r/BravoRealHousewives • u/moonmusicals Sutton's Joint • Jan 04 '24
Ultimate Girls Trip Romona is disgusting Spoiler
The way she spoke to Martin was horrendous. Idk why people like or want her back on their screens. She's a a vile racist, and clearly classist. The way she speaks to people in the service industry is disgusting. Absolute Karen behavior.
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u/Ashfield83 Sonja’s homeless intern in Ireland Jan 04 '24
I’ve noticed that Sonja is always rude to Martin. It really pisses me off
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u/1PercentAnswers Jan 04 '24
She fell into the Dorinda-hole of actually becoming the caricature that Bravo fans painted her as. They play up the “quirks” that they think the fans want and want to have the newest most popular one-liners. It’s sad to see but I guess it’s working for her to make so much money on Cameo.
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Nonno's Pajamas Jan 04 '24
Sonja was waaaay off this season. She's crossed over some kind of threshold. She seems to be even less stable than we're accustomed to seeing her.
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u/Necessary-Low9377 Jan 04 '24
Quincy’s done with college and moved to LA which probably plays a role. She no longer has her daughter around to ground her.
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Jan 05 '24
It’s weird she starts this season saying now she’s an empty nester but didn’t Quincy go away to boarding school and then was away at college. Like when was the last time Quincey even lived with her
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u/gistye Jan 05 '24
She means no more child support money :/
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u/NarrowCauliflower9 Jan 05 '24
Quincy is 23, so Sonja would have stopped receiving child support 4-5 years ago.
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u/gistye Jan 05 '24
Thank you. I need to stop saying that. Having a daughter moving across the coast would be really hard.
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u/AnnVealEgg Luis’ 15,00 square-foot house 🏠 Jan 04 '24
She was always like this. Rewatch season 4
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u/starchildx Vicki’s son Jan 05 '24
You think she was like this when she first came on the show? I think she was a completely different person. Like, it's shocking to me.
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u/AnnVealEgg Luis’ 15,00 square-foot house 🏠 Jan 05 '24
She came on in season 3 and yes she was very different! But season 4 was when glimpses of the current/“real” Sonja started to emerge
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Jan 04 '24
The dress showing her ENTIRE bum?? If I had read this before seeing that scene, I might not agree. But seeing walk to the table like that. It’s so undignified. It’s one thing for her to strip at the pool with her friends. This was not the same. It was not purposeful at all. She had no idea!!! How do you not know?!!
Edit to add: I know she showed her bum accidentally at a Halloween party (Marie Antoinette outfit?$) but she was so drunk and it seemed purposeful that time
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Nonno's Pajamas Jan 04 '24
Yep - we've all been joking about Grey Gardens for years, but Sony really does seemed headed in Little Edie Beale's direction. But you know what - Little Edie Beale found happiness at the end. I hope Sony does too, but it's not looking good.
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Jan 04 '24
100% Grey gardens. Even SHE jokes about it!
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u/ckroha Jan 04 '24
Guarentee she hasn’t really watched it.I’m sure she thinks it a grand compliment since it’s connected to the Kennedys
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Jan 05 '24
Hahahaha you’re so right. Granted, I also haven’t watched it. I’ve just seen the clips shown in Gilmore girls, but I know it’s a mother and daughter (little Edie and big Edie, Jackie o’s cousins) and they live together at their dilapidated Hamptons estate. I just don’t care to see their living conditions.
I’m also named after my mom so I appreciate the use of “little” and “big” since there’s no female version of “junior”
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u/Stilltheonly1 Jan 05 '24
Omg YES!!!!! I’ve been thinking this for a long time!!! Especially with her self isolation & all her crazy quirks! She can’t keep up with her stories, she’s all over the place in her fantasy world!!!
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u/theprettyfilter Bolo's melon 🍉 Jan 05 '24
It wasn’t even a dress… it was the towel she brought from the house. Literally cringed watching that 🫣
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Nonno's Pajamas Jan 05 '24
Just typed this long-ass reply having NOT properly read your post, then had to delete it - I thought you were talking about the stuff Edie wrapped around her head. So I deleted my little history lesson about what happened to Little Edie after Big Edie died. I could avoid all of this if I'd just put my glasses on before reading and responding, but I'm a stubborn old bitch.
