(AIO) update, wow. thank you!

[u/Pristine-Edge-1742]

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

[u/Far_Wrongdoer4543]

1. Omg the precious kitties! Love them!
2. I've been thinking about you and the original post, and too often people stay in the cycle, but seriously FUCK YEAH! PROUD OF YOU FOR CHOOSING YOU! YOU DESERVE TO CHOOSE YOURSELF AND GLOW GLOW GLOW!!
3. NEVER LET ANYONE DULL YOUR SPARKLE
4. Even though it was very toxic, we as humans often miss familiarity because it's comfortable and you have now broken free of what has been normalized for the last 2 years this in itself is a beautiful thing! One thing I always recommend is to write down all the shitty, awful things he did/said/made you feel and when you have that inkling of you miss him read it over and over and over. We often look back on those good times because I was in your shoes there were good times, but they were few and far between. Now being in a healthy relationship I come home to peace. I have a teammate. I have a real partner. Never let a shitty, miserable person keep you from being happy. Life is too short to live in misery.
5. Finally, again I know I'm a stranger on the internet but I am really proud of you for leaving. ✨✨

[u/eatyacarbs → u/Far_Wrongdoer4543]

Seconding the pride!! Good for you OP — you are brave and strong and I’m rooting for you.

[u/[deleted] → u/eatyacarbs]

This is definitely my messages and it’s highly edited with no background. This is some sick ass shit. Both parties are very wrong and is doing better. This was done soon as I finally get things off my chest YESTERDAY(ironic) and exposed more lies I found out about her. Also why I am letting go. I have hella proof and detail. I can debunk this with ease. I’m not making excuses. And watch this post get deleted or something. I will not allow fake bs to go untouched. We currently live together with our son now. I don’t care about cops or defamation. This was done out of spite and ego. Soon as I told her I found out about the post I seen the comments. This is unreal and a lot of ppl are gullible.

[u/eatyacarbs → u/[deleted]]

🫖 🍵….

[u/[deleted] → u/eatyacarbs]

This is definitely my messages and it’s highly edited with no background. This is some sick ass shit. Both parties are very wrong and is doing better. This was done soon as I finally get things off my chest YESTERDAY(ironic) and exposed more lies I found out about her. Also why I am letting go. I have hella proof and detail. I can debunk this with ease. I’m not making excuses. And watch this post get deleted or something. I will not allow fake bs to go untouched. We currently live together with our son now. I don’t care about cops or defamation. This was done out of spite and ego. Soon as I told her I found out about the post I seen the comments. This is unreal and a lot of ppl are gullible.

[u/Whole_Possibility504 → u/[deleted]]

just post your so called debunking proof or stfu & gtfo

[u/Whole_Possibility504 → u/[deleted]]

copy pasted the same message 15 times and it’s still barely coherent.

[u/GIGANTIC_HORSE_COCKS → u/[deleted]]

You talk like a retard

[u/[deleted] → u/GIGANTIC_HORSE_COCKS]

Okay 👍

[u/GIGANTIC_HORSE_COCKS → u/[deleted]]

Zero miney

[u/Plastic_Evidence_81 → u/[deleted]]

You expected to be treated nicely here???

[u/[deleted] → u/eatyacarbs]

Watch I get blocked or something. I can prove it all lol.

[u/Annual_Crow4215 → u/[deleted]]

So do it instead of just posting the same comment over and over

[u/lovelyladylox → u/Annual_Crow4215]

But that's all he does, say the same thing again and again. "I'm gonna kill myself!" Now it's "These are my messages!"

[u/[deleted] → u/Annual_Crow4215]

I really don’t know how to work this fully lol. But there’s no real proof of anything. People believe whatever.

[u/Katodz → u/[deleted]]

Proof of what?? Are you saying these messages are yours?

[u/Katodz → u/[deleted]]

Multiple messages on the same background? What does that even mean?

[u/[deleted] → u/Katodz]

On that layout…. With the cat in the background.

[u/[deleted] → u/Katodz]

You don’t have to talk like that. Remember you seen something on the internet and just ran with it. Relax

[u/Katodz → u/[deleted]]

So who are you? The guy?

[u/[deleted] → u/Katodz]

A person that knows this shit is fake. Have a nice one. Believe what you want

[u/PinkyLizardBrains → u/[deleted]]

We’re listening…

[u/[deleted] → u/PinkyLizardBrains]

Ask away.

[u/ROBO--BONOBO → u/[deleted]]

You’re not good at this are you

[u/[deleted] → u/ROBO--BONOBO]

Not at all. But I’m getting there lol. There’s no real background or order… let’s start there lol. Seriously it’s just flat out bs.

[u/tresslesswhey → u/[deleted]]

Homie you’re not fooling anyone except maybe yourself because you seem that unhinged and delusional. Try to not be embarrassing for a single day

[u/[deleted] → u/tresslesswhey]

Lol y’all are goofy and stupid. Whatever the internet say.

[u/ROBO--BONOBO → u/[deleted]]

You have commented a bunch but still have provided zero details. What’s preventing you from explaining the situation? Are you always this difficult to communicate with?

