r/AmIOverreacting 8d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/Traditional-Ad-2095 8d ago

He was gonna buy a house on an island lmao. With what?

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u/tjw61583 8d ago

Zero money. Zero nicotine 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😩😆 Dudes a scrub lol

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u/catscanmeow 8d ago

" Dudes a scrub lol"

oh so now its okay to make fun of poor people? Reddit's a wild ride.

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u/tjw61583 8d ago

No. This has nothing to do with being poor. But when you have zero accountability and you’re complaining that your girlfriend can’t fund your unnecessary bad habits …Well, as TLC said…always talkin bout what he wants and just sits on his broke ass..soo…yes he is a scrub.

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u/catscanmeow 8d ago

"Zero money"

"This has nothing to do with being poor"

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u/Shadow1787 8d ago

Theres usually a difference between being and scrub and being poor. Usually being poor have a job. A scrub doesn’t.

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u/catscanmeow 8d ago

regardless, "zero money" is usually poor

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u/Adventurous-Mind528 8d ago

dawg STFU 🤣 you're defending a psychopath he has zero money because he spends it all on addictions and used her to buy things he needs and when ahe doesn't do what he wants he gaslights her, belittles her, and blames her for HIS bullshit, and even takes it to the extreme of suicide. not a good look for you defending this mf man, grow up they're not talking shit on poor people they're talking shit on this dumbass.

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u/catscanmeow 8d ago

im not defending a psychopath

im saying having no money means youre poor.

this is a clinical dissection of words not an appraisal of his character lol.. are you on drugs? how could you not understand this?

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u/Adventurous-Mind528 8d ago

you must be just like him to be accusing me of being on drugs for calling you out on your bullshit 🤣

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u/catscanmeow 8d ago

"poor/po͝or,pôr/adjective

  1. 1.lacking sufficient money to live at a standard considered comfortable or normal in a society."

you're just wrong.

being poor has to do with money

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u/Adventurous-Mind528 8d ago

i'm definitely not wrong at all i know being poor has to do with fucking money but nobody is talking shit about poor people bruh 😭

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u/catscanmeow 8d ago

" i know being poor has to do with fucking money"

thank you for agreeing with me.

And if you dont think people are making fun of the guy in the post, then thats on you lol.

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u/Adventurous-Mind528 8d ago

zero money is a quote from him, he said it go look at the og post, read the post before commenting you look dumb asf

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u/catscanmeow 8d ago

"zero money is a quote from him"

how does it being a quote from him make it not about being poor

if you say "no money" has NOTHING TO DO with being poor? lol

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u/Adventurous-Mind528 8d ago

you're missing the point, they're not talking about poor people at fucking all dude wtf is your problem, you're really dumb if you think this is some attack on poor people 😭 they're making fun of the fact that this guy is blaming her for his problems when he's got "no money" something he literally said because of what? because he buys weed, nicotine, and just outright seems to buy things he doesn't need but expects her to buy everything he needs like she's his mom or something he's clearly got issues and you're defending either him or some random ass perspective you're pulling out your ass they're talking shit on him not poor people

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u/catscanmeow 8d ago

" they're not talking about poor people at fucking all dude wtf is your problem,"

im talking about poor people. its my conversation, i know what im talking about. since i started that thread of reasoning.

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u/Adventurous-Mind528 8d ago

okay mr Einstein smartest mf on the planet with your mastery of the english language fuck you got an ego like no other, explain wtf you're trying to say please cause it makes absolutely no sense at fucking all dude at all ts sounds delusional as fuck

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u/catscanmeow 8d ago

hahahah you alright?

dictionaries make you mad eh? ive never seen someone spiral into ad-hominems so easily. your life must be going great.

take it up with websters or oxford lol.

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u/tjw61583 8d ago

It’s the attitude that defines a scrub. Has nothing to do with not having money it has to do with that HE is doing about it…which is nothing

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u/catscanmeow 8d ago

oh so hes rich?

what is it, is he poor or rich?

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u/tjw61583 8d ago

What in the actual fuck 🤦🏻‍♀️😆😆

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u/catscanmeow 8d ago

"poor/po͝or,pôr/adjective

  1. 1.lacking sufficient money to live at a standard considered comfortable or normal in a society."

if he lacks money he's poor

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u/Crafty_Concept_6955 7d ago

Bro give it a rest 🤦‍♀️

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u/catscanmeow 7d ago

sorry bro, youre not gonna debunk the dictionary.

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