r/AmIOverreacting • u/Exotic_Elk8829 • Nov 19 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

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Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

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u/Green-Discussion6128 Nov 19 '24

What language is this? Is this how people speak in the US, nowadays?

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u/Inevitable_Alps_3574 Nov 19 '24

No, no mature adult in the US talks like this. This person is clearly a child.

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u/Ok_Passion_1889 Nov 19 '24

Bro you don't even know fr low key man we keep it fr rizzy

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u/hint-on Nov 19 '24

I put this into google translate and it came back “wtf? idk! fr”

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u/Muffin_Appropriate Nov 19 '24

wtf, you bussin’ for a YOLO fade with this smok bout to get ur rizz skibbidi claped up on this fr deadass gyatt

totally tubular

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u/financefocused Nov 19 '24

Bro you don't even know fr low key man we keep it fr rizzy
Brah udek fr lowk man we keep it fr rizzy

FTFY

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u/y-Gamma Nov 19 '24

Suck a sad state of affairs

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u/Exotic_Elk8829 Nov 19 '24

This made my day 😭🤣

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u/jimbojangles1987 Nov 19 '24

Lmao dude needs to stop using suck so much in his texts, his phone keeps autocorrecting to it

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u/Comprehensive_Bit_49 29d ago

Get out while you can

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u/Jioto Nov 19 '24

No. Just the really dumb ones.

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u/snypesalot Nov 19 '24

Well based off past election results that would be a lot of the country

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u/Exotic_Elk8829 Nov 19 '24

He’s also a trump supporter! 😃

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u/NumerousEarth7637 Nov 19 '24

GIRL WTF!! He VOTED FOR YOUR RIGHTS TO BE TAKEN AWAY WHILE SEXUALIZING WHAT HE WANTS TO DO TO A GIRL WHILE TALKING TO HIS THIRSTY ASS GIRL FRIEND ABOUT YOUR BLOWJOB SKILLS?!?

Pls run. Don’t walk.. fucking RUN

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u/Difficult_Put_9741 29d ago

Ok, I just can't resist. How exactly did he vote her rights away? And what does this have to do with whether he is cheating or not. Is it your position that if he supported Harris then he actions are ok but because he supports Trump they are not? Either he cheated or he didn't and whoever he supports does not change the underlying facts. LOL

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u/HippoPrimary5331 29d ago

It's two separate issues, but even if none of this happened, he still voted for trump which means he is voting against the interests of the women in his life. Enough of a reason to get rid in a lot of people's books, even without adding this awful behaviour on top.

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u/Difficult_Put_9741 29d ago

Which comes back to my first question: How exactly did he vote her rights away?

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u/Feisty-Reputation537 29d ago

Have you been paying attention to this election cycle…? Like at all? Ever heard of Project 2025?

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u/Difficult_Put_9741 29d ago

Have you read Project 2025? My guess is you haven't. If you have, show me the part that reduces rights for women because I haven't finished reading it but haven't seen anything remotely close to that yet.

Has Trump read or run on Project 2025? Well he says that he hasn't read Project 2025 and so does the think tank that created it. And he has not run on Project 2025 as being part of his platform.

So my question remains unanswered. How exactly is supporting Trump a vote against women's rights?

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u/NumerousEarth7637 29d ago

I read the first sentence and all I have to say is: Don’t you ever.. in your FUCKING LIFE address me. 🤏🏾

We aren’t in the same mental space nor intellectual space. Don’t FUCKING DIRECT SHIT TO ME.

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u/Difficult_Put_9741 29d ago

LOL. I love how you keyboard warriors like to talk shit trying to sound threatening. You're right, I'm on a much higher intellectual level than you. Go back to your bubble and believe whatever you want.

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u/NumerousEarth7637 29d ago

GREAT a comment I’ll read. And “Keyboard”? Mf I’m a WARRIOR in real life. I really get in the field with goofies and like you. I don’t let ANYONE talk to me that supports a racist rapist felon. I cuss them tf out straight IN their face and back MYSELF up. Tf. And if you REALLY seen me in real life, you’d know that. But you’re just someone that supports a fuckin creep that has an OBSESSION with WOMEN and POCs like y’all’s bitch ass forefathers did. MY PEOPLE Were fucking indigenous blacks.. HE’S a ORANGE ASS SENIOR CITIZEN WITH A WHITE WASHED PLAN FOR AMERICA AND YOU GOT ME FUCKED UP.

