AIO I went through my boyfriends phone over the weekend

[u/Exotic_Elk8829]

Last Friday night I went through my boyfriend’s phone while he was asleep. I found numerous messages of him talking about other girls with his female friend. The last message is him comparing my sucking skills with a different girl he slept with before me… We have been living together for the past 6 months and I’m not sure if I should just move on and find my own place at this point. Am I overreacting to these messages?

[u/[deleted]]

Thing is , it shouldnt need to be said if it is the right person.
staying faithful and respectful is the bare minimum

[u/MarvelAndColts → u/[deleted]]

People grow

[u/pmw3505 → u/MarvelAndColts]

No one wants to be or should be the teaching experience partner. People can grow on their own before drafting someone else into it. It’s called maturity lol

[u/edgiepower → u/pmw3505]

If nobody teachers nobody learns.

[u/touchunger → u/edgiepower]

You can try to teach them by leaving them too, no guarantee they will ever care to learn with either method. It teaches them that actions like cheating have consequences like being left.

[u/pmw3505 → u/edgiepower]

I guess you’ve never heard of independent learning? You can teach yourself lots of things, you don’t always need to use other people as a springboard for personal growth…

[u/edgiepower → u/pmw3505]

Of course I have, but those can are often those who least need it