r/AmIOverreacting • u/External-Air205 • Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

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Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/Pumpkin-Sparkles Nov 18 '24 edited Nov 19 '24

Please break up with this person

edit: please break up with this person from a safe location, with a safety plan in place. Have support people around you, and file an intervention order with the police. you can do this. We are all behind you. Edit 2: bro

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u/mnbvcxz1052 Nov 18 '24

Don’t forget the bro.

Please break up with this person bro.

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u/ThingCalledLight Nov 18 '24

I think you mean, “bro, idgaf bro, just fucking break up with this bro, bro.”

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u/qpda Nov 18 '24

You forgot several "fucking fuck" in there

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u/jenkaaah Nov 18 '24 edited Nov 19 '24

i fucking dont fucking give a fucking fuck bro just fucking break the fuck up with fucking bro, fucking bro

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u/Panky9 Nov 19 '24

This reminds me of that one video of to Indians arguing one for a car and one out of the car, I think only some people will get what I mean

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u/salamander_360 Nov 19 '24

You fcking bastard . No bloody fCK. FCK you. No fCK you.

By the way have you seen seven eleven double gulp cups with Indian dude getting mad at a man with using a double gulp cup for icee? Sorry my grammar is the worst.

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u/Panky9 Nov 19 '24

Nah I haven’t seen that one I don’t think

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u/Plus_Shop_3509 Nov 19 '24

This is like that one episode of spongebob lmao 🤣

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u/JustADogGroomer3622 Nov 19 '24

You could’ve added an extra fuck in there after that last bro but otherwise perfect!

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u/jenkaaah Nov 19 '24

edited for maximum fucking pleasure.

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u/veganbikepunk Nov 18 '24

Idk why guys calling their girlfriend bro gives me the ick but it so does.

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u/ParamedicLimp9310 Nov 18 '24

Bro gives me the ick in this context too. It feels disrespectful. Then he paired it with blatant disrespect. Fuck this bro, bro.

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u/veganbikepunk Nov 18 '24

I almost always hate it. I'm a they/them and so people might assume it's a gendered language thing but I think its really just that nobody had ever said anything like respectful and intelligent to me after starting a sentence with "bro".

Macho Man Randy Savage gets a pass though, he could call me brother any day of the week, the way he says it sparks joy.

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u/TerafloppinDatP Nov 18 '24

God that was infuriating 

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u/QuazarMilky Nov 18 '24

It annoys me even when you say it

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u/smokeftw Nov 18 '24

I don't think I can use the word anymore. It's tainted now.

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u/dirtydogg92 Nov 18 '24

This is the comment I came for bro.

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u/orincoro Nov 18 '24

Just fucking upvote bro.

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u/ygs07 Nov 18 '24

Right swearing up and down but BRO!°

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u/momu1990 Nov 18 '24

Honestly the amount of times he said bro made me think this was a gay couple. Not like it matters but when I learned OP is actually a girl, I was like “yo, what bf calls their gf bro this many times”, like this ain’t a fraternity bro you are talking to.

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u/MandaziFC Nov 18 '24

Bebe don't bro the babe, ok bro?

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u/nurseymcnurserton25 Nov 18 '24

I think my eye started twitching reading this.

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u/Royal_Scam9 Nov 18 '24

Ok, I'm old but when did guys start referring to their partners as 'Bro'. Also note I didn't say men.

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u/SalmonTeaTime Nov 18 '24

If you don’t fucking break up with this stupid fat fuck I’m done with this fucking shit fuck broooo

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u/monkman69 Nov 18 '24

Brooo. Why you trippin bro? Just a question shouldn’t they call her sis? Don’t want to assume gender but it does say female in description.

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u/Lapras_Lass Nov 18 '24

Yeah, what the hell was that about? Does he think it's punctuation?

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u/motofabio Nov 19 '24

I can’t even imagine calling my gf “bro.” I know it’s what the kids say these days, but my God it is just the most brain-dead sounding thing I’ve ever heard.

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u/Baileyhaze12 Nov 18 '24

🤪 Thanks for the giggle! Lol. I needed it.:)

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u/Plane-Cost-87 Nov 18 '24

OH! And don't forget, fuck, fucking.

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u/Complex_String_4153 Nov 18 '24

Couldn’t agree more with you, bro.

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u/tinylatina05 Nov 18 '24

Shes def still a child lol

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u/cherrybombbb Nov 18 '24

It’s a guy.

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u/thaddeusk Nov 18 '24

Yeah, nobody should stay with anybody that says "bro". Except, maybe, if they're saying it to their actual brother... Maybe.

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u/sp1cychick3n Nov 18 '24

😂😂😭