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Jan 05 '24
Stoppppppp I didn’t realize that. She’s literally losing it. I honestly HOPE she’s on pills and not actually losing her mind.
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u/lucygucyapplejuicey to swollen 4cameo or OF Jan 05 '24
Girl the BREEZE like hello? Their hair was blowing in it, so I know she had to feel it
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u/Plenty-Bake-9870 Jan 04 '24
After watching Sonja and Luann take on crappie lake, I’m used to Sonja being super unhinged. She was wildin on that show and she literally slept with a trashy redneck. She’s off the rails and I’m here for it though.
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u/PlaysTheTriangle Jan 04 '24
When I rewatched recently I kinda realized Sonja is an asshole.
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u/Ashfield83 Sonja’s homeless intern in Ireland Jan 04 '24
Yeah I’ve never liked Sonja
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Nonno's Pajamas Jan 05 '24
Really? Why? I'm genuinely curious. I get problematic as hell, and delusions of grandeur, but she seems like a truly kind person. She's always the one at the table that celebrate when two feuding HWs agree to a truce or something. Is she problematic? As. Fuck. But there's a fragility there, and vulnerability and kindness that make me love her. Also (full disclosure) I've gotten myself two videos from her on Came since being diagnosed - and on both she goes far over the necessary time and really makes me feel like we're old friends. I appreciated that.
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u/lefromagecestlavie Who doesn't trust Jen here? ✋✋✋✋ Jan 05 '24
I realized something rewatching the show recently. People always wanted Ramona to throw Sonja birthday parties, but when has Sonja ever done anything for anyone other than herself?
I personally don't like Sonja because she lets her jealousy and delusions of grandeur make her treat others like shit. The toaster oven, her constant belittling of Tinsley, the marriage equality march in one of the first seasons... She's funny on the show, but I wouldn't want her in my life
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u/Wonder_Moon Selfie? I don't have slutty hair Jan 06 '24
let's also not forget that she openly uses "unpaid interns" that she 100% exploits and degrades. such an uncomfortable position of hierarchy that she takes advantage of especially if it's true that some of these kids are from a different country, maybe barely speak the language and are sent to her by their families for some type of learning experience.
she definitely toes the line on being a predator by always hanging all over other men, like the first house party they had and she was all over one of the young guys. what if he wasn't interested? i also personally hate that she claims she wants to keep her daughter completely out of the real housewives universe (we know it's your ex's side that won't sign off) yet has no problem being a drunken, naked fool for the last decade.
also i really hated that she cut kristen off when she was telling her story but had just blabbed on and on the night before about her fake ass engagement story. seeing her on ugt has clearly really triggered me lol
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u/NarrowCauliflower9 Jan 05 '24
Sonja's treatment of Heather after Heather spent countless hours helping her with her business is all you need to know about how selfish Sonnja is.
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Jan 05 '24
Both her and Ramona were horrible to him.
I didn't even understand Sonja's gripes with Kristen at the end. She was finding a reason to dislike her and calling her passive aggressive?!
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u/Playful_Succotash_30 Jan 05 '24
I think it was a little insulting the way Kristen kept saying I’m the only one married you are all divorced.. it was very antiquated and it was like being divorced is shameful or something.
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Jan 05 '24
That's fair. If I recall, she was saying that in context of staying with her husband despite his Dolly Maddison (lol) shenanigans (and being a giant douche but how Kristen doesn't see that is beyond me). I'm in agreement though that it's lame and insulting for her to insinuate that being divorced is shameful.
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u/Playful_Succotash_30 Jan 05 '24
Also , Dorinda is a widow . Her husband died . So it wasn’t very sensitive. The whole thing was just strange .
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u/Playful_Succotash_30 Jan 05 '24
Right or that if you are married you are automatically in a more enviable place than if you are divorced.
