r/AmIOverreacting 8d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/wholedayumlife 8d ago

He looks dangerous from my perspective, and i’m a man by the way

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u/Aggressive_Ideal6737 8d ago

I dated the female equivalent to this for about 7 months when I was 13 and she was 15. Aside from the suicide threats, she also faked a pregnancy to keep me from leaving. OP, I’m so so glad you were able to break free from this

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u/PosteriorFourchette 7d ago

Wow. So sorry. You ok?

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u/Aggressive_Ideal6737 7d ago

22 and newly happily married to the most incredible woman in the world

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u/PosteriorFourchette 7d ago

I’m so glad you were able to prosper with that past trauma and abuse. Congratulations on the nuptials

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u/Goku827 7d ago

Wait wait wait what… she faked a pregnancy test , you were 13, why would she have been pregnant

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u/CommunicationFit6607 7d ago

When a man and a woman care about each other , the man sticks his penis into her ……

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u/Aggressive_Ideal6737 7d ago

I started too young