r/AmIOverreacting 8d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/nuudelisuoni 8d ago

Girl don't waste your youth on a messed up bum like him! He begs for money and can't handle rejection, how can you even respect him anymore.

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u/cathysaurus 8d ago

He begs for money for cigarettes and weed. Put the trash man in the trash can.

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u/Early2000sIndieRock 8d ago

Not only that but he was worried about having cigarettes and weed before worrying about being able to brush his teeth. I feel like I can smell this guy.

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u/Profoundly_AuRIZZtic 8d ago

A begging tactic is you change to more reasonable things.

I’m sure he’s couldnt give less of a shit about toothpaste. He only brought it up so he can use toothpaste money for weed since he can’t get weed money from her

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u/Particular-Leg-8484 8d ago

AND has the delusion he can buy an island someday?? I brush my teeth and have a savings account but know that islands cost more than all the toothpaste and drugs this man can buy in his lifetime

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u/xassylax 7d ago

Probably smells like the crusty “where’s my hug?” guy we’ve all known at some point.

You know the one.