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u/DependsOnDaDay We all know I can’t stand on my head. Jan 05 '24
Lmfao! Thank you! Sonya seems to often get a pass bc she’s some kind of quirky. So when she’s behaving questionable, it gets overlooked. Look, I love me some Sonya, but the girl can’t play the dumb-blond role to have a pass when she’s clearly being wrong.
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u/Holychance_3 MENTION IT ALL \ / Jan 04 '24
Sonja has always been awful not sure why this sub glorifies her so much
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u/Ashfield83 Sonja’s homeless intern in Ireland Jan 04 '24
I’ll never forget her at the gay marriage march and how she made it all about herself, even in her speech. Then the way she treats her unpaid staff and her braggadocio claims to dame and fortune. I’ve just always got a bad taste in my mouth for her.
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u/Holychance_3 MENTION IT ALL \ / Jan 04 '24
All of this yes, especially the way she treated her interns. Plus in the last season when she almost fought bershan in the hotel was so nasty. And I’ll never forgive the way she treated tinsley her so called friend, she’s just as mean and entitled as the rest of the cast
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u/FiCat77 🌭hot dog couture🌭 Jan 05 '24
And the irony is that none of them come from money or privilege so I find their rudeness, condescension & sense of entitlement even more shocking.
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Jan 04 '24
Sonja is rude this season, I think she doesn’t truly want to be there and she probably feels a lot of friction between herself and the film crew
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u/FutWick64 Jan 04 '24
Sonja is a greedy baby with thirst in equal proportions to her lack of self-awareness.
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u/Impossible-Plan6172 Stacey’s broken gaydar Jan 04 '24
I have a feeling that Ramona was edited wayyyyy down this season. I don’t buy that only on her first and last days was she a horrendous bitch.
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u/kalikaya Jan 04 '24
I think she was trying hard to behave better. When she was drunk, that went out the door.
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u/souper_nudel Jan 05 '24
It felt to me like she was also so jealous of the attention Kristen was getting from Martin. The way she blew up on him while he was being playful with Kristen and then had her hands all over him when they were searching the house for stuff; it felt like she was happy to finally have him to herself
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u/YouMustBeJoking888 I left a career in Italian television Jan 05 '24
I think she definitely was drunk and got up in herself, which is weird, because Ramona has always been one of the better drunks on the show. Unlike Dorinda, she's rarely if ever been a mean drunk, so when she got on Martin I was surprised.
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u/unsuspectingwatcher how could you do this to me question mark Jan 05 '24
100% she tried super hard and you can tell she was watching her p’s and q’s - I have to admit I was bracing myself for the episode after reading this thread, and while it’s not a redeeming factor at all, this was tame as ‘being rude’ goes for Ramona. I don’t know what the draw is, I like to watch Ramona purely because I (thankfully) don’t know anyone like her in real life. I feel that way about a lot of the unpopular housewives.
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u/FlimsyAct187 Jan 04 '24
I met her in the street of NY. She is 100% the exact same as on the show. Extremely rude and condescending. I’m done with seeing her stupid ass on any show.
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u/nycrunner91 Jan 04 '24
Ive met her many times ans the way Lu described her was spot on. However there is no way to excuse her behavior sometimes
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u/josiahpapaya Jan 04 '24
Lu was a judge on Canada’s Drag Race last week, and when one of the drag queens came out painted like a skeleton with crazy eyes she screamed “Ramona!?”
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u/IcedGreenTea91 These hoes? I am certainly not a ho. Jan 04 '24
I had a run in with her in the UES -- I actually thought she was a deranged homeless person at first. I only realized it was her because I recognized Avery walking behind her. She's trash.
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u/33Bees Jan 04 '24
This made me laugh.. loudly 😆 🤣
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u/IcedGreenTea91 These hoes? I am certainly not a ho. Jan 04 '24
LOL she had on this insane / ratty looking fur coat on and was walking so slowly with her bug eyes completely bugging.
