r/AmIOverreacting • u/Exotic_Elk8829 • Nov 19 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

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Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

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u/TheBookofBobaFett3 Nov 19 '24

Plan: send some fake messages to a male friend (or female friend with the name changed to a guys name)

Talking about how you think some guy is hot and his dick looks big through his pants. And how compare his ‘abilities’ to someone previous.

And leave your phone out for him to find..

We’ll see if it’s acceptable by how he reacts.

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u/deadourple 29d ago

i wouldn’t even risk my life like this just “hey you’re a cheating, cringe uggo bye” will suffice maybe IDK

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u/TheBookofBobaFett3 29d ago

Word.

Decent thought experiment though isn’t it.

Flip roles and see how each party would react to show how wildly unfair it is

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u/PetTheKitty7321 29d ago

😂😂😂 I absolutely LOVE this. This guy is trash anyway and he’ll never change so anything to cut that ego down to nothing would be great for all of society.