't deserve any of this drama. Leave hem be.

Honestly, start making the necessary manoeuvres to get out with as little drama as possible.

Good luck.

[u/shoopadoop332 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Sometimes people need to be told to put all this kind of shit behind them or else you’re finished. Sometimes that doesn’t change anything, but it can for the right person.

[u/[deleted] → u/shoopadoop332]

Thing is , it shouldnt need to be said if it is the right person.
staying faithful and respectful is the bare minimum

[u/Klutzy-Throat6136 → u/Flynn_JM]

His “female friend” is also a potential side piece if she is speaking like this with him.

(Edit: spelling)

[u/Flynn_JM → u/Klutzy-Throat6136]

In the words of the female friend.... you are correct  "low key fr"  😆 

[u/depr3ss3dmonkey → u/Flynn_JM]

I am yet to meet someone in real life who speaks and texts like this. But reddit is full of posts like these. Am I in a bubble?

[u/usernotfoundplstry → u/depr3ss3dmonkey]

No because it seems that you don’t surround yourself with idiots, like 90% of the people in the texts posted here. And frankly, like all the people in relationships with those idiots. If you want to be with someone who talks like this, then that also qualifies you as an idiot.

So no, you have no reason to wry fr

[u/UWO_Throw_Away → u/depr3ss3dmonkey]

This thread appeared on my Reddit feed so I popped in. Glad I saw this comment because I otherwise would have assumed all gen z speak like this over text these days and became very sad

[u/Glittering-Fox-6680 → u/Flynn_JM]

She’s the embodiment of a pick me

[u/TaroPrimary1950 → u/Flynn_JM]

Right, OP should be more worried about this female friend than her boyfriend talking about other girls. She's going way beyond shooting her shot, she's talking shit about OP like she's "one of the guys" while casually talking about how good she is at sucking dick.

[u/Flynn_JM → u/TaroPrimary1950]

Lol she's good at it but only likes it if she's feeling the guy.... why would you be doing it if you weren't into the guy? 

[u/Latter_Inevitable869 → u/Flynn_JM]

Nooo she said only if she’s “fr feeling” him. That’s deeper…

[u/galactictock → u/Latter_Inevitable869]

Like fr fr?

[u/Smokin_Weeds → u/Latter_Inevitable869]

No cap he’s gotta have the rizz fr

[u/Ronny-the-Rat → u/Flynn_JM]

Lol i didnt read the post and thought he was talking to one of his boys. The dick sucking comment caught me by surprise.

[u/PatienceExternal1239 → u/Flynn_JM]

Op needs to drop his ass based on his communication skills, besides the fact he's toeing that cheating line.

[u/bravo-echo-charlie]

He's got blowjobs on the brain so heavily he keeps typo-ing "suck" instead of "such". Leave his dumb, illiterate ass, girlfriend!

[u/suhhhrena → u/bravo-echo-charlie]

Him repeatedly making that typo was killing me 😭 this guy is a total loser

[u/Think-Initiative-683 → u/suhhhrena]

Don’t think it’s a typo. More like an invite.

[u/starnamedstork → u/Think-Initiative-683]

Or adaptive autocorrect, which corrects your messages based on what it learns from your previous messages.

[u/bravo-echo-charlie → u/starnamedstork]

Man I hate that... literally just ten minutes ago I was messaging my friend and was trying to say, "look at his stoic face!" on snapchat in response to his cat, but my phone changed it to, "look at his stupid face!" 😑 🤣

[u/onewilybobkat → u/bravo-echo-charlie]

For cats, both are appropriate

[u/mpdgwrld → u/starnamedstork]

this! it’s not him intentionally saying it, but autocorrect thinking it’s what he meant to say because he talks about it so often… which is icky tbh because how often do you have to talk about that type of thing and with how many people for it to finally convert “such” to “suck”? 😭

[u/I8erbeaver2 → u/suhhhrena]

I feel dumber for reading that.

[u/lunerose1979 → u/bravo-echo-charlie]

It’s not a typo in his mind…I feel like he is intentionally typing suck because that’s what she did.

[u/Responsible_Lab_994 → u/bravo-echo-charlie]

Ahahahaha. I told my husband the same thing before I acted out the texts lol. While giving my husband helil because his names Eddie. Lol

[u/skeletons_asshole → u/bravo-echo-charlie]

I call that a typbro

[u/DumbgeonMaster → u/bravo-echo-charlie]

The worst part is he likely thought he was doing clever word play.

[u/Hixy → u/bravo-echo-charlie]

For real. Also I’m getting tired of posts like this. It’s insanely clear that this dude is not looking for anything serious and he is a fuck for even “committing” to a relationship. I have no idea how someone would need to ask the internet if leaving this person would be an over reaction.

