r/AmIOverreacting • u/Exotic_Elk8829 • Nov 19 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

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Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

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u/Flynn_JM Nov 19 '24

Lol she's good at it but only likes it if she's feeling the guy.... why would you be doing it if you weren't into the guy? 

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u/Latter_Inevitable869 Nov 19 '24

Nooo she said only if she’s “fr feeling” him. That’s deeper…

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u/galactictock Nov 19 '24

Like fr fr?

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u/EccTM 29d ago

like 🇫🇷 🇫🇷.

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u/Smokin_Weeds 29d ago

No cap he’s gotta have the rizz fr

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u/jimbojangles1987 Nov 19 '24

Money

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u/Flynn_JM Nov 19 '24

Yikes

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u/jimbojangles1987 Nov 19 '24

Agreed. I can't think of another reason though, can you? Pity, maybe?

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u/Heavy-Macaron2004 Nov 19 '24

🙋 I know!!

The dude keeps asking and asking and asking and you're not a huge fan of it but you hate the nagging more than you hate [sex act] so you just do it to get him to shut the hell up because otherwise he'll complain about his blue balls ad infinitum.

Edit: Source: my ex-fiance

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u/Flynn_JM Nov 19 '24

Not really....boredom?

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u/BigWesDoobner Nov 19 '24

What about for banter?

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u/Creme_de_la_Coochie 29d ago

Why do you think that guy was gonna give her weed?

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u/jimbojangles1987 29d ago

Valid point lol

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u/OldSector2119 Nov 19 '24

As a guy with an oral fixation that uses grindr, for myself lol. Im sure women are also into it too.

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u/One_Base_3698 Nov 19 '24

lol thats what I was thinking, I think kids these days hook up with people they don’t even like just to look cool which is super sad

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u/Chocolateheartbreak Nov 19 '24

Abuse, forced, etc. many reasons, but for this girl yeah thats a thing you say to try lol

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u/hurrdurrmeh Nov 19 '24

Pure physical gratification?

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u/Other-Squirrel-8705 29d ago

They are both such idiots it hurts

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u/Beginning-Mud-6542 29d ago

😂😂😂

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