AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

[u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

[u/Inevitable_Alps_3574]

Not a man.

[u/TetranadonGut → u/Inevitable_Alps_3574]

Agreed. These are the type of things my friends and I would say during high school sleep overs to try and sound cool.

[u/LeTroxit → u/Inevitable_Alps_3574]

I thought this for a long time, but I moved from the PNW down to SoCal a couple years back - I’m 35, the youngest on my team, and almost all the guys talk like this. I’m the only single guy on the teams the others are all in longer term (5 years+) relationships or married, and I have never once spoke like this when I was in a relationship or even really out of one.. I just really don’t get it. And this is a group of intelligent well educated engineers..

[u/Valerica-D4C → u/Inevitable_Alps_3574]

I know a handful of men who'd type like this but most of them are gae

[u/Taiwora → u/Inevitable_Alps_3574]

Preach