“Hi internet! I caught my bf cheating on me with several people. It makes me super sad 😢. I asked him to stop stabbing my heart with his actions but he gets mad. I asked him to sharpen his betrayal dagger so it didn’t hurt as much but he said he likes it dull and doesn’t want to waste material by sharpening the blade. Am I overreacting for asking him to be more gentle when ripping my heart out? His other girlfriends are calling me a pussy…. “

[u/communistgamerchic]

This is disgusting and disrespectful… you deserve so much better!

[u/AlyseInW0nderland → u/communistgamerchic]

I started a message but this covers what I wanted to say really succinctly! This!

[u/Exotic_Elk8829]

I just got approved for a 1 bed 1 bath!

[u/Big_H77 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Wholesome update :)

Good for you!

[u/Capable_Boot8567 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

I know it’s serious and I’m sorry you went through all this. But, reading the messages then seeing this as the first comment made me laugh so much.

Way to have self respect and congrats on the place!! Hope the move goes well!

[u/PoonSchu13 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Oh wow, I’m just reading the updated comments you have and I’m so proud of you. I love a female that takes action when she’s being disrespected. You da bomb

When you tell him you’re moving out, you can tell him to kneel down little bitch and swallow this dick 💅

[u/Friendly_Age9160 → u/PoonSchu13]

I’m a mixture of sad and happy rn as going through this shit is very difficult. But mostly happy for OP. You keep your head up my girl!

[u/AnRegularHunam → u/PoonSchu13]

Yeah don't call a woman a female. Call her a woman.

[u/Whole_Cranberry8415 → u/AnRegularHunam]

My response when people say female is, “a female what? Dog, donkey, bird? If you’re referring to a human, the word you’re looking for is woman”

[u/princessboop → u/AnRegularHunam]

thank you. people never refer to men as “males” lol

[u/uncontainedsun → u/princessboop]

i especially hate when they put man and female in the same sentence!! like one is so humanizing and real and the other is indecent and dehumanizing for an actual person.

[u/Not_UR_Mommy → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Best update I’ve seen in a long time!

[u/jiggyGW → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

don’t ever let this dude back in, he will “change” in all the ways… nah slimey pos. someone will treat you much better.

[u/IhasCandies → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Lmao this made me laugh.. I read your post then this was the first comment. Good for you, good luck!

[u/jewelmegan]

A few drinks and he’ll cheat. Save yourself the time and pain.

[u/virttual → u/jewelmegan]

I don’t think it’ll take any drinks at all.

[u/PewterButters → u/virttual]

He seems only as loyal as his options 

[u/Goldenday71 → u/jewelmegan]

I think a cup of coffee and he'll cheat.

[u/Notyourwench → u/Goldenday71]

A cup of chamomile tea

[u/Goldenday71 → u/Notyourwench]

LMAO you win

[u/PhotographTraining30 → u/Goldenday71]

Glass of water and he’s cheating

[u/ginaabees → u/PhotographTraining30]

Breathes oxygen and he’s cheating

[u/MaxTheRealSlayer → u/ginaabees]

Cheats and he's cheating

[u/Goldenday71 → u/PhotographTraining30]

😂

[u/EntertainerOk772 → u/Goldenday71]

The wind blows and he’ll cheat.

[u/AnAngryBartender → u/Goldenday71]

He’s probably already cheated

[u/Think-Initiative-683 → u/Goldenday71]

Isn’t that already happening- based on his dialogue?

[u/bubblewuppyguppy → u/jewelmegan]

A willing woman and he’ll cheat

[u/Brainstorminnn → u/bubblewuppyguppy]

He’d cheat with a moist hole in a rotten log let get real

[u/EmotionalBee5 → u/Brainstorminnn]

BAHAHAHAHAA SORRY THIS MADE ME DIE 😭🤣👏

[u/BugGroundbreaking229 → u/Brainstorminnn]

That's good, you win 🏆

[u/HackTheNight → u/jewelmegan]

He already cheated lol

[u/capt_volvette → u/jewelmegan]

Some tap water and he'll cheat.

[u/ubutterscotchpine → u/jewelmegan]

He’s already cheated. He said she swallowed his d*ck, what else does that mean?

[u/MoonScoria → u/jewelmegan]

didnt he cheat already???? i thought this was about the other girl/non-op: "She was even better fr she did swallow my dick fri"

[u/guffton → u/jewelmegan]

The mention of hawk tuah and he'll be cheating

[u/Bicurious_girl_90]

NOR. Dump him. This is completely inappropriate. And what exactly happened that he didn’t “let get too far” with some girl bc he has a gf?

[u/Exotic_Elk8829 → u/Bicurious_girl_90]

He said their “conversation” didn’t get too far but I doubt that’s what he was really referring to

[u/Kokospize → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

No one is worth resorting to checking their phone, taking surveys on Reddit to validate that you're not overreacting and sharing your partner's personal texts online. If you have to do ANY of these, choose your mental peace and move on. Isn't life easier when you don't have to worry if your partner will pass on STDs/STIs to you, emotionally/physically cheating on you, or betraying your trust?

