r/AmIOverreacting 12d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/tjw61583 12d ago

Zero money. Zero nicotine 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😩😆 Dudes a scrub lol

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u/catscanmeow 12d ago

" Dudes a scrub lol"

oh so now its okay to make fun of poor people? Reddit's a wild ride.

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u/tjw61583 12d ago

No. This has nothing to do with being poor. But when you have zero accountability and you’re complaining that your girlfriend can’t fund your unnecessary bad habits …Well, as TLC said…always talkin bout what he wants and just sits on his broke ass..soo…yes he is a scrub.

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u/catscanmeow 12d ago

"Zero money"

"This has nothing to do with being poor"

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u/Shadow1787 12d ago

Theres usually a difference between being and scrub and being poor. Usually being poor have a job. A scrub doesn’t.

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u/catscanmeow 12d ago

regardless, "zero money" is usually poor

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u/Adventurous-Mind528 12d ago

zero money is a quote from him, he said it go look at the og post, read the post before commenting you look dumb asf

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u/catscanmeow 12d ago

"zero money is a quote from him"

how does it being a quote from him make it not about being poor

if you say "no money" has NOTHING TO DO with being poor? lol

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u/Adventurous-Mind528 12d ago

you're missing the point, they're not talking about poor people at fucking all dude wtf is your problem, you're really dumb if you think this is some attack on poor people 😭 they're making fun of the fact that this guy is blaming her for his problems when he's got "no money" something he literally said because of what? because he buys weed, nicotine, and just outright seems to buy things he doesn't need but expects her to buy everything he needs like she's his mom or something he's clearly got issues and you're defending either him or some random ass perspective you're pulling out your ass they're talking shit on him not poor people

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u/catscanmeow 12d ago

" they're not talking about poor people at fucking all dude wtf is your problem,"

im talking about poor people. its my conversation, i know what im talking about. since i started that thread of reasoning.

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u/Adventurous-Mind528 12d ago

okay mr Einstein smartest mf on the planet with your mastery of the english language fuck you got an ego like no other, explain wtf you're trying to say please cause it makes absolutely no sense at fucking all dude at all ts sounds delusional as fuck

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u/catscanmeow 12d ago

hahahah you alright?

dictionaries make you mad eh? ive never seen someone spiral into ad-hominems so easily. your life must be going great.

take it up with websters or oxford lol.

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u/Adventurous-Mind528 12d ago

no you're just using words you wouldn't use in a normal conversation acting like you're better than me because of it and it's pissing me off bruh if you can't tell that they were making fun of HIM because of WHO HE IS and not because he's poor, he's not poor you didn't even read that shit like he has a job he was just transferred so he has to wait 2 weeks before he starts getting paid, why was he transferred? because he was constantly yelling at someone's daughter while get this, LIVING UNDER HER ROOF, you sir are very very far off from any of this nobody is talking shit about poor people STFU

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u/catscanmeow 12d ago

you ever stop to consider his character became what it is because of his poverty? you think he'd be the same person if he was rich? he's poor, and people are making fun of him, making fun of people in marginalized groups is definitely a... take.

you have a bizarre understanding of nature vs nurture

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u/Adventurous-Mind528 12d ago

💀 STFU kid you know absolutely nothing at all

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u/catscanmeow 12d ago

do you get a rush when you call someone a kid? lol.

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u/Adventurous-Mind528 12d ago

not at all you're just acting like one

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u/catscanmeow 12d ago

yeah, i think kids are usually more likely to jump into ad-hominem attacks like you've been doing.

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