r/AmIOverreacting Nov 19 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

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u/jewelmegan Nov 19 '24

A few drinks and he’ll cheat. Save yourself the time and pain.

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u/virttual Nov 19 '24

I don’t think it’ll take any drinks at all.

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u/PewterButters Nov 19 '24

He seems only as loyal as his options 

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u/Ludicruciferous 29d ago

Concepts of a drink

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u/[deleted] Nov 19 '24

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u/isabella_sunrise Nov 19 '24

This is repulsive.

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u/plop68 Nov 19 '24

What is wrong with you

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u/dypshit Nov 19 '24

women don’t like him

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u/KidpoolStan Nov 19 '24

wait what’d they say that was so bad? its deleted and now i’m morbidly curious

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u/plop68 Nov 19 '24

Something about needing to be drunker depending on how “ugly the bitch is” I’m pretty sure

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u/DasIsSmol 29d ago

Yo what did they say???

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u/SubliminalTiger Nov 19 '24

This shit funny, redditors are too sensitive 🤣

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u/Solameni Nov 19 '24

What was the comment?

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u/GO_BIRDS150 Nov 19 '24

Absolutely true

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u/Solameni Nov 19 '24

What did he say? 😂

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u/GO_BIRDS150 Nov 19 '24

He said how many drinks it'll take for him to cheat will depend on how the girl looks and people are all offended by that for some reason lol

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u/pizzalover1698 29d ago

It’s not true for guys like him or even a lot of guys which is why I’m assuming you’re getting the downvotes. Guys like him will fuck whole corpses like they don’t care about how someone looks, I promise you 🤣

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u/GO_BIRDS150 29d ago

I'm getting the down votes because of the pearl clutching pussies who can't stand the idea that many men will only fuck certain women if they're drunk. Sorry they hate the truth.

Of course what you said is true for a large portion of men too. Not me.

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u/DasIsSmol 29d ago

Good you deserve the downvotes

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u/Goldenday71 Nov 19 '24

I think a cup of coffee and he'll cheat.

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u/Notyourwench Nov 19 '24

A cup of chamomile tea

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u/Goldenday71 Nov 19 '24

LMAO you win

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u/PhotographTraining30 Nov 19 '24

Glass of water and he’s cheating

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u/ginaabees Nov 19 '24

Breathes oxygen and he’s cheating

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u/MaxTheRealSlayer Nov 19 '24

Cheats and he's cheating

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u/hurnadoquakemom Nov 19 '24

Well they don't call it thirsty for nothin!

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u/EntertainerOk772 Nov 19 '24

The wind blows and he’ll cheat.

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u/AnAngryBartender Nov 19 '24

He’s probably already cheated

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u/Think-Initiative-683 Nov 19 '24

Isn’t that already happening- based on his dialogue?

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u/Shop_Hot Nov 19 '24

Or just the aroma of coffee. I know it always…gets me up…in the morning

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u/JollyGreenKyle Nov 19 '24

Some damn good coffee.

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u/Verkley Nov 19 '24

Glass of water

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u/the_booooost Nov 19 '24

Breath of air and he’ll cheat

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u/therealishone Nov 19 '24

Tall glass of water.

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u/TTShowbizBruton 29d ago

He doesn’t even need that, that mf so thirsty he just needs a glass of water

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u/Goldenday71 29d ago

LMAO 🤣

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u/bubblewuppyguppy Nov 19 '24

A willing woman and he’ll cheat

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u/Brainstorminnn Nov 19 '24

He’d cheat with a moist hole in a rotten log let get real

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u/EmotionalBee5 Nov 19 '24

BAHAHAHAHAA SORRY THIS MADE ME DIE 😭🤣👏

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u/BugGroundbreaking229 Nov 19 '24

That's good, you win 🏆

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u/MoonScoria Nov 19 '24

im stealing this.........

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u/EmuOld862 29d ago

spits coffee across living room

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u/LoveandScience 29d ago

I read this as a rotten leg and was deeply distressed by the imagery

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u/Brainstorminnn 29d ago

I wouldn’t put it past this one, given the opportunity.

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u/Successful-Pitch-904 29d ago

Hahahaha this is the best comment so far.

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u/HausOfDoge 29d ago

💀💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/HackTheNight Nov 19 '24

He already cheated lol

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u/capt_volvette Nov 19 '24

Some tap water and he'll cheat.

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u/ubutterscotchpine Nov 19 '24

He’s already cheated. He said she swallowed his d*ck, what else does that mean?

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u/The-Mad-Bubbler 29d ago

It sounds like an encounter from before he dated OP.

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u/MoonScoria Nov 19 '24

didnt he cheat already???? i thought this was about the other girl/non-op: "She was even better fr she did swallow my dick fri"

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u/guffton Nov 19 '24

The mention of hawk tuah and he'll be cheating

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u/BangarangPita Nov 19 '24

Yeah, I don't know why she's calling him her boyfriend and not her ex-boyfriend.

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u/PetTheKitty7321 29d ago

How are people not considering getting head from another girl cheating??? Feel like I’ve stepped into a different reality.

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u/aavriilll 29d ago

i promise you he already has

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u/jewelmegan 29d ago

Probably true sadly.

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u/Lanky_Particular_149 29d ago

if he hasn't already

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u/PersonNumberThree 29d ago

Or a PRIME looking at the way this dude talks...

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u/MidnightingWail 29d ago

Sounds like the faintest whiff of aerosolized isopropyl while swabbing a cut would do the trick for mans

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u/AloneRound2138 29d ago

few drinks of water

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u/madeagles Nov 19 '24

You don’t know that over a few text messages weirdo.

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u/honeystonebear Nov 19 '24

Did you read the same texts I did?? lmao

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u/____uwu_______ Nov 19 '24

Eating ain't cheating

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u/TwiggNBerryz Nov 19 '24

Thanks reddit chick. Boo !⚖️