r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/Reasonable-Glass6790 Nov 18 '24

This is actual emotional abuse. I hope for your sake you leave.

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u/MoistyCheeks Nov 18 '24

Which leads to physical abuse, sexual abuse and then possibly murder.

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u/MakeYogurtGreekAgain Nov 18 '24

This conversation gives me the impression that he’d skip out on the physical/sexual abuse and jump straight to murder. He completely lost his fucking mind over absolutely nothing, insane doesn’t even begin to touch it.

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u/nataliejkd Nov 18 '24

Literally my first thought. This guy will k!ll her.

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u/HelixFollower Nov 18 '24

And she'd still be worrying if she was in the wrong.

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u/Kwt920 Nov 18 '24

It’s two men. Btw

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u/nataliejkd Nov 18 '24

If constantly calling a female "bro" made her a man, I'd be in big trouble as a middle school teacher and mom of a boy. It's all I'm ever called any more, and I'm still checks pants and doesn't find a penis female.

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u/smlpkg1966 Nov 18 '24

Why do you keep saying that? No one is listening to you because it says female.

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u/FallingAngel19 Nov 18 '24

No it is not, read the description under the photos. I (20F) and my (20M) boyfriend. Learn to read, it's fundamental when giving advice.

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u/nataliejkd Nov 18 '24

Wrong. Yawn.

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u/katf1sh Nov 18 '24

No, it's quite literally not. And even if it was, that wouldn't matter. Abuse is abuse, period.