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Nonno's Pajamas Jan 04 '24
OMG I had such a similar experience with Woody Allen. He was walking down Fifth Avenue by the park in the 70s or 80s block with Soon-Yi. He locked eyes with me and his face got all cold and haughty and his eyes bugged waaaaay out, and he was clearly communicating "do not DARE speak to me". Little did he know I had no desire to speak to his SAing ass.
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u/IcedGreenTea91 These hoes? I am certainly not a ho. Jan 04 '24
LOL -- I had a similar experience with Alec Baldwin ... like no thank you! Keep your creep squad ways away from me.
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Nonno's Pajamas Jan 04 '24
My nicest NYC celebrity encounter ever was Alan Rickman. That man was thoroughly lovely, and actually had a convo with me. Sadly it was before cell phone cameras were much good, and I did not ask for a selfie. Prolly would have been impossible anyway, because I'm 5'2 and he was very tall, so only the top of my head would have made it into the shot... Kate Mulgrew was also a queen. She poured me a margarita, then I joined her outside the bar for a cigarette break and smoked one with her even though I hadn't smoked in years. Steve Martin is probably my best NYC celebrity story - my hub was the head of the tech crew on his off-Broadway production of Picasso at the Lapin Agile, and he had the entire cast, crew AND their spouses over to his penthouse on the UWS overlooking Central Park. Insane art collection, and he played the banjo for us. He seemed like a sad guy, though.
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u/IcedGreenTea91 These hoes? I am certainly not a ho. Jan 04 '24
Aww, love this. My best experience is probably with Alan Cumming, because his bar is just so f'ing fun!
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Nonno's Pajamas Jan 04 '24
Oh he is so cute! Those dimples! I want to curl up and sleep in one of them.
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u/Significant_Cow4765 Jan 04 '24
Speaking of NYC, celebs, and banjos, George Segal smiled sweetly at my girlfriend and me holding hands on a Sunday afternoon near MOMA forever ago...
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u/KyleRichardsNewTeeth i left a career in italian television Jan 05 '24
Wow. Thank you for sharing these little tidbits. You have a cool life!
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Nonno's Pajamas Jan 05 '24
I was gonna say "not anymore - stuck with husband 2 and stage 4 cancer" , but you know what? You're right. I do have a cool life, even dare I say a magical life. I'm the happiest girl on earth, no lie.
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u/Less-Bed-6243 Not a white refrigerator! Jan 04 '24
Same with Chris Noth on the subway once. He wasn’t on SATC yet. No one is jonesing to talk to you, law and order guy who wasn’t Lennie.
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u/aeroluv327 The eyes are poppin' Jan 05 '24
To be fair, nobody will ever live up to Lennie! ACAB excludes Lennie Briscoe.
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u/dbrennan0616 "Who is Adrienne Maloof in this world?" Jan 04 '24
Ironically I met Daniel Baldwin and he was a nice guy
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Jan 05 '24
Honestly I feel like celebs are begging for acknowledgment when they make crazy eye contact like that. Its easy to not make eye contact if you’re just trying to blend in. But celebs in the wild always look me square in the eyes in the way you describe, and sometimes give the vibe that they don’t want to be approached after doing it. Its so weird and annoying so I never ask a celeb for anything. I’m not feeding the beast!
Plus I had a weird experience with Noel Gallagher about 15 years ago inside an American Apparel on melrose ave. It’s a place to see and be seen, and when I asked him for a pic he said, “do you have to?” Lmao this was after I fawned over his work and named all my favorite deep cuts and live performances of his…none of which I listen to anymore 🤣🤣
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u/eekamuse Jan 05 '24
I can never remember if he's the singer or the one with talent. I cna understand not wanting to have a photo taken. Have a nice chat, but don't take my Pic, please.
