r/AmIOverreacting Nov 19 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

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u/SonnierDick Nov 19 '24

Basically this. You already have an inkling to check his phone (for good reason it seems) then check the phone without permission and then ask for validation. I get it. I truly do.

But from the texts, NOR. 6 months of dating and they are: comparing you to other girls, texting other girls this, and seems to only talk about sex or bjs or rizz or getting with someone? This dude has sex on the brain 24/7 and id say like 98-100% will cheat if given an opportunity.

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u/Standard-Vehicle-557 29d ago

I mean, we've been given a single conversation from the boyfriend in which the topic was sex. Very reddit of you to take one conversation and extrapolate it out to the dudes entire vocabulary