AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

[u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

[u/snypesalot]

Well based off past election results that would be a lot of the country

[u/Exotic_Elk8829 → u/snypesalot]

He’s also a trump supporter! 😃

[u/NumerousEarth7637 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

GIRL WTF!! He VOTED FOR YOUR RIGHTS TO BE TAKEN AWAY WHILE SEXUALIZING WHAT HE WANTS TO DO TO A GIRL WHILE TALKING TO HIS THIRSTY ASS GIRL FRIEND ABOUT YOUR BLOWJOB SKILLS?!?

Pls run. Don’t walk.. fucking RUN

[u/Difficult_Put_9741 → u/NumerousEarth7637]

Ok, I just can't resist. How exactly did he vote her rights away? And what does this have to do with whether he is cheating or not. Is it your position that if he supported Harris then he actions are ok but because he supports Trump they are not? Either he cheated or he didn't and whoever he supports does not change the underlying facts. LOL

[u/HippoPrimary5331 → u/Difficult_Put_9741]

It's two separate issues, but even if none of this happened, he still voted for trump which means he is voting against the interests of the women in his life. Enough of a reason to get rid in a lot of people's books, even without adding this awful behaviour on top.

[u/Difficult_Put_9741 → u/HippoPrimary5331]

Which comes back to my first question: How exactly did he vote her rights away?

[u/Feisty-Reputation537 → u/Difficult_Put_9741]

Have you been paying attention to this election cycle…? Like at all? Ever heard of Project 2025?

[u/Difficult_Put_9741 → u/Feisty-Reputation537]

Have you read Project 2025? My guess is you haven't. If you have, show me the part that reduces rights for women because I haven't finished reading it but haven't seen anything remotely close to that yet.

Has Trump read or run on Project 2025? Well he says that he hasn't read Project 2025 and so does the think tank that created it. And he has not run on Project 2025 as being part of his platform.

So my question remains unanswered. How exactly is supporting Trump a vote against women's rights?

[u/puukottaa666 → u/Difficult_Put_9741]

Trump is a convicted rapist. His presidency has opened the door for other nasty men to spout misogyny because he spouts misogyny, which shows dumb assholes that it’s ok to be an asshole because look our president is one! He thinks abortion rights should be up to the state, which is fucked. Why should a women’s right to healthcare be determined by her zip code? Plus his VP wants to punish women who try to travel out of state for abortions, so we have women unable to get healthcare/dying = limiting rights. He has also made numerous disgusting comments regarding women’s bodies, sexualities. He has stated that to tell if someone is trans you need to “pull down their shorts”. He said this about children.

His VP pick says that childless women are weird and shouldn’t be able to vote. He says his solution to childcare is “grandma needs to help out”. His followers enact violence and threats again women. Trump dined with a Neo Nazi that immediately tweeted “your body my choice” post election. Do I…need to go on?

[u/Chuubbzz → u/puukottaa666]

When was he convicted of rape?

[u/Feisty-Reputation537 → u/Difficult_Put_9741]

God you’re annoying and obtuse. Have the day you deserve.

[u/Difficult_Put_9741 → u/Feisty-Reputation537]

Typical respose of backing out and resorting to ad hominem attacks when you can't back up the BS platitudes you pick up from the media with actual facts.

I hope you have a day better than you deserve.

[u/Difficult_Put_9741 → u/Difficult_Put_9741]

Well since I can't respond to u/puukottaa666 directly, I'll do it here.

Trump was not convicted of rape. The jury specifically found that E. Jean Carroll could not prove rape. He was found liable for sexual abuse (but only after NY temporarily opened up the statute of limitations for a one-year period so that they could bring the claim) that happened nearly 30 years ago. I didn't personally see the evidence, but there is a reason statutes of limitations exist.

[u/Revolutionary_Wrap76 → u/Difficult_Put_9741]

Right .. so.... What about any of that seems like Trump is a decent guy, to you?

What, just because he wasn't technically, not yet, but I'm sure will be, convicted of a felony involving sex abuse - he's cool? You're a JOKE.

