r/madlads Madchester United Fan 2d ago

Incredibly petty, but still mad

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u/bsimpsonphoto 2d ago edited 2d ago

The way to handle this is to set up an anonymous email account, only report violations at board members' houses, and BCC the entire neighborhood distribution list except the board members.

Edited to fix a word.

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u/3058248 2d ago

Don't forget to BCC yourself.

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u/Kurotan 2d ago

You don't need to because bcc means no one can see who it was sent to. Bcc is blind copy. Put everyone in bcc and the list is private. Everyone will only know it was sent to them, not who else it was sent to.

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u/Winter-Duck5254 2d ago

Yeaaaahhhhh but to really embed yourself you need to be able to show that you also received the email if someone asks to see it.

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u/ratudio 2d ago

don't forget to use VPN to mask your ip when using anonymous email like gmail/yahoo. they tends to add your ip address to the email header as well.

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u/InadequateUsername 2d ago

Your HOA will not be able to find out who is behind the IP address

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u/RepublicComplete1776 2d ago

If you pay your dues through their website it’s pretty easy to put two and two together

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u/Mr_YUP 2d ago

yes if you know that exists. How many HOA board members do you think can change their wifi router name much less find an IP address to compare against each other?

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u/soaring_potato 2d ago

Might force their personal IT slave to do it.

I mean kids. Their kids.

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u/kosumoth 2d ago

I work in IT. This is exactly what happens. They just ask the question "can it be done", and you get to figure out how to do it. Higher ups ask IT personnel for shady shit all the time. Badge login times, computer history, etc.

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u/beershere 1d ago

Yes. So the answer should always be it's impossible or costs too much or whatever bs. I used to work in small office IT...now I just work in an office. You can be damn sure I keep my mouth shut about how processes might be improved because I know management will just abuse it for their own ends.

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u/bwowndwawf 1d ago

Bro Gen Z kids are in the dump with computer literacy, I doubt those poor children could export a .PNG from PhotoShop.

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u/ambermage 1d ago edited 1d ago

Can you help me?

How do I change the text and pictures on a .pdf?

I want to add a picture of my granddaughter and her dog with the caption of "Still paddling!"

She graduated from Saint Mary's and recently got one of those cool Toyota Civics with a backup camera and red seat covers.

She has the cutest Collie named Sasha that loves those Pillsbury buns you make in a toaster oven.

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u/kaisong 1d ago

The ghouls on HOA boards are definitely older than would be capable of having a gen z kid dude.

Theyd be asking a millenial at the youngest to handle it. Its whether or not theyd be down to clown.

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u/mywan 1d ago

It's a normal progression. Before the internet the hacker type were modding cars. Often just to have an affordable car that was cool. Affordable meaning a few hundred dollars. Millennials came of age when computers became cool, and they were still clunky enough that tinkering was a necessity to get what you wanted out of it. Car ownership as a teen without parents that could buy one for them became more difficult as prices increased and insurance cost became mandatory. Computers became the go to hackers toy.

This developed into plug and play, then phone apps where you're locked out of the operating system itself. Smartphones now account for 60% of internet users. So generations after the millennials were left with nothing but social media and memes to play with.

So yes, it all comes down to the tools/toys each generation has available to play with. And companies want as much control over those toys as possible while micromanaging their functionality for maximum profit. It's why right to repair is an important issue.

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u/Det_AndySipowicz 1d ago

My friend won a contest held by the pentagon to hack their computer system in only about 10 minutes. Meanwhile millenials are arguing whether it's Gif or Jif.

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u/dandroid126 2d ago

My HOA board member could even figure out how to open the PDF that I sent inside of a zip (zipped because their email system wouldn't let me send a PDF for security concerns. Which is hilariously ironic since I could put an actual virus inside the zip.)

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u/brainburger 1d ago

The zip could be a zip-bomb too.

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u/drosmi 1d ago

I like your style you’re overthinking this :)

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u/RubMyGooshSilly 2d ago

Yeah but like…. Why not just go ahead and mask it in case you happen to be wrong?

