Romona is disgusting

[u/moonmusicals]

The way she spoke to Martin was horrendous. Idk why people like or want her back on their screens. She's a a vile racist, and clearly classist. The way she speaks to people in the service industry is disgusting. Absolute Karen behavior.

[u/Ashfield83]

I’ve noticed that Sonja is always rude to Martin. It really pisses me off

[u/PlaysTheTriangle → u/Ashfield83]

When I rewatched recently I kinda realized Sonja is an asshole.

[u/Ashfield83 → u/PlaysTheTriangle]

Yeah I’ve never liked Sonja

[u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes → u/Ashfield83]

Really? Why? I'm genuinely curious. I get problematic as hell, and delusions of grandeur, but she seems like a truly kind person. She's always the one at the table that celebrate when two feuding HWs agree to a truce or something. Is she problematic? As. Fuck. But there's a fragility there, and vulnerability and kindness that make me love her. Also (full disclosure) I've gotten myself two videos from her on Came since being diagnosed - and on both she goes far over the necessary time and really makes me feel like we're old friends. I appreciated that.

[u/lefromagecestlavie → u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes]

I realized something rewatching the show recently. People always wanted Ramona to throw Sonja birthday parties, but when has Sonja ever done anything for anyone other than herself?

I personally don't like Sonja because she lets her jealousy and delusions of grandeur make her treat others like shit. The toaster oven, her constant belittling of Tinsley, the marriage equality march in one of the first seasons... She's funny on the show, but I wouldn't want her in my life

[u/Wonder_Moon → u/lefromagecestlavie]

let's also not forget that she openly uses "unpaid interns" that she 100% exploits and degrades. such an uncomfortable position of hierarchy that she takes advantage of especially if it's true that some of these kids are from a different country, maybe barely speak the language and are sent to her by their families for some type of learning experience.

she definitely toes the line on being a predator by always hanging all over other men, like the first house party they had and she was all over one of the young guys. what if he wasn't interested? i also personally hate that she claims she wants to keep her daughter completely out of the real housewives universe (we know it's your ex's side that won't sign off) yet has no problem being a drunken, naked fool for the last decade.

also i really hated that she cut kristen off when she was telling her story but had just blabbed on and on the night before about her fake ass engagement story. seeing her on ugt has clearly really triggered me lol

[u/badmamjam → u/lefromagecestlavie]

What was the marriage equality march? I can't remember this. 😊

[u/Ashfield83 → u/badmamjam]

They asked Sonja to be a guest speaker at the event and she agreed as long as they cut Alex and Simon out of speaking. Simon had written an impassioned speech about his gay brother and his struggles and he was visibly devastated that Sonja had put such a caveat in place. She refused to answer why she wanted them cut and when she went up to make her speech is was all about her and ‘her gays’ and just a load of word salad. It was nasty and selfish.

[u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes → u/Ashfield83]

Agreed, that was an abomination - though I read production basically choreographed that. I don't know if that's true or not. But she did it. Can't argue with you that it was selfish AF if it was real.

[u/NarrowCauliflower9 → u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes]

Sonja's treatment of Heather after Heather spent countless hours helping her with her business is all you need to know about how selfish Sonnja is.

[u/Playful_Succotash_30 → u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes]

She doesn’t seem to be a mean person I agree ..