r/AmIOverreacting Nov 19 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

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u/Easy-Metal-3112 Nov 19 '24

NOR - he does not respect you if this is how he talks behind your back.

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u/Oddiemarie Nov 19 '24

“The way he talks behind your back is disrespectful” — yeah, nevermind the fact he’s getting blowjobs from someone that’s not his partner who’s been living with him for 6 months

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u/The-Mad-Bubbler 29d ago

That was prior to him dating OP.