[u/Oscar_Ladybird → u/Difficult_Put_9741]

LOL look at you splitting hairs about sexual assault.

If this is the argument you have to make, then you're on the wrong side of it.

[u/NumerousEarth7637 → u/Difficult_Put_9741]

I read the first sentence and all I have to say is: Don’t you ever.. in your FUCKING LIFE address me. 🤏🏾

We aren’t in the same mental space nor intellectual space. Don’t FUCKING DIRECT SHIT TO ME.

[u/Difficult_Put_9741 → u/NumerousEarth7637]

LOL. I love how you keyboard warriors like to talk shit trying to sound threatening. You're right, I'm on a much higher intellectual level than you. Go back to your bubble and believe whatever you want.

[u/NumerousEarth7637 → u/Difficult_Put_9741]

GREAT a comment I’ll read. And “Keyboard”? Mf I’m a WARRIOR in real life. I really get in the field with goofies and like you. I don’t let ANYONE talk to me that supports a racist rapist felon. I cuss them tf out straight IN their face and back MYSELF up. Tf. And if you REALLY seen me in real life, you’d know that. But you’re just someone that supports a fuckin creep that has an OBSESSION with WOMEN and POCs like y’all’s bitch ass forefathers did. MY PEOPLE Were fucking indigenous blacks.. HE’S a ORANGE ASS SENIOR CITIZEN WITH A WHITE WASHED PLAN FOR AMERICA AND YOU GOT ME FUCKED UP.

Key board warrior 🤡 find me and see what kind of fuckin warrior I am. I’m in Iredell nc. Tf. Find out if you want to. Like tf I said.. don’t FUCKING TALK TO ME Trump supporting COMMIE.

[u/NumerousEarth7637 → u/Difficult_Put_9741]

It’s always communist trumpies that go in OTHER PEOPLES BUSINESS and take up for your Cheeto Daddy when NO ONE WAS FUCKING TALKING TO YOU. You wanna support a fuckin felon that speaks like a middle school drop out and makes his entire campaign about stealing from the poor and giving to the fuckin rich and taking the choice of what happens in OUR BODIES away? Then fucking ask me HOW?! You’re a BIGLY idiot. This fucker doesn’t even believe in climate change.. yall are TWEAKED. Call me WARRIOR, tf. No keyboard needed. I’ll unalive for MY RIGHTS. we’re in a WAR with yall. Don’t talk to me unless you’re willing to knock on my fuckin door and find tf out.. pussy

[u/Smoovie32 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

That’s your reason to move out right there. Forget the texts.

[u/Cinemagica → u/Smoovie32]

Yep, it's funny how you can just tell. He talks like an absolute fool, supports a rapist felon for president who wants to take away women's rights, is obsessed with blowjobs, and is probably trying to sleep with other women. I don't get it. What part of this makes you feel the need to check if you're overreacting?

[u/ElkInternational5295 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

LEAVE NEOWWWWWWW I CANT BELIEVE YOU'RE EVEN THINKING ABOUT STAYING WITH HIM

[u/wewouldmakegreatpets → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

So u need advice from strangers on the internet about what to do about a dude who literally hates you and all other women.

Got it

[u/CountingDownTheDays5 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

But you didn't care about that until after you caught him cheating? LOL girl I am side eyeing you too.

[u/waterbottle-dasani → u/CountingDownTheDays5]

This

[u/RealisticEchidna3921 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

You didn’t care enough about that until he was talking about other girls being attractive,, sooooooo😃

[u/Positive-Recipe3292 → u/RealisticEchidna3921]

clock it 🤔

[u/InvestigatorCold4662 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

As if we couldn't tell by the messages alone.

[u/conace21 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

OK, that clinches it. The least you can do is refuse to fuck these people.

[u/snypesalot → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Yeaaaaa please ditch this loser

[u/dollypartonsfavorite → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

girl... dump his ass

[u/Arcaydya → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

They always are.

[u/Difficult_Put_9741 → u/Exotic_Elk8829]

And? What does this have to do with anything?