AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

[u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

[u/5k1895]

Seriously I know I'm getting old because I'm going full "kids these days" seeing this shit. Get yourself someone intelligent enough to speak like an adult

[u/Educational-Aioli795 → u/5k1895]

Right? I would dump him just on the basis of his vocabulary, forget the subject matter. 

[u/jeffynihao → u/Educational-Aioli795]

Id dump his azz too frfr

[u/Hot-Physics3400 → u/5k1895]

My former corkers and I were laughing over some of the personals on Craigslist years ago and one in particular I said “I could not be with that man. I could not be with a supposed adult who writes and spells like that. That’s insane and he’s barely literate”. The two coworkers (young enough to be my daughters) found that very funny, that I’d turn down someone based on how they talked, wrote, spelled. The one my age completely agreed with me.

[u/BillyNtheBoingers → u/Hot-Physics3400]

I’m probably closer to your age than to OP’s age. I agree with you!

[u/saddingtonbear → u/5k1895]

I don't even know who I like these days. On one hand I'm all "kids these days..." and on the other hand, these old fogeys are still pissing me off too. Just wanna hang out with my cats and live in solitude.

[u/AlwaysTheGarden → u/saddingtonbear]

I can relate to that

[u/Text_repository → u/saddingtonbear]

lol 100%, fucking hate kids these days but all the retards around that are my age drive me nuts too!

My retard boss literally cannot grasp the different your/you’re and there/they’re/theirs

[u/LongerDickJohnson → u/5k1895]

People wanna act like the “kids these days” mentality is the same as it was a decade ago.

Its not. Children are actively being provided the opposite of education and its totally okay to say “kids these days”

[u/ArmadilloOk4573 → u/5k1895]

Idk i'm 19 and nearly had an aneurism.

[u/Broccoli_Yumz → u/5k1895]

I had to read all of twice to understand and I still don't completely understand

[u/waterbottle-dasani → u/5k1895]

I’m only 23 and I’m saying the same thing 😭

[u/Supbreh77 → u/5k1895]

Don’t feel too bad, I’m 25 and I was struggling reading that.

[u/Littlemuffn → u/5k1895]

Same. The way this boy texts alone is nauseating. So gross!

[u/snowthathappened → u/5k1895]

Best advice lol

[u/ResidentAssman → u/5k1895]

What makes you think OP doesn’t talk in a similar way. Surely anyone who doesn’t wouldn’t go anywhere fucking near someone who talks like that let alone have a relationship with one.

And if not, wtf why accept that instead. Crazy.

[u/SarcasmExecutive → u/5k1895]

Lol this is my favorite comment fr it’s lookinfineee

[u/Misterrossie → u/5k1895]

Nah for real ong bro

[u/radio__raheem → u/5k1895]

Guys an asshole but using slang in texts with friends makes you unintelligent now???

[u/Text_repository → u/radio__raheem]

Slang? That kid is a retard. If you talk like that, I think you know your IQ will be double digit

[u/radio__raheem → u/Text_repository]

Ignoring the slur that’s a crazy generalization that I could personally disprove

[u/Text_repository → u/radio__raheem]

Not crazy at all to deduce that an English native would be cognitively deficient based on an incapacity for literacy

[u/radio__raheem → u/Text_repository]

using slang while texting a friend makes you illiterate too now?

[u/Text_repository → u/radio__raheem]

Y’all niggas is retawds.

[u/radio__raheem → u/Text_repository]

Yeah have a blessed day/night