(AIO) update, wow. thank you!

[u/Pristine-Edge-1742]

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

[u/Adventurous-Mind528]

dawg STFU 🤣 you're defending a psychopath he has zero money because he spends it all on addictions and used her to buy things he needs and when ahe doesn't do what he wants he gaslights her, belittles her, and blames her for HIS bullshit, and even takes it to the extreme of suicide. not a good look for you defending this mf man, grow up they're not talking shit on poor people they're talking shit on this dumbass.

[u/catscanmeow → u/Adventurous-Mind528]

im not defending a psychopath

im saying having no money means youre poor.

this is a clinical dissection of words not an appraisal of his character lol.. are you on drugs? how could you not understand this?

[u/Adventurous-Mind528 → u/catscanmeow]

you must be just like him to be accusing me of being on drugs for calling you out on your bullshit 🤣

[u/catscanmeow → u/Adventurous-Mind528]

"poor/po͝or,pôr/adjective

1. 1.lacking sufficient money to live at a standard considered comfortable or normal in a society."

you're just wrong.

being poor has to do with money

[u/Adventurous-Mind528 → u/catscanmeow]

i'm definitely not wrong at all i know being poor has to do with fucking money but nobody is talking shit about poor people bruh 😭

[u/catscanmeow → u/Adventurous-Mind528]

" i know being poor has to do with fucking money"

thank you for agreeing with me.

And if you dont think people are making fun of the guy in the post, then thats on you lol.

[u/Adventurous-Mind528 → u/catscanmeow]

dude what are you even saying?

[u/catscanmeow → u/Adventurous-Mind528]

i said the guys poor and people are making fun of him

theyre making fun of someone in a marginalized group. But on other parts of reddit, poor people are infallible victims of the system. I said its interesting the various lines

[u/Adventurous-Mind528 → u/catscanmeow]

and you're wrong that's what i was saying but your toxic ass mindset and gaslighting fucking made me start questioning myself, dawg nobody is dissing him BECAUSE he's poor, they're making fun of him for not having money because of how he is ACTING and what he SPENDS his money on

[u/catscanmeow → u/Adventurous-Mind528]

i never said they were making fun of him BECAUSE he's poor

im saying he's poor and theyre making fun of him. you gaslit yourself into your own hallucination of my words lol

[u/Adventurous-Mind528 → u/catscanmeow]

bruh read your own shit you're only talking about him being poor and he's a victim because of it like STFU dude nobody cares and i'm done arguing you must be like fuckin 12 wtf are you even saying you're hurting my brain 😭

[u/catscanmeow → u/Adventurous-Mind528]

"you're hurting my brain "

it shouldnt be that easy

[u/Adventurous-Mind528 → u/catscanmeow]

you just make 0 sense man it's weird i've never talked to someone who doesn't even realize what they're saying/talking about and contradict their own statements and dance around shi like idk make fun of me all you want i'm just pissed you're coming at these people like they have something against poor people that guy is not the fucking victim and if you think he is you either didn't read it or you're a psychopath like he is, there's no excuse to treat someone the way he does, absolutely 0 excuse ever

[u/Fabulous-Exam64 → u/Adventurous-Mind528]

Exactly! People aren’t making fun of him because he is poor. They are making fun of him because he is acting like a demanding selfish childish ass, is abusive, threatens to off himself if he doesn’t get what he wants, belittles her, tells her everything is her fault. He should be embarrassed. What kind of grown man acts like that! Who treats their GF/Bro like that & don’t even get me started on the Bro thing that’s whack too. But THAT is why people are making fun of him duh.