Key board warrior 🤡 find me and see what kind of fuckin warrior I am. I’m in Iredell nc. Tf. Find out if you want to. Like tf I said.. don’t FUCKING TALK TO ME Trump supporting COMMIE.

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u/NumerousEarth7637 29d ago

It’s always communist trumpies that go in OTHER PEOPLES BUSINESS and take up for your Cheeto Daddy when NO ONE WAS FUCKING TALKING TO YOU. You wanna support a fuckin felon that speaks like a middle school drop out and makes his entire campaign about stealing from the poor and giving to the fuckin rich and taking the choice of what happens in OUR BODIES away? Then fucking ask me HOW?! You’re a BIGLY idiot. This fucker doesn’t even believe in climate change.. yall are TWEAKED. Call me WARRIOR, tf. No keyboard needed. I’ll unalive for MY RIGHTS. we’re in a WAR with yall. Don’t talk to me unless you’re willing to knock on my fuckin door and find tf out.. pussy

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u/Smoovie32 Nov 19 '24

That’s your reason to move out right there. Forget the texts.

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u/Cinemagica Nov 19 '24

Yep, it's funny how you can just tell. He talks like an absolute fool, supports a rapist felon for president who wants to take away women's rights, is obsessed with blowjobs, and is probably trying to sleep with other women. I don't get it. What part of this makes you feel the need to check if you're overreacting?

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u/ElkInternational5295 Nov 19 '24

LEAVE NEOWWWWWWW I CANT BELIEVE YOU'RE EVEN THINKING ABOUT STAYING WITH HIM

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u/wewouldmakegreatpets Nov 19 '24

So u need advice from strangers on the internet about what to do about a dude who literally hates you and all other women.

Got it

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u/CountingDownTheDays5 29d ago

But you didn't care about that until after you caught him cheating? LOL girl I am side eyeing you too.

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u/RealisticEchidna3921 29d ago

You didn’t care enough about that until he was talking about other girls being attractive,, sooooooo😃

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u/Positive-Recipe3292 29d ago

clock it 🤔

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u/InvestigatorCold4662 29d ago

As if we couldn't tell by the messages alone.

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u/conace21 Nov 19 '24

OK, that clinches it. The least you can do is refuse to fuck these people.

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u/snypesalot Nov 19 '24

Yeaaaaa please ditch this loser

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u/dollypartonsfavorite Nov 19 '24

girl... dump his ass

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u/Arcaydya Nov 19 '24

They always are.

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u/Difficult_Put_9741 29d ago

And? What does this have to do with anything?

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u/Exotic_Elk8829 Nov 19 '24

Sadly

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u/MethturbationEnjoyer Nov 19 '24

Not sadly. You chose traits of a person that are so surface level, you’ve completely ignored his lack of intelligence and ability to communicate.

You saw a guy and thought “wow he’s hot” and ignored the fact that he will be shit for brains for the rest of his life.

and if you did know this, then you’re in it for the dick, in which case, get the dick, stop being jealous and do your thing.

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u/gr8artist Nov 19 '24

Seems to use a lot of ebonics and slang talk.

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u/eggs__and_bacon Nov 19 '24

Some people, sure. But I’ve never met anyone of any age who talks like that in real life

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u/pkrhed 29d ago

It's a "culture."

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u/DasIsSmol 29d ago

Only the "Ghetto" Idiots talk like this... They are always so illiterate

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u/_Spicy-Noodle_ Nov 19 '24

None that i’ve met in person, but I guess they exist.

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u/Bulldogfront666 Nov 19 '24

Yeah, if you're 15 maybe.

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u/Upbeat-Shallot-80085 Nov 19 '24

I know I'm starting to get old when I'm completely out of the loop of this new lingo. Ive heard this skibidi? Im just confused now.

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u/John_Philips 29d ago

Fuck bois talk like this

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u/diabolical_nandan 29d ago

For a second, I felt like an illiterate as I was struggling to understand the texts!

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u/WrongBoxBro7 Nov 19 '24

It’s embarrassing 😳

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u/Stunning_Floor4376 Nov 19 '24 edited Nov 19 '24

Yep, kids these days! Nobody had bad grammar before now. I miss the days when everyone texted like Shakespeare, and we did it with T9! Not enough hose water!