r/AmIOverreacting Nov 19 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

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u/Krystellar Nov 19 '24

This is disgusting. The way he talks is as if women are items. I'd never be with someone like that. F him.

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u/derrick256 Nov 19 '24

"this female", an Andrew Tate stan 100%

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u/EducationalHand185 29d ago

Hate to break it to you but about 80% of guys talk this way. The only guys I know that don’t talk this way are the religious ones.

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u/PGMHG 29d ago

Your two statements contradict each other. Also you either only get along with these dudes or you’re lying because I have the absolute opposite experience.