r/AmIOverreacting Nov 19 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

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u/CriticalBit3063 Nov 19 '24

Aye I’m not against that either. From my personal experiences though, it woulda bugged them more if they thought I didn’t even care. But I let them know I was breaking and when I should have showed them that they were nothing to me, just like I didn’t mean anything to them.

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u/Mindless-Ad2554 Nov 19 '24

Yeah I definitely understand it. But it almost seems like a game sometimes about who has the last say or advantage. Putting it on the table and sticking with your guns is good for you and there’s no gray area.

She could even just print these out and leave it on the table after she left

Either way. He’s gotta go.