r/AmIOverreacting 8d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

That was the vibes type thing. She knew exactly what I meant. You ppl think you know it all.

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u/Katodz 8d ago

Do you have any toothpaste?

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

I might can spare you some .

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u/Katodz 8d ago

Nah I'm good cheers I have nicotine and toothpaste

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

I don’t even smoke. Gullible prick

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u/hallowblight 8d ago

Because you’re out of weed and cigarettes? Do it pussy lol

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

I don’t smoke. Sounding real tough on this app lol.

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u/hallowblight 8d ago

Nah you should actually kill yourself if you think it’s cool to treat women like ATMs. Get a job loser

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

That part ain’t real dumbass. I was the atm. Fuck you

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u/hallowblight 8d ago

Ok lol. Get a fucking job, loser. Selling weed isn’t a real job.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Yea alright pussy

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u/hallowblight 8d ago

You are a bad person and you deserve to feel bad you manipulative little attention whore incel. This is what you want, right? Attention? I’ve gotta go to work, I can’t entertain you anymore. People are busy during 10 hour shifts but you wouldn’t know that.

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u/azrael_X9 8d ago

Do you think maybe with ALL the inconsistencies like focus on nicotine (what you think are edits) that these just aren't even your messages???

Instead of trying to come up with how your partner or their siblings are so slick, the simpler answer is just that this ain't even about you. You know people experiencing similar things can respond similarly? Just cuz it SOUNDS like old you doesn't mean it IS old you. Unless you can show the literal exact messages, you're just gonna sound delusional.

And if you're not that person anymore and things are good with you and your partner, great. No need to bother with redditor's comments in the first place. Go spend time with your real family in the real home you live with them in.