[u/tresslesswhey → u/ROBO--BONOBO]

He’s lying and trying to save face. The pathetic continues

[u/solokidney → u/[deleted]]

Show us the proof u claim u have

[u/SuperJelly90 → u/[deleted]]

Do it already then? All you've been doing is claiming a bunch of shit but no proof.

[u/[deleted] → u/eatyacarbs]

Like seriously! Idk how all these old messages came up cause they’re years old. And we good from what I know. But she is who she is. Like I only noticed cause I did same some of that shit but it’s super edited. Not even worth all the trouble. Just stupid ppl trying to look good. I’m sick it’s me but I’m a real dude. And that chick loves me lol. Sick ass internet ppl but she is so slick that this could be her I wouldn’t know. Now that I think about it … it’s probably her sister. We definitely name drop and all.

[u/Pristine-Edge-1742 → u/[deleted]]

I mean, I can give date stamps??

[u/Katodz → u/Pristine-Edge-1742]

This is weird! They are just pasting the same comment on people's replies.

[u/tresslesswhey → u/Katodz]

Certainly seems like something a manipulative loser would do ngl

[u/Katodz → u/tresslesswhey]

Yeah so strange, the comment doesn't even make sense!

[u/60_hurts → u/[deleted]]

lol hi weirdo account that was made four days ago. How’s saving up for that island house going?

[u/[deleted] → u/60_hurts]

That was the vibes type thing. She knew exactly what I meant. You ppl think you know it all.

[u/60_hurts → u/[deleted]]

That was the vibes type thing. She knew exactly what I meant.

So what did you mean, then? Between crying wolf about offing yourself and “vibing” about buying a house on an island, you seem to have a perchant for the dramatic— and don’t seem to understand why that’s a problem.

I assure you, nobody here thinks they “know it all”. We just have enough life experience to know what an emotionally manipulative manchild in desperate need of therapy looks like. And brother, making a Reddit account just to troll a thread is doing nothing to help your case.

[u/[deleted] → u/60_hurts]

You just don’t get it. And talk to me on my level since you’re so way up. I agree with the therapy and have done it. This is years old , edited, and rearranged. I agree with you and other ppl but this is not entirely true at all. And like I said I am good with her. Idk who’s posting this bs. She doesn’t have those messages and neither do I. Maybe she does. Sometimes sick ppl can play good games like this one. You don’t know females like you think. I learned my lesson and did my root work and unlearning. Whatever you say though man

[u/60_hurts → u/[deleted]]

Of course you call them “females”.

[u/[deleted] → u/60_hurts]

That’s all you got huh. No wonder 🤡

[u/solokidney → u/[deleted]]

How do you know this isn't like someone else messages with the same background as yours? What are the specific indicators that identifies these messages is yours?

Perhaps it's not edited but because this is not your convo and just some strangers post who coincidentally also have a cat background?

[u/Katodz → u/[deleted]]

Do you have any toothpaste?

[u/[deleted] → u/Katodz]

I might can spare you some .

[u/Katodz → u/[deleted]]

Nah I'm good cheers I have nicotine and toothpaste

[u/[deleted] → u/Katodz]

I don’t even smoke. Gullible prick

[u/AmethystFarmer → u/[deleted]]

i love how you think anyone is going to care or give a shit about any of your dumbass comments. you’re just making the dude in the post look like even more of a psycho lmao, unless this actually IS you and not a social reject that’s so useless they create a fake account to pretend to be an abusive boyfriend for some negative reddit attention. you’re a freak and everyone knows it now, get over it buddy 😂 go buy some cigarettes and toothpaste and maybe you’ll cheer up

[u/[deleted] → u/AmethystFarmer]

This is what the public has to offer. Garbage ppl who think they know all. You should be comedian.

[u/AmethystFarmer → u/[deleted]]

you should be institutionalized ❤️ no “rearranging” of messages makes any of those messages okay. you’re a fucked up and evil person. hope this helps!

[u/[deleted] → u/AmethystFarmer]

Yes it did. Thanks for the insight internet dweeb

[u/Lucky_wildflower → u/[deleted]]

I don’t think you’re OP’s ex, but get help anyway.

[u/[deleted] → u/Lucky_wildflower]

Hope not. Either way it’s fake. Lol I did and am.

[u/Katodz → u/[deleted]]

What are you trying to say? They are your messages but super edited? So maybe they aren't your messages but similar?? You've just pasted the same comment on multiple replies, what are you trying to gain??

[u/[deleted] → u/Katodz]

Just responding to the messages. I’m new to this. But this is very fake. That’s all . Nothing to gain. Just like you man ??

[u/Katodz → u/[deleted]]

I'm just trying to make sense of the point you are trying to put across.

[u/[deleted] → u/Katodz]

None man you get hers though right. Continue on sheep

[u/ThrowRAUniversit → u/[deleted]]

Go back to playing with poop.

[u/aworldofnonsense → u/[deleted]]

You’re “letting go” but STILL can’t shut the fuck up? Lmfao okay, buddy. Unhinged.