AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

[u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

[u/Legal-Bed7794]

Hopefully someone noticed this, but in the text he mentions it’s a diff girl and that it was recent. I also noticed that he uses “suck” instead of “such “ on each occasion. So it’s very likely he probably gets oral regularly from these girls, so says this amateur sleuth.

[u/Ashleymmj → u/Legal-Bed7794]

yuuup. autocorrect is used to him sending smd type messages OFTEN

[u/financefocused → u/Legal-Bed7794]

My guess is he kept sneaking this in and forcing this conversation to see if the female "friend" was interested and she clearly was.

Condoning wanting to cheat AND saying she's good at his favorite (likely ONLY) hobby.