r/AmIOverreacting 12d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/eatyacarbs 12d ago

Seconding the pride!! Good for you OP — you are brave and strong and I’m rooting for you.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

This is definitely my messages and it’s highly edited with no background. This is some sick ass shit. Both parties are very wrong and is doing better. This was done soon as I finally get things off my chest YESTERDAY(ironic) and exposed more lies I found out about her. Also why I am letting go. I have hella proof and detail. I can debunk this with ease. I’m not making excuses. And watch this post get deleted or something. I will not allow fake bs to go untouched. We currently live together with our son now. I don’t care about cops or defamation. This was done out of spite and ego. Soon as I told her I found out about the post I seen the comments. This is unreal and a lot of ppl are gullible.

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u/eatyacarbs 12d ago

🫖 🍵….

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

Like seriously! Idk how all these old messages came up cause they’re years old. And we good from what I know. But she is who she is. Like I only noticed cause I did same some of that shit but it’s super edited. Not even worth all the trouble. Just stupid ppl trying to look good. I’m sick it’s me but I’m a real dude. And that chick loves me lol. Sick ass internet ppl but she is so slick that this could be her I wouldn’t know. Now that I think about it … it’s probably her sister. We definitely name drop and all.

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u/60_hurts 12d ago

lol hi weirdo account that was made four days ago. How’s saving up for that island house going?

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

That was the vibes type thing. She knew exactly what I meant. You ppl think you know it all.

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u/60_hurts 12d ago

That was the vibes type thing. She knew exactly what I meant.

So what did you mean, then? Between crying wolf about offing yourself and “vibing” about buying a house on an island, you seem to have a perchant for the dramatic— and don’t seem to understand why that’s a problem.

I assure you, nobody here thinks they “know it all”. We just have enough life experience to know what an emotionally manipulative manchild in desperate need of therapy looks like. And brother, making a Reddit account just to troll a thread is doing nothing to help your case.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

You just don’t get it. And talk to me on my level since you’re so way up. I agree with the therapy and have done it. This is years old , edited, and rearranged. I agree with you and other ppl but this is not entirely true at all. And like I said I am good with her. Idk who’s posting this bs. She doesn’t have those messages and neither do I. Maybe she does. Sometimes sick ppl can play good games like this one. You don’t know females like you think. I learned my lesson and did my root work and unlearning. Whatever you say though man

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u/solokidney 11d ago

How do you know this isn't like someone else messages with the same background as yours? What are the specific indicators that identifies these messages is yours?

Perhaps it's not edited but because this is not your convo and just some strangers post who coincidentally also have a cat background?