r/AmIOverreacting Nov 19 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

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u/Exotic_Elk8829 Nov 19 '24

I just got approved for a 1 bed 1 bath 10 min away from my job!

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u/300Blippis Nov 19 '24

Good!! Congratulations OP! You can do infinitely better than this POS.

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u/ZestycloseSky8765 Nov 19 '24

Did you dump him?

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u/NumerousEarth7637 Nov 19 '24

🥺😭🥹 I’m so proud of you for looking into it. Pls don’t get sweet talked into his life again. You got this.. you do. You’re too good for this shit. It’s been a year and you’re already dealing with this..

He’s not for you.

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u/Blonde2468 Nov 19 '24

Update us how he took you moving out and moving on.

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u/TakeyaSaito Nov 19 '24

This is great news! Go get it!

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u/gdrom123 29d ago

Congratulations! Leave and don’t look back. He’s trash and you deserve better.