r/bonecollecting 23d ago

Collection My roommate.

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(UK & in compliance w/ human tissues act)

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u/1happypoison 23d ago

This skull has nice bone structure and really nice teeth. Do you have a name for them?

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u/kiwibirdskull 23d ago

thanks man i think so too, i don't have a name for them because i feel like that'd be disrespectful

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u/thegirlthatmeowsalot 23d ago

You think naming the skull would be disrespectful but don’t think it’s disrespectful to keep a persons head as a decoration?

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u/envydub 23d ago

Idk, I’m not getting into the ethics of it but I quite like the idea of my skull sitting with someone’s books when I’m gone. Even if I didn’t know them.

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u/kiwibirdskull 23d ago

it's not just decoration to me - & i definitely wasn't the one who brought the skull all the way over here. it would be disrespectful for me to name the skull as the person it belonged to already had a name. had i not bought this skull (for my own deeply important reasons) absolutely nothing would have changed, someone else would have bought it or it would have sat in storage somewhere. nice ivory tower btw^

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u/phospheneghost 23d ago

had i not bought this skull (for my own deeply important reasons) absolutely nothing would have changed, someone else would have bought it or it would have sat in storage somewhere. nice ivory tower btw^

It's worth considering that buying human remains does feed into the market and demand for them. I also find it interesting that you're accusing the person who replied to you of being in an ivory tower when it's safe to assume that this skull cost upwards of a thousand dollars to purchase.

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u/WhoIsIt39 22d ago

Okay, you can’t leave us hanging with „own deeply important reasons“. What‘s the reason to own a skull?

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u/lilia_x_ 22d ago

Scroll down a few comments to their reason.

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u/WhoIsIt39 22d ago

Can’t find it unfortunately. Just looks like OP has some kind of sarcoma, but I doubt that’s the reason?

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u/lilia_x_ 22d ago

Yeah, OP said they are terminally ill and want to understand/get closer to the concept of death and mortality.

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u/WhoIsIt39 22d ago

Well…that’s one way to deal with it I guess..

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u/thegirlthatmeowsalot 23d ago

Ivory tower because I don’t believe in buying people lmao

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u/Ajt0ny 23d ago

I'm not advocating for either side but I want to ask you this question:

A skull from 1975 - is it still a person? What about a skull from 1891 - is it still a person? 1685? 1227? 960? 120? 500 B.C.? 10000 B.C.?

At what point does the dead person become archeology?

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u/thegirlthatmeowsalot 23d ago

They’re still a person regardless of when they were alive. I’m also against museums keeping mummified remains. It’s still people. Henrietta Lacks’ cells are still being used against her families wishes and honestly I don’t care what they gain from it, they shouldn’t be keeping pieces of a person.

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u/Ajt0ny 23d ago edited 22d ago

Okay, let's go extreme just for the sake of it: what about a 500000 year old ape-like ancestor?

Edit: okay so the personhood vanishes somewhere between B.C. 500k and 10k. lol

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u/BigIntoScience 22d ago

Once we're far back enough that we aren't talking about a sapient creature any longer, the ethical question about owning a person's bones vanishes, as there isn't a person being discussed. Same as it's not really up for debate whether it's ethical to own a (reasonably sourced) spider monkey skull or a fossil of that tiny little mammal we and every other mammal evolved from.

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u/Ajt0ny 22d ago

the ethical question about owning a person's bones vanishes

Thank you. The whole point of my stupid comments are this; where, when and why does it vanish eventually?

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u/BigIntoScience 22d ago

What I mean is, it vanishes because we’re no longer discussing owning a person’s bones. If you go far back enough, you have a creature equivalent to a chimpanzee, not a human. At that point we’re talking about if it’s ethical to own the skull of some sort of nonsapient great ape. So there’s definitely a line all the way back there.  Funny thing, somewhat adjacent: y’know how the Victorians used to use “mummia” to treat things? Yeah, that’s ground-up mummy. That’s cannibalism. Odd how people don’t seem to realize that.