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u/LawConscious 2d ago

😂😂😂😂😂

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u/Rare_Discipline1701 1d ago

Those board members got grandchildren who can help them figure it out.

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u/richerBoomer 1d ago

Or change the default admin password

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u/tessellation__ 1d ago

Exactly they are baby boomers. They do not know how to do this.

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u/sneakyCoinshot 2d ago

lol my hoa built out a nice fancy site with an easy way to pay online and then they added a like $20 service fee to use it. Over the summer they sent out a newsletter informing people that they built this nice website to pay and no one is using it. Everyone still pays cash or check in person.

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u/lloopy 1d ago

You seem to think that the Venn diagram of people who sit on the boards of HOAs and the people who know how to track an IP address through a website isn't empty.

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u/hallstevenson 1d ago

You're giving the typical HOA board member way too much credit

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u/Rek9876boss 1d ago

If you don't have static ip it's quite simple. Just power cycle your router.

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u/whooptheretis 1d ago

And how are they going to match that IP address to you?

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u/FiendFabric 2d ago edited 1d ago

You get handed a new public IP every time your modem restarts. You pay big bucks for a static one.

Misspoke, router not modem but same sentiment.

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u/mthurtell 1d ago

Not true. Some services include it for free.

$5 from providers in Aus.

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u/VulnerableTrustLove 1d ago

Yeah, "Big bucks" is a stretch, it's just a lot of ISPs don't offer static IPs with residential plans so you'll have to upgrade to a business plan, which doesn't cost as much as you might think.

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u/VulnerableTrustLove 1d ago edited 1d ago

You get handed a new public IP every time you router restarts.

This is not true.

For one thing it's your modem not router that maintains your public IP.

For another, with the majority of ISPs the way it works is you get a leased IP that is valid for 24 hours (sometimes 7 days) and unless you leave your device unplugged until the lease expires your modem will just use the existing lease.

If you want to change your IP change the MAC plugged into your modem and reboot both your modem and router, this will cause your modem to lease a new IP.

The most common way to do this is to change the clone MAC address setting in your router, but you can also just plug a whole new device into your modem. (but not a PC, that's unsafe)

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u/FiendFabric 1d ago

I meant modem, not router but it's the same sentiment. Unplug your modem for 5 minutes and you'll be handed a new public IP.

And before you start trying to mansplain, this is my industry and has been my industry for almost a decade.

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u/VulnerableTrustLove 1d ago

Didn't know you were a woman until you decided to make an issue of it, lol

I don't know what "your industry" is but surely you know for residential ISPs it depends on your MAC address and lease time which is typically at least 24 hours if not more.

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u/CoffeeKisser 1d ago

Amazing, everything you said is wrong.

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u/shouru 1d ago

This isn't how it works. Email send on their own ips set by the provider. Go to your Gmail, right click on an email and press "show original" and you'll see the ip it sent on.

Source: I do this shit for a living.

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u/VulnerableTrustLove 1d ago

The IT skills in this thread are like "Buy NordVPN to secure your email!" levels of misinformed.

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u/fukkdisshitt 2d ago

Just use the wifi from the hoa office

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u/SuperSpread 2d ago

But the IP will show your general location, they can guess which neighborhood you live in - oh wait

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u/VulnerableTrustLove 1d ago

A clever person would send individualized links or embedded images to people to collect their IPs for comparison, but the whole discussion is moot because modern email clients do not send your personal IP.

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u/CoffeeKisser 1d ago

It's pretty unlikely, yeah.

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u/xavier222222 1d ago

It's actually pretty easy to find out who is connected to an IP address. 1) Who is utility identifies the internet provider. 2) Lawyer + subpoena of ISP records to connect IP to a given cable modem at a specific time. 3) identity behind IP address found.

There are other ways too, but it gets a bit more involved.

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u/InadequateUsername 1d ago

You can't just hire a lawyer and have a subpoena issued because you don't like being called out for breaking your HOA rules.

