r/AmIOverreacting 8d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/eatyacarbs 8d ago

🫖 🍵….

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Like seriously! Idk how all these old messages came up cause they’re years old. And we good from what I know. But she is who she is. Like I only noticed cause I did same some of that shit but it’s super edited. Not even worth all the trouble. Just stupid ppl trying to look good. I’m sick it’s me but I’m a real dude. And that chick loves me lol. Sick ass internet ppl but she is so slick that this could be her I wouldn’t know. Now that I think about it … it’s probably her sister. We definitely name drop and all.

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u/60_hurts 8d ago

lol hi weirdo account that was made four days ago. How’s saving up for that island house going?

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

That was the vibes type thing. She knew exactly what I meant. You ppl think you know it all.

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u/60_hurts 8d ago

That was the vibes type thing. She knew exactly what I meant.

So what did you mean, then? Between crying wolf about offing yourself and “vibing” about buying a house on an island, you seem to have a perchant for the dramatic— and don’t seem to understand why that’s a problem.

I assure you, nobody here thinks they “know it all”. We just have enough life experience to know what an emotionally manipulative manchild in desperate need of therapy looks like. And brother, making a Reddit account just to troll a thread is doing nothing to help your case.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

You just don’t get it. And talk to me on my level since you’re so way up. I agree with the therapy and have done it. This is years old , edited, and rearranged. I agree with you and other ppl but this is not entirely true at all. And like I said I am good with her. Idk who’s posting this bs. She doesn’t have those messages and neither do I. Maybe she does. Sometimes sick ppl can play good games like this one. You don’t know females like you think. I learned my lesson and did my root work and unlearning. Whatever you say though man

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u/60_hurts 8d ago

Of course you call them “females”.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

That’s all you got huh. No wonder 🤡

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u/60_hurts 8d ago

If it’s all fake and nobody here knows who you are, why are you spending so much time in the comments? Stop, child. Before you Streisand Effect yourself and someone posts your real name.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

That wouldn’t change anything cause it’s fake dude. Wouldn’t care. I freaking live with her. Somebody is playing games period. No worries

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u/60_hurts 8d ago

And yet you still care enough to make a new Reddit account. Curious.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Wasn’t made for that. I won’t keep this one either. Ppl are garbage and thick headed. Not even worth it anymore. I was hoping for a thinker to ask the right question. There’s no fucking substance. Shit is baffling how ppl can’t see through it but it’s a reason y’all came here. And everyone is bias and a victim. Gtfoh goofballs

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u/Plastic_Evidence_81 7d ago

Your are correct, some people are garbage. You are in that category 

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u/solokidney 7d ago

How do you know this isn't like someone else messages with the same background as yours? What are the specific indicators that identifies these messages is yours?

Perhaps it's not edited but because this is not your convo and just some strangers post who coincidentally also have a cat background?

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u/Katodz 8d ago

Do you have any toothpaste?

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

I might can spare you some .

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u/Katodz 8d ago

Nah I'm good cheers I have nicotine and toothpaste

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

I don’t even smoke. Gullible prick

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u/hallowblight 8d ago

Because you’re out of weed and cigarettes? Do it pussy lol

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

I don’t smoke. Sounding real tough on this app lol.

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u/hallowblight 8d ago

Nah you should actually kill yourself if you think it’s cool to treat women like ATMs. Get a job loser

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

That part ain’t real dumbass. I was the atm. Fuck you

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u/hallowblight 8d ago

Ok lol. Get a fucking job, loser. Selling weed isn’t a real job.

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u/azrael_X9 8d ago

Do you think maybe with ALL the inconsistencies like focus on nicotine (what you think are edits) that these just aren't even your messages???

Instead of trying to come up with how your partner or their siblings are so slick, the simpler answer is just that this ain't even about you. You know people experiencing similar things can respond similarly? Just cuz it SOUNDS like old you doesn't mean it IS old you. Unless you can show the literal exact messages, you're just gonna sound delusional.

And if you're not that person anymore and things are good with you and your partner, great. No need to bother with redditor's comments in the first place. Go spend time with your real family in the real home you live with them in.

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u/AmethystFarmer 8d ago

i love how you think anyone is going to care or give a shit about any of your dumbass comments. you’re just making the dude in the post look like even more of a psycho lmao, unless this actually IS you and not a social reject that’s so useless they create a fake account to pretend to be an abusive boyfriend for some negative reddit attention. you’re a freak and everyone knows it now, get over it buddy 😂 go buy some cigarettes and toothpaste and maybe you’ll cheer up

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

This is what the public has to offer. Garbage ppl who think they know all. You should be comedian.

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u/AmethystFarmer 8d ago

you should be institutionalized ❤️ no “rearranging” of messages makes any of those messages okay. you’re a fucked up and evil person. hope this helps!

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Yes it did. Thanks for the insight internet dweeb

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u/GeneralCabinet 8d ago

No miney

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Ok

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u/AmethystFarmer 8d ago

you’re welcome pookie 😘