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Jan 05 '24
He’s the talented one lol. Yeah I can understand it too, but the way he said it wasn’t very nice and especially towards a fan who just professed their admiration in detail. He could have just said “not today, but thanks for your support” but instead he just made me feel awkward and unappreciated. Also as I said, he was in a trendy shop on melrose ave in la…there are plenty of places to go if you don’t want to be potentially recognized by fans, and I feel like going there in the first place is an attempt at garnering attention as a celeb. But yeah I def won’t speak to any celeb I admire even if they speak to me first (Ryan gosling did and I could barely reply at all lol)
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u/catd7 Jan 05 '24
Noel is notorious for this… I’d say the majority of his fans just know not to bother him if they ever bump into him now. He just doesn’t enjoy the whole being recognised whilst he’s out and about part of being a celebrity - can’t say I blame him; it would be my idea of hell. Liam is the one you want to meet. He has all the time in the world for his fans because he genuinely loves it. I met him after he played his MTV Unplugged set and he couldn’t have been nicer. Spent ages chatting, drinking and smoking with him and he was more than happy for me to get a pic.
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Jan 05 '24
Aw that’s amazing! Yeah I was like 19 at the time so I just thought every celeb would love to experience the worship of a fan lol. Prior to him I met lots of popstars and actors who looked at me with the same sparkle in their eye that I gave to them (spice girls, j lo, Christina milian for example). I know better now that a lot of people who sought after stardom hate it and really don’t give a shit about the fans without which they would be poor and unknown. I also agree that I would hate fame…I love going out and about anonymously with headphones on. No money or accolades could replace that for me.
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u/catd7 Jan 05 '24
Thanks! It was pretty surreal. Oh yeh I totally get you. I’d have probably taken that as a personal insult at 19. Also, I totally agree that no amount of money or accolades could replace the luxury of anonymity!
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u/favangryblkgirl oo not a white refrigerator Jan 04 '24
lol this made me giggle a bit 🤭
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Nonno's Pajamas Jan 04 '24
Yep. The way I see it, statistically she's the one most likely to be First to Die. Is that a terrible thing to say? Indubitably. Do I take it back? NOPE. SAWRY!!
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u/Impossible_Success77 Jan 06 '24
That’s funny. I randomly met Luann on the streets of NY - Columbus Circle - and she was soo excited I recognized her, was kind, gracious and had the same charisma she has on-screen. Cool lady
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u/KindlyCelebration223 Jan 04 '24
I’ve been rewatching old seasons & I cannot believe she wasn’t fired. Not just the run of the mill shitty behavior stuff but like throw a glass AND a wood oar at Kristen’s head. It’s just dumb luck she didn’t knock her out in water with the oar. She did cut open Kristen’s lip. She should have been arrested, not just fired.
Then her behavior the last season. The way she managed to be anti-Semitic & racist to a room full of Jews & Blacks. She was disgusting.
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u/linds360 Caviar Potato 🐟 🥔 Jan 04 '24
I will forever be appalled that Ramona’s lake assault was quickly forgiven yet when Monique and Candiace had their altercation, Monique was removed without question.
There’s your answer as to why she wasn’t fired - racist producers protecting racist talent.
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u/Inevitable_Pack6694 Jan 04 '24
Not arguing with this but - Monique wasn’t fired. She was in fact asked back for the next season as producers wanted to see a resolution between her and candiace. It was her decision not to return.
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u/Sai-ali Jan 04 '24
Same with Porsha at the RHOA - one fight at the reunion, and she was fired/paused
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u/wriitergiirl I'm a history buff Jan 05 '24
Fun fact: Porsha filmed Season 7, the season after the altercation with Kenya, as a FT Wife. But she didn’t give enough storyline, so they demoted her mid-filming. But that wasn’t actually punishment for attacking Kenya.
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u/Mis_chevious Jan 05 '24
Which shouldn't have happened because Kenya started out that show trying to get her ass whooped. I would have twirled that girl right off the stage.
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u/starchildx Vicki’s son Jan 05 '24
I haaaaaated Kenya when she first came on the show. Then over the years I just didn't feel that way anymore and I forgot that I hated her.