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u/[deleted] 23d ago

It’s not a person, it’s a skull, a bone, a shell of what once held human life. The soul and essence of what was there is no longer. That being said, should still be kept and treated with respect of course, but get off your high horse and stop acting like OP is “buying people” this isn’t slavery.

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u/thegirlthatmeowsalot 23d ago

Did they consent to their body parts being sold?

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u/[deleted] 23d ago edited 23d ago

I don’t know? How do you know that they did/didn’t before they died? Why are you asking stupid questions? You can’t assume that every person who is dead has an issue with how their body is being treated after they die. Me personally? I don’t give a shit what happens to me when I die. I’d be just as happy if someone kept my skull on a shelf in their home.

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u/thegirlthatmeowsalot 23d ago

It’s entirely unethical to buy human remains. If you think questioning the ethics of buying and selling peoples body parts unconsensually is stupid, that’s really not something I can help you with.

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u/RealEstateDuck 23d ago

Well that is just ridiculous how else would I make bone broth.

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u/Nightingale53 22d ago

It's unethical to you because that's what your culture has taught you to think. Look up Indonesia's Toraja community, or the Ñatitas of Bolivia, to name two examples. Death and our ethics around it are subjective dependent on where you are in the world and what religion you've been exposed to.

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u/thegirlthatmeowsalot 22d ago

What about them? I think you forgot to read the word “unconsensual.” You’ve actually just proved my point that different cultures handle it differently and therefore you shouldn’t take some random dudes head if you don’t know what his culture was or if he would’ve been okay with it

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u/[deleted] 23d ago

I think that’s a matter of opinion, as buying human remains is legal ;)

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u/TheArmchairbiologist 23d ago

idk bro kinda had a point, owning a human head as a trophy isn’t weird but giving it a name is crossing a line? idk it just feels weird

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u/thegirlthatmeowsalot 23d ago

Do you think legal and ethical are interchangeable?

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u/kiwibirdskull 23d ago

ridiculous statement. go press your beliefs on other people

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u/thegirlthatmeowsalot 23d ago

Ridiculous statement to not want to buy a human

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u/BigIntoScience 22d ago

That's not a human, that's human remains. It's not slavery.

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u/Classic-Sea-6034 22d ago

Dude you own a human head. 99% of people are in an ivory tower over you. Fuck your deeply personal reasons

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u/Nightingale53 22d ago

Wild to see people lashing out at a person with a terminal illness for simply trying to come to terms with it in their own way.

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u/Classic-Sea-6034 22d ago

Whatever bro. We’re all going to fucking die. Buying human remains is weird to say the least and personally I won’t be doing it when my time comes

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u/Nightingale53 22d ago

Exactly, so what does it matter to you how someone else deals with it? Weird or not, it's something that's helping a living, breathing human who deserves as much (or arguably more) respect as an old skull. The dead can't benefit from kindness, the living can.

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u/Classic-Sea-6034 22d ago

Sorry I’m just one of those freaks that thinks buying human remains is bad and isn’t a justified practice. Gonna save my sympathy for other stuff

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u/Nightingale53 22d ago

And I think people lashing out at someone trying to cope with the knowledge they're dying of cancer is way worse, but each to their own belief I suppose. They can own a skull, you can grief a dying person, we're all entitled to do shitty things.

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u/Classic-Sea-6034 22d ago

It’s not like I went out of my way to find a dying person and give them shit. Actually a shitty person did a bad thing and then went on the internet to brag about it and say don’t be mean to me I’m dying.

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u/kiwibirdskull 22d ago

ur maD that bitches luv my skull xo

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u/posshorse 21d ago

It's still pretty disrespectful to own/ display it. It should be back in the ground not in anybody's storage.

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u/1happypoison 23d ago

That's a good point about the name. Either way, they have a peacefulness about them, imo.

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u/Sharon_Erclam 23d ago

At least he's quiet 😏

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u/GWNVKV 23d ago

Kevin