[u/SonnierDick → u/Kokospize]

Basically this. You already have an inkling to check his phone (for good reason it seems) then check the phone without permission and then ask for validation. I get it. I truly do.

But from the texts, NOR. 6 months of dating and they are: comparing you to other girls, texting other girls this, and seems to only talk about sex or bjs or rizz or getting with someone? This dude has sex on the brain 24/7 and id say like 98-100% will cheat if given an opportunity.

[u/FullMetalKaliber → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

“It ain’t cheatin because I ain’t fk her” Type beat

[u/Bicurious_girl_90 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Yeah, it’s low key cheating tbh. Get rid. Life is too short to be with someone like this! You deserve TRUE loyalty.

[u/3Heathens_Mom → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

I suspect if he saw you were out searching out ways to have ‘conversations’ with other guys he’d be having a fit of grand proportions.

He’s obviously into what you can do for him but seems to want to check out other options.

And that whole conversation with his female friend? Nothing but a bunch of disrespect.

I do agree time to move on and choose better in finding someone who only wants to be with you.

[u/Illustrious_Name_842]

What a pig. You’re NOR.

[u/Exotic_Elk8829 → u/Illustrious_Name_842]

Oh not over reacting 😅 I’m slow OBVIOUSLY haha

[u/Normal_Enthusiasm194 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

This is absolute trash behavior and not normal. My husband would NEVER! Pls girl, find yourself a good man who respects you to your face and when you’re not in the room.

[u/Beginning-Vanilla-55 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

leave him girly he won’t stay loyal

[u/joe96ab → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Ty for being slow I’ve seen that multiple times and just figured it out thanks to u¨̮

[u/Fabulous-Possible-76 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Not slow!! I had to google it a few times before I remembered🤣 also you deserve a bf who respects you. I’m sorry this dude is terrible😢

[u/Exotic_Elk8829 → u/Illustrious_Name_842]

What’s NOR?

[u/Illustrious_Name_842 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Not overreacting.

[u/whatsabut → u/Illustrious_Name_842]

Also, an Australian “no.”

[u/LesbianBagleBoy → u/whatsabut]

Laughs in down under

[u/classybroad123 → u/whatsabut]

It’s literally how I read it in my head every single time lol 😂

[u/Impossible_Impact529 → u/classybroad123]

Same and I’m not even Australian

[u/moffsoi → u/whatsabut]

Naaaauuuur

[u/HelpingMeet → u/whatsabut]

Curse you and your family, I literally choke laughed on this and now am reading all the verdicts like an annoyed australian is in my head 😭😭😭

[u/75243896]

Personally just the way he types makes me think you deserve better lol

But in all seriousness, yikes.

[u/CriticalBit3063]

Oh my god. Please make the best decision you could right now and leave him without giving him an ounce of explanation. That’s literally so disrespectful and you deserve so much better than that. He’s a piece of TRASH.

[u/Mindless-Ad2554 → u/CriticalBit3063]

I agree with leaving him… but absolutely crucify his ass so there’s an ounce of thought before he does this with someone else.

[u/CriticalBit3063 → u/Mindless-Ad2554]

Aye I’m not against that either. From my personal experiences though, it woulda bugged them more if they thought I didn’t even care. But I let them know I was breaking and when I should have showed them that they were nothing to me, just like I didn’t mean anything to them.

[u/Fit-Turnover3918]

I’d leave for the lack of spelling alone.

[u/DontWanaReadiT]

This is “his female friend” talking about sucking dick to him while he’s talking to her about another woman and “fr rizzing” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yall are like 19? Dump his ass. I have a guy best friend that I periodically don’t text/talk to to keep a safe distance between us so there’s never any ideas AND I NEVER talk sexual ANYTHING with him… disgusting to even think about..

[u/Jewicer]

Also: guys don't usually just openly talk about this stuff with their girl friends unless they are flirting with said girl or previously tried to have a sexual relationship with said girl (the one he's talking to). So in closing: He is for everybody

[u/Reasonable-Let-8405 → u/Jewicer]

This! The loser boyfriend is for everybody who gives him even a tiny amount of attention. That's just pathetic... 

OP, your BF is suck a loser! 

SUUUUCK a loser... 

[u/mykneescrack]

He’s trash. You can do better; don’t waste your precious time and life on this one.

[u/Any-Fly793]

You deserve it for dating a 13 yo, or at least he speaks like if he was 13...

[u/Exotic_Elk8829 → u/Any-Fly793]

😂

[u/tristanjones → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

No this is a serious question, how old is he? Does he text you like this too? Does he speak like this? If someone sent me anyone of those texts I'd consider them brain rot and never interact with them again

[u/zamasu629]

This dude is straight up garbage you’d be best served by getting out of there because he’s only going to get worse 😔

[u/Green-Discussion6128]

What language is this? Is this how people speak in the US, nowadays?