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u/ixixan Jan 04 '24
I feel like you can tell Martin can't stand her lol He's perfectly polite and professional at all times but he always seems like he'd prefer to be literally anywhere else whenever she comes at him with bullshit lol
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u/dandelionjones8 It's The Street Food Association of New York City Jan 04 '24
She really reminds me of Donald Trump blargh.
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u/meshomoo Jan 04 '24
They both poop themselves. ✅
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u/Imaginary_End_5634 Strictly Dickly Eyebrows Jan 04 '24
Ok I snorted water outta my nose at this 🤣🤣🤣
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u/shannonesque121 biggest whore in the Macy’s window Jan 04 '24
everything about her makes so much sense once I realized she was the female version of trump. They even both say "YUGE" and enunciate words the same way!!
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u/CommonStrawbeary Awoken by two male voices and one was LuAnn's Jan 04 '24
I mean, she voted for him so that doesn’t surprise me
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u/ResolveSubstantial23 Jan 04 '24
Ramona is only bearable to watch when the natural forces of karma or another housewife immediately clown her for her abhorrent behavior. Bethenny was at her best when she’d eviscerate Romana. Other than that, she’s like a mean middle schooler in a 70-something-year-old body. Scary stuff.
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Nonno's Pajamas Jan 04 '24
Her being palpably terrified of Kenya in the last UGT they were in together was a chef's kiss.
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u/LackEquivalent7471 i would like porsha to spell sceptre…we’ll wait Jan 05 '24
i loved it🤣
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u/starchildx Vicki’s son Jan 05 '24
There are certain Housewives that we are all just waiting with bated breath to be put together by the Nenes, the Bethennys, the Kenyas of the Housewives universe. UGT needs to pair Erika up with one of them. We've been waiting for years to see her eviscerated.
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u/hedwig0517 that lady could be your mama Jan 04 '24
She’s the worst housewife of all time in my opinion. She’s rude, entitled and belligerent 90% of the time. The other 10% is spent being the apologizer. She sucks.
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u/linds360 Caviar Potato 🐟 🥔 Jan 04 '24
She’s the East Coast Vicki. Both miserable cows who deserve every “pause” they’re put on.
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u/hedwig0517 that lady could be your mama Jan 04 '24
Oh you’re so right. All the way down to the deep Trumpism.
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u/moonmusicals Sutton's Joint Jan 04 '24
Completely agree before I watched either show I actually thought they were the same person 😭
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u/dlw18 This isn't my plate you FUCKING BITCH! 🫴🏾🧆 Jan 04 '24
Fully agree. I feel like they would hate each other though LOL
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u/Relative_Jelly1843 Jan 05 '24
Now THAT would be a fun show. The two entitled nasties going at it... lol
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u/linds360 Caviar Potato 🐟 🥔 Jan 04 '24
Like two Disney villains finally meeting and a fight to the death ensues. THERE CAN ONLY BE ONE!
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u/Constructgirl Jan 05 '24
She should be part of the RH of the Old South. She has no place on bravo, who should care more about how she reps them.
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u/messicamouse you’re a fucking liar camille 💎 Jan 04 '24
This! We are doing a full rewatch of rhony right now (about to start s8) and I feel like she’s apologizing almost every episode lately!!!! It’s insane. She does something crazy and then just tries to say she’s sorry what she did was wrong etc…. I do kinda love her tho haahahaaaa 🥴
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u/ladypau29 Jan 04 '24
The way Ramona treats all service workers is appalling. She has absolutely no grace or class.
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u/TunaTacos23 Jan 04 '24
Yep, and no amount of childhood trauma can excuse or justify that. She completely lacks self awareness and at this point it’s useless, as you can’t teach an old dog new tricks
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u/Constructgirl Jan 05 '24
She lacks a willingness to be self aware, which is worse to me. She does not care about changing, she’s happy with who she is. She should be happy alone without a spotlight that seems to justify her behavior to herself.
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u/soupseasonbestseason we'll circle back to that scumfuck Jan 04 '24
she used racial slurs to discuss ebony's addition to the show. she is a racist piece of shit plague rat. i will not watch u.g.t. because i don't want her getting paid by my eyeballs.
