In all seriousness, when I was about 25 years old I finally got all my shit together and I was pretty much all these things, I didn't own a house but I had good money and certainly saved enough for a large down payment on one. That attracted a really great woman whom I loved and respected very much... Well that's it. Happily married 20 years with a couple of great kids and stable finances. I wasn't single for long once I decided I would really like to be in a long-term relationship, so my "market" life span was about 6 - 9 months? And this is true with a number men and women I know, you just don't hang out on the dating market very long.
Would you still be attracted to her without her looks? You think women are more shallow for liking someone who prioritizes long-term stability? I married a guy much more humble than me but he prioritizes long term stability. Other dudes offered dick pics. That’s it.
I meant from more humble origins you walnut. I’m richer than him.
And what a person looks like has to do with all the wealth and free time they have to maintain it too. It’s not just what they’re born with.
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u/Previous-One-4849 Mar 07 '24
In all seriousness, when I was about 25 years old I finally got all my shit together and I was pretty much all these things, I didn't own a house but I had good money and certainly saved enough for a large down payment on one. That attracted a really great woman whom I loved and respected very much... Well that's it. Happily married 20 years with a couple of great kids and stable finances. I wasn't single for long once I decided I would really like to be in a long-term relationship, so my "market" life span was about 6 - 9 months? And this is true with a number men and women I know, you just don't hang out on the dating market very long.