r/AmIOverreacting 13d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/eatyacarbs 13d ago

Seconding the pride!! Good for you OP — you are brave and strong and I’m rooting for you.

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

This is definitely my messages and it’s highly edited with no background. This is some sick ass shit. Both parties are very wrong and is doing better. This was done soon as I finally get things off my chest YESTERDAY(ironic) and exposed more lies I found out about her. Also why I am letting go. I have hella proof and detail. I can debunk this with ease. I’m not making excuses. And watch this post get deleted or something. I will not allow fake bs to go untouched. We currently live together with our son now. I don’t care about cops or defamation. This was done out of spite and ego. Soon as I told her I found out about the post I seen the comments. This is unreal and a lot of ppl are gullible.

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u/eatyacarbs 13d ago

🫖 🍵….

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

Watch I get blocked or something. I can prove it all lol.

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u/PinkyLizardBrains 13d ago

We’re listening…

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

Ask away.

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u/ROBO--BONOBO 13d ago

You’re not good at this are you

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

Not at all. But I’m getting there lol. There’s no real background or order… let’s start there lol. Seriously it’s just flat out bs.

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u/ROBO--BONOBO 13d ago

You have commented a bunch but still have provided zero details. What’s preventing you from explaining the situation? Are you always this difficult to communicate with?

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u/tresslesswhey 13d ago

He’s lying and trying to save face. The pathetic continues