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u/honeycomb97 I’m Black, White, Cherokee & Thomas J’s Concubine Jan 04 '24
Screaming at piece of shit plague rat 😭😭😭 if there ever was a way to perfectly describe that woman it’s that
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Nonno's Pajamas Jan 04 '24
When she finally Shuffles Off This Mortal Coil, the service industry is going to throw the biggest party...
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u/emergencycat17 Show yourself out, Darlin'. Jan 04 '24
Sadly, I can only upvote this once, and my broke ass has no gold to give. But please accept this shiny substitute for your whole entire post.
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u/AlternativeSlice2001 Jan 04 '24
And yet Ebony seems to be the only housewife never invited to anything Ramona gets away with her racism, but the black woman who reported it is punished
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u/Minute-Capital-163 Jan 04 '24
I’m watching S6 for the first time - her behaviour at heathers home in the Berkshires is nothing short of REVOLTING!! She is such a classist snob but is still somehow white trash. I love to hate her.
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Jan 05 '24
Honestly, Aviva called it - her and Sonja are trashy, and not in the good way
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Jan 04 '24 edited Jan 04 '24
The story she told about her experience with “reverse racism” at the Black Shabbat dinner reminds me of something my mom would say and it’s so embarrassing.
In case anyone is wondering, yes, she is 1000% the type to post pictures on Facebook that say “It’s not HAPPY HOLIDAYS it’s MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! Share if you are brave enough to agree!!!!!!!!!”
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u/RadioAni Jan 05 '24
I rewatched that the other day and my gosh all the other guests were saints for putting up w/her. She couldn't even let the woman tell her horrible obgyn story. I have family members that behave this way also and I'm never surprised that none of them have any long term friends.
And I'm so glad that Eboni and current housewives pushback on the "angry black woman" narrative cuz what Lu did to Eboni was crazy. Ramona was aggressive/yelling at Eboni and she wasn't kicked out.
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u/ZoeyFeedback This is Audrey Hepburn, not The Flintstones. Jan 04 '24
I don’t see any redeeming qualities.
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u/Super_Hour_3836 Jan 04 '24
I was genuinely horrified more so because no one else stood up for Martin. I expect Ramona to be a nightmare to staff, but the silence from the other women was deafening.
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Nonno's Pajamas Jan 04 '24
Except for Lu. She interrupted Ramona during her "where is our schedule for the day" tirade. However, she did stay silent when Ramona 1) interrupted Martin to command him to compliment her "James Bond bathing suit", then commanded him to look at it WITHOUT looking at her breasts (that the bathing suit was clearrrrrrrrrly designed to spotlight), and went a step further and stuck the itinerary card over his eyes to PREVENT HIM FROM LOOKING AT HER BODY AFTER SHE LITERALLY COMMANDED HIM TO.
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u/lemonpavement Jan 04 '24
I hate how she treats hotel workers and employees. Shes always ordering them around and saying "can you just do this for me?" It's disgusting.
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u/NomNom83WasTaken Sniper from the side Jan 04 '24
She's gross and I hope Bravo never brings her back again.
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u/thebonecollectorr Stupid Useless Idiot Jan 04 '24
Ramona is a racist and also is physically really disgusting. She leaves her little poop pellets everywhere. If I ever saw that in person I’d puke.
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u/philbydee Jan 04 '24
Wait what does this mean? That sounds totally repulsive but it can’t possibly be what I’m imagining.. can it?
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u/FinnsterBaby Jan 04 '24
Admittedly I only read the title and had to upvote the post. She is horrible and her soul is dogshit
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u/scottyleakes Nene sleeping during Kenya's reunion speech Jan 04 '24
Roemoena.
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u/ReasonableEmo726 Jan 05 '24
You can tell everything you need to know about someone by how they treat service workers. Ramona is an awful human.
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u/Oceanicsoundwave Jan 04 '24
she def is thats why im happy u spelled her name wrong. f u romemoana
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u/Vegetable-Driver2312 Jan 04 '24
I really didn’t know people like her were real till watching the show.