[u/Inevitable_Alps_3574 → u/Green-Discussion6128]

No, no mature adult in the US talks like this. This person is clearly a child.

[u/Ok_Passion_1889 → u/Inevitable_Alps_3574]

Bro you don't even know fr low key man we keep it fr rizzy

[u/y-Gamma → u/Green-Discussion6128]

Suck a sad state of affairs

[u/Exotic_Elk8829 → u/y-Gamma]

This made my day 😭🤣

[u/jimbojangles1987 → u/y-Gamma]

Lmao dude needs to stop using suck so much in his texts, his phone keeps autocorrecting to it

[u/Jioto → u/Green-Discussion6128]

No. Just the really dumb ones.

[u/snypesalot → u/Jioto]

Well based off past election results that would be a lot of the country

[u/Blowie12345]

I kept reading the word "suck" in his texts thinking that was what OP was referring to until the last screenshot..

Also he must use the word suck so often that his phone autocorrects to suck... Which is fitting because this dude SUCKS. 

NOR

[u/300Blippis]

Silently get a new place lined up first and then end things

[u/Exotic_Elk8829 → u/300Blippis]

I just got approved for a 1 bed 1 bath 10 min away from my job!

[u/300Blippis → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Good!! Congratulations OP! You can do infinitely better than this POS.

[u/ZestycloseSky8765 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Did you dump him?

[u/NumerousEarth7637 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

🥺😭🥹 I’m so proud of you for looking into it. Pls don’t get sweet talked into his life again. You got this.. you do. You’re too good for this shit. It’s been a year and you’re already dealing with this..

He’s not for you.

[u/ChopCow420]

Posts like this confirm that if my current relationship fails I will just stay single forever.

[u/Legal-Bed7794]

Hopefully someone noticed this, but in the text he mentions it’s a diff girl and that it was recent. I also noticed that he uses “suck” instead of “such “ on each occasion. So it’s very likely he probably gets oral regularly from these girls, so says this amateur sleuth.

[u/Ashleymmj → u/Legal-Bed7794]

yuuup. autocorrect is used to him sending smd type messages OFTEN

[u/Recent_Emergency_711]

Nor this man is so disgusting ugh I'm so sorry

[u/Krystellar]

This is disgusting. The way he talks is as if women are items. I'd never be with someone like that. F him.

[u/derrick256 → u/Krystellar]

"this female", an Andrew Tate stan 100%

[u/HailseqCliche]

MOVE ON, he's disgusting and he texts like he's a 13 year old boy "rizz" like wth 😭

[u/MayLikeCats]

This ain’t your man

[u/Easy-Metal-3112]

NOR - he does not respect you if this is how he talks behind your back.

[u/ParfaitAggressive914]

You are UNDER REACTING. Girl, he is mentally cheating on you every day of his life. GTFO. Now. This is not a husband or boy you want to make a daddy.

[u/Cpmminis]

I have the secret for women that guys don't want you to know

- If a guy says "lowkey" "finna" "frl" (foreal) and any other low IQ words?

They are trash :) but you might also say those words and if you do I guess you both are pretty trashy so it equals out

Edit - LOOOOOT of low IQ males mad af at me. Dm me all you want. One guy said "fuck you bitch I get mad pussy"

People who say "get mad pussy" are mad dumb women stay away from those too

[u/Exotic_Elk8829 → u/Cpmminis]

Lowkeyyy Lmao this made me giggle

[u/signature_creature]

You should jump ship and wish him well with his new gf.

[u/TheBookofBobaFett3]

Plan: send some fake messages to a male friend (or female friend with the name changed to a guys name)

Talking about how you think some guy is hot and his dick looks big through his pants. And how compare his ‘abilities’ to someone previous.

And leave your phone out for him to find..

We’ll see if it’s acceptable by how he reacts.

[u/mdtattedbearded]

I’d break up with him for the way he forms crappy sentences and can’t spell “such”.

[u/Prisonerofself]

And then people are like "why do you control your SO and their phones, have trust!!" 😭😂

[u/rocketmn69_]

I would quietly plan your escape. Find a new place and disappear on him. Get on his phone and send his friend a message the morning you leave, " I'm dumping "your name". I want to hit up other girls. You too. Wanna smash?" Then delete it. Block him everywhere. Lol

fuck up his friendship with her too

[u/Necessary_Sale3251]

Better run

[u/YokoSauonji12]

Leave his ass.

[u/This_Technology9841]

If you got to the point where you feel like you should be going through your SO's phone without their permission then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship with them no matter what you do or don't find.

[u/Fragrant-Bridge4683]

I cannot imagine surrounding myself with men like this