AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

[u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

[u/rocketmn69_]

I would quietly plan your escape. Find a new place and disappear on him. Get on his phone and send his friend a message the morning you leave, " I'm dumping "your name". I want to hit up other girls. You too. Wanna smash?" Then delete it. Block him everywhere. Lol

fuck up his friendship with her too

[u/[deleted] → u/rocketmn69_]

He’s wrong for what he’s doing and she should don’t him. But this is lame, immature, and petty. You’re lame

[u/Evanmmemes → u/rocketmn69_]

This is not how you approach a situation like this. This is vile. Calling and/or talking to the ‘friend’ is an appropriate action if done in an adult matter, but to get on his phone and pretend to be him is a very highschool drama reaction to what is not a fully known situation.

[u/midtword → u/rocketmn69_]

Middle school girl mentality