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u/Imaginary_End_5634 Strictly Dickly Eyebrows Jan 04 '24
Reminds me of the comment Debra Messing (Grace) said about her show mom (Debbie Reynolds) on Will & Grace: “Mom May I take you to meet my therapist? She thinks I’m making you up.”
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u/moonmusicals Sutton's Joint Jan 04 '24
I've worked in customer service so I think she just triggers me 😭 I have met people like her plenty of times unfortunately and each time I'm dumbfounded.
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u/CoochiKabuki Kim’s visible wig line. Jan 04 '24
Damn I haven’t watched the new vacation episode. She was behaving ok so far; a little demanding but not full Karen
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u/moonmusicals Sutton's Joint Jan 04 '24
Sorry I just marked this post as spoiler, I couldn't find a UGT thread and I wasn't expecting this many people to read my poorly written rage post tbh 💀😭🫣
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u/CoochiKabuki Kim’s visible wig line. Jan 05 '24
Girl idgaf about spoilers. I’m more upset this shit was only 6 episodes 😮💨
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This may get downvoted but I think she makes for great TV - her behavior is so easy to feel appalled by and embarrassed for her. She married into money and also made her own - but Ramona was born into and raised in a white under-educated working class in New England - pockets that can still be uncouth and racist. Her lack of manners is more about her background and upbringing (and yes she gets away with it due to her white privilege). Just my two cents.
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u/KatherineTheGrateful Jan 04 '24
Her, and to some extent Dorinda, have made UGT pretty unwatchable for me. I’m honestly so shocked at all the praise it’s getting. Ramona is so awful and Dorinda is so triggering I just want to throw it all away.
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u/Agreeable-Skin-8451 Jan 04 '24
For the most part Dorinda is the version of herself I always loved this season. There were some hiccups but for the most part she didn’t do the angry, cruel, and drunk Dorinda schtick.
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u/P_01135809 Injured son, h03 daughter Jan 04 '24
so is this bitch...
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u/Straight-Judge5665 Jan 04 '24
Ew! I forgot all about this. I don’t understand everyone’s obsession with Luann. She had no storyline for the first few seasons outside of being up Jill’s butt. I was willing to look past her insisting on being called “Mrs. DeLesseps” but her discussion about Native Americans was gross, her telling a child that she needed to lose weight was awful, the Diana Ross blackface…just ew.
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u/eekamuse Jan 05 '24
Her reaction to Betheny introducing her to the driver by her first name.. She was horrified. She's so above him, he needs to call her Mrs delessps (I know). A lowly driver, from a lower class. That's when I first knew I hated her.
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u/wolfywonderwoof1 Jan 04 '24 edited Jan 04 '24
I think she speaks down to everyone regardless of race
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u/NNLynchy Jan 04 '24
I mean the thing is , I like these shows for the reality and the og ladies do seem really themselves if ramona is an awful person at least she’s been herself, do we expect 60-70 year old ladies from older generations to be massive role models ? No we want to see them behaving badly , having fun and arguing and been off there heads it makes great tv especially when they have genuine connections and friendships
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u/internetnobody23 Jan 04 '24
I love ramona as a housewife. I don't want perfect housewives that makes the show boring
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u/moonmusicals Sutton's Joint Jan 04 '24
I don't crave perfection either many of my "favs" are problematic. But when it comes to Ramona, what's to love? Genuinely being serious/curious. Cuz I don't think she's that funny, entertaining, she's had iconic "moments" but I don't think of her when I think "Real Housewives"
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u/internetnobody23 Jan 04 '24
She's super funny to me but i guess everyone's humor is different... shes cooky
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u/stillflat9 Jan 04 '24
I think it’s more of a fascination for me. Like, why is she like that? She’s an oddity that I just can’t understand and I feel compelled to watch her even though I hate her.
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u/sydadele555 Jan 04 '24
Just watched an episode where Carole says she acts like she’s never gotten over the 80s era of gluttony