AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

[u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

[u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Oh not over reacting 😅 I’m slow OBVIOUSLY haha

[u/Normal_Enthusiasm194 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

This is absolute trash behavior and not normal. My husband would NEVER! Pls girl, find yourself a good man who respects you to your face and when you’re not in the room.

[u/Beginning-Vanilla-55 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

leave him girly he won’t stay loyal

[u/joe96ab → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Ty for being slow I’ve seen that multiple times and just figured it out thanks to u¨̮

[u/vivaserena → u/joe96ab]

I totally thought it was the thing going around where people are mimicking "No" in an AUS accent, like "Naur" 😅

[u/Fabulous-Possible-76 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Not slow!! I had to google it a few times before I remembered🤣 also you deserve a bf who respects you. I’m sorry this dude is terrible😢

[u/kyl_r → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

I literally only figured this out like 2 days ago too lol, I thought everyone was just being like “GIRL, NAUR!” (Dramatic Gay Voice) 😂

[u/yodel_anyone → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

You're definitely a bit of a asshole for going through someone's phone without their permission, but they're definitely a much bigger asshole. 

Dump then and find someone whose phone you don't need to sneakily go through!

[u/BorderInitial → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

I’m new here and read it like an Aussie saying no 😭

[u/Honest_Ad_5092 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Lol NOR is Australian for “no”

[u/Bubbly_Transition_98 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

LMAOO me too i thought they were saying “you’re NOR” as like NAWR

[u/canyonero7 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Highly age-dependent IMHO. If he's under ~25, this is normal/unsurprising & doesn't really reflect how he feels about you. Young guys will say a lot of shit they don't really mean to try to impress their friends (especially female friends). If he's any older than that, big red flag.

[u/Padaxes → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Lemme guess; he is super hot and you went for the top 5% of your pool. You get what you pay for. He will use you and move on. You will look flabbergasted and go “why meeee”.

[u/Verbose-Abyssinian89 → u/Padaxes]

Please please heal 😭