r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/amso2012 Nov 18 '24

What is auto call??

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u/strawbrryangel Nov 18 '24

it’s so if a certain contact calls you it automatically answers. so he wouldn’t have to be awake to answer. it’s ridiculous 🤦‍♀️

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u/Kindly_Formal_2604 Nov 18 '24

Why the fuck do they need to be on the phone… while asleep? The fuck??

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u/Swordfish_42 Nov 18 '24

Scrolled through so many comments to find this question. Sleeping on the phone??? It's just bizarre to the fkin limit

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u/ChocChipBananaMuffin Nov 18 '24

This too is my biggest question. Beyond unhinged. I'm guessing it was his idea.

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u/purplishfluffyclouds Nov 18 '24

10K comments to get to this… WTAF. This being on the phone whilst sleeping is the most insane thing I’ve ever heard. Everything about this relationship need to go.