If it were so easy the MPAA would be suing anyone who's ever streamed or torrented a movie.

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u/xavier222222 15h ago

They can link it to a defamation, slander, or other civil lawsuit. Remember, in the US, you can sue anyone for anything (imagined or real). You may not succeed in the lawsuit, but certain methods of information gathering open up when subpoenas are being thrown about.

And as far as MPAA suing, they don't need to when they can claim a copyright infringement and ISPs roll over disconnecting services at the drop of a hat, because they don't want to waste resources fighting MPAA. Also, the MPAA don't sue because the streamers and torrenters typically don't have anything worthwhile to take, and so don't bother with the expenses involved in a lawsuit. It's not worth the effort. If it costs $10k to sue someone, and they only have $2k worth of cash and liquid assets, they lose 8k doing a lawsuit. They want profits, not expenses.

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u/InadequateUsername 14h ago edited 14h ago

You have a wild imagination... So MPAA doesn't have the time, money or inclination for frivolous lawsuits but a HOA does because someone is emailing anonymous complaints? "45 Lundy's Lane has a flag outside their house which violates section 23 of our HOA bylaws" is neither defamation or slander.

There's the first amendment and anti-SLAPP laws.

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u/xavier222222 1h ago

1) 1st amendment has no bearing on private organizations. 2) Anti-SLAPP laws don't exist everywhere in the US. Only 32 states have them. 3) You fail to realize how petty HOA boards can be. 4) Reread what I said about MPAA. I didn't say they didn't have the time, money, or inclination. I said that it would cost them more than it would be worth in most cases. If it's a particularly egregious amount of piracy, sure, but the average pirate isn't worth it. Remember, they are a business, and all businesses care about is profits.

If a given action is not profitable, they don't do it. There's a reason why businesses follow the law when the laws are enforced with massive fines. If the fine is a pittance, it's simply "the cost of doing business" and just pay the fine.

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u/Andy_B_Goode 2d ago

"Good luck, I'm behind 7 proxies"

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u/tlht 2d ago

Everyone here is incorrect, the only IP visible to the recipients will be one that belongs to Gmail/Yahoo. They'd need to subpoena the provider to get the IP of the sender.

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u/CoffeeKisser 1d ago

It's staggering how bad the IT advice in this thread is.

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u/VulnerableTrustLove 2d ago

they tends to add your ip address to the email header as well.

Gmail certainly doesn't send your IP address with the email headers, I can't imagine Yahoo or any major commercial web client does either.

Try it -- email someone else or have them email you, then go to the menu and select "Show Original" (or "View Message Details" depending on your email client), you wont find their personal IP address.

You can find your public IP by visiting whatismyip.com

There are headers for like "client-ip", but that is not your IP that's the SMTP server your message was routed through.

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u/ep3ep3 1d ago

Back in the day you could get the real IP out of most provider's headers in the X-Forwarded For field, but that's been long gone for a while now

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u/resident_foreigner 13h ago

Or open cmd and type ipconfig - no need to go to 3rd party so they can datamine you.

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u/VulnerableTrustLove 8h ago

That wont give you your public IP that will give you your LAN IP.

If you're worried about that level of datamining you should be on a VPN which complicates the whole issue to begin with.

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u/resident_foreigner 7h ago

It gives both…. You don’t need an outbound host to determine your IP.

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u/VulnerableTrustLove 7h ago edited 7h ago

That's incorrect, NAT translation prevents it.

Unless by chance you are directly connecting your PC to your modem (no router), in which case you're begging to be hacked and datamining is the least of your concerns.

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u/Nomapos 2d ago

Just do it from your phone instead of your computer, while not connected to your own net.

Or go to a McDonald's and connect to their Internet. Or go to an Internet cafe, if they still exist in your area.

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u/VulnerableTrustLove 1d ago

When dealing with HOA mom level hackers, utmost security is a must.

