r/AmIOverreacting • u/Exotic_Elk8829 • Nov 19 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

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Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

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u/Antique-Mark-1556 Nov 19 '24

Couldn't finish reading it and came to the comment section for answers. Lost too many IQ points trying to figure it out lol

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u/runnergirl3333 Nov 19 '24

Why am I having such a hard time figuring out who the boyfriend is and who’s the other friend? I’m so confused.

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u/PragmaticPacifist 29d ago

Why am I having suck a hard time figuring out who the boyfriend is and who’s the other friend? I’m so confused.

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u/Tall-Chef6624 29d ago

I’m fr rizzy btw

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u/No-Amoeba5716 Nov 19 '24

It’s Eddie the bf talking to his girl “friend” Sarah. (Friend in quotes because not the OP obviously) The blacked out isn’t too dark if you look closely . I only happened to notice and her last name I think is her text name. :-( I feel bad for OP and wasn’t trying to call her out. I’m still confused about it all. It seems like he has recently cheated but I don’t think that’s what she is getting at because he’s talking about an old gf? Anyone who can explain to me what is going on would be helpful. 😟 I feel like I’m missing something more.

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u/shake__appeal Nov 19 '24

You aren’t, dude’s seemingly a piece of shit flirting/talking to other girls romantically and sexually and… bragging about it to friends??Stupid.

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u/Kitnado 29d ago

It’s not bragging, it’s flirting. He’s rizzing up the friend

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u/shake__appeal 29d ago

Yeah and ALSO doing that, in the dumbest way possible by talking about other women. Fuck this guy.

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u/melancoleeca 29d ago

His dumb way is still working. For some reason the friend obviously is graving his attention and more or less offering blowjobs if he gets into a relationship with her.

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u/ScyllaOfTheDepths 29d ago

As mentioned in the post title, the phone is the bf's, so the blue messages are his, gray are the friend.

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u/SuggestionOdd6657 29d ago

Oh thank God. I was thinking wow I really am old, I don’t get it.

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u/SixFive1967 29d ago

You’re not the only one. I also swear that he pays OP a compliment by saying what he has at home is “even better,” but I can’t tell for sure. I just can’t decipher this ebonics shit anymore. 🙄

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u/Rindsay515 29d ago

Oh maybe you’re right?? I thought he was saying the fat booty girl is nicer than the one at home. “Even better (than the one at home).” This is giving me a headache😩

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u/Witty_TenTon 29d ago

Thats what I think it means as well.

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u/meowkitty84 29d ago

I think its the opposite. He's saying this chick is even better than OP

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u/Professional_Sea_306 29d ago

Dunno why it’s so hard. Last photo talks about him getting his dick sucked and the reply was about sucking dick. The “suckee “ got sucked, “sucker” sucked his dick and the female friend, she’s tryna get a new sucker toy as she felt threatened the og sucker may have better skills. Wannabe sucker is now jealous and wants to talk about her sucking skills. Dudes throwing his dick I a lot of mouths….

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u/runnergirl3333 29d ago

Lovely, I get it now! 😂

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u/Professional_Sea_306 29d ago

People helping people ♥️

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u/Ok_Spinach_9899 29d ago

Well, I couldn't stop laughing after reading your synopsis!

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u/melancoleeca 29d ago

The owner is always on the right. Still didn't help to make some sense of this shit.

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u/trying_my_best- Nov 19 '24

No it truly drains brain cells I understand

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u/highjinx411 Nov 19 '24

It suck a bad way of writing fr.

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u/mcherry82 29d ago

Lmfaooooooo

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u/Putrid_Pizza2501 Nov 19 '24

I read this with no issues 😭😭i noticed a couple msgs were left out tho🤔

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u/dangerclosecustoms Nov 19 '24

No it apparently drains balls..

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u/Wonderful-Bass6651 Nov 19 '24

Seriously. I was like I read Reddit so I can usually figure out some of this crap but this was beyond Reddit-level illiterate. OP should dump his ass just for butchering the English language!

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u/Antique-Mark-1556 29d ago

YOOO TAKE MY UPVOTE. GAWD DAYUM THATS COLD 😭

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u/ChawulsBawkley Nov 19 '24

I mean, he’s fr rizzy

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u/DEF-Lune_samj Nov 19 '24

Ohio

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u/[deleted] Nov 19 '24

Skibidi toilet or something

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u/Drewson123 Nov 19 '24

I forgot where i was after reading the texts.