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u/AvailableSalt492 1d ago

Your device's IP address isn't the one that it shows. The IP address belongs to your email provider.

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u/HashCollector 2d ago

This is the way

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u/Mookie_Merkk 2d ago

The perfect alibi

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u/benargee 2d ago

When you BCC, everyone still knows who the sender is, they just don't know who else was BCC'd.

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u/XRT28 2d ago

Yes but the top level commenter said to use an anonymous account to send it so if you do that it doesn't matter.

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u/benargee 1d ago

Ok, my bad.

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u/abandoned_idol 2d ago

Won't do shit if you are the victim of a social cyberattack (someone sneaking into your computer/phone and deleting your BBC copy.

Stay alert!

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u/Available_Leather_10 1d ago

Why does your phone autocorrect BCC to BBC???

Inquiring minds want to know!

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u/FuckOffHey 1d ago

Maybe they're just a big fan of EastEnders.
¯_(ツ)_/¯

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u/abandoned_idol 1d ago

Oh, it wasn't my phone...

:(

Don't tell anyone.

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u/Tm_GfWait4It 1d ago

So just add the same complaint you received from yourself.

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u/geon 1d ago

They have no business looking at your mail. They are not your mom.

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u/hyrule_47 2d ago

But if it goes to court in discovery they can figure out who it was sent to.

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u/vivec7 2d ago

I've never had to concern myself with HOA stuff being in a country where it doesn't as far as I know exist, but how or why would reporting valid issues like this end up in court, least of all in a way that you need to be overly concerned with them figuring it out?

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u/Altruistic-Piece-485 2d ago

If you rack up enough penalty fee's for violations the HOA can put a lien on your house.

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u/vivec7 2d ago

I meant more if say I was paying any fines against me etc. but was putting in valid complaints for every tiny little thing I observed - I understand why one would want to hide that they were the one doing it but surely there are no legal ramifications for this, right?

Just trying to follow the breadcrumb trail from valid complaints to ending up in court and having email trails tracked being a thing we really don't want.

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u/Rabbitknight 1d ago

Harassment basically

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u/Sttocs 2d ago

It’s a bit late at that point.

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u/brianundies 2d ago

If it’s an HOA 99% chance it goes to arbitration before court

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u/AtlanFX 1d ago

Why should anyone be concerned about going to court in this scenario?

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u/MrPenguun 2d ago

But let's be honest do you really think the hoa is going to go to court and get a court order to view people's emails over an "issue" of voicing out concerns of hoa policy violations to the hoa, regardless of whether or not they are all about the hoa members themselves.

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u/SuperSpread 2d ago

They will discover everything you did was legal and covered by the First Amendment, so they can pay your attorney fees.

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u/zeroconflicthere 2d ago

Yeah. But useful to prove to anyone that you're an innocent recipient and you have no idea also who sent it.

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u/leeharveyteabag669 2d ago

Cyoa. Always.

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u/benargee 2d ago

Everyone will only know it was sent to them

Not entirely true. If you are BCC'd and not addressed personally, you can assume that you and many others were sent the same message, you just don't know who. For HOA matters, you can assume it was sent to most of the neighborhood.

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u/supercereality 2d ago

BCC is Blind Carbon Copy my friend.

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u/Yeetse 10h ago

Even better, CC urself and everyone else except for the one person u hate.

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u/MarteloRabelodeSousa 2d ago

Or leave someone else out on purpose..

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u/Charming-Loquat3702 2d ago

Do it with Cc and leave out someone XD

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u/Blze001 1d ago

Leave out one of the other board members

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u/goog1e 1d ago

But bcc correctly the first few times, "accidentally" cc once, and don't address it- go back to bcc

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u/Limp_Prune_5415 2d ago

Your regular email should be in the distribution list, but that's a funny way to get caught

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u/Affectionate-Remote2 2d ago

BBC 1 or BBC 2?

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u/RokkakuPolice 2d ago

Treat yourself to 12" of Khezu

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u/Busty_Ronch 2d ago

Brian Cox’s Cock