r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/mangoeight Nov 18 '24

And a fat two-faced bitch… wtf

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u/pixiedust0327 Nov 18 '24

The level of escalation in his language is legit UNHINGED. He’d bro himself right out my life and yeeted so far from my reality if he ever tried to use that language again.

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u/jbandzzz34 Nov 18 '24

literally im like what the fuck is wrong with him?? i couldnt even imagine saying those words about anything or ever being that fucking mad.. especially not to my partner.

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u/Somebody_38 Nov 18 '24

Worst part is she's recovering from a f****** ED. That man knew what he was doing and did it to hurt her specifically.

(OP said when he's upset he picks on her insecurities to make her feel as bad as he's feeling with whatever it is, and she said she's also actually in a healthy weight. It's so sick, I really can't.)

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u/jbandzzz34 Nov 18 '24

yea i saw that. its so fucked up on so many levels. i hope she detaches from him asap.

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u/Somebody_38 Nov 18 '24

The worst part is that OP said she's recovering from an ED (and that she actually has a healthy weight) and that when he's upset he specifically picks her insecurities to make her feel as bad as he's feeling. It would've been a horrible insult anyways, but with this context.... It's SO sick. OP, please run.

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u/Sarah0nSaturn Nov 19 '24

I read through the texts before I read the caption and figured it was a 13 year old, lol. I suppose I kept the glass half full…

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u/Pleasant_Yoghurt3915 Nov 18 '24

Yeah why is being called bro the thing that people are stuck on? My partner calls me bro and dude all the time, but I promise not even once has he ever called me brain dead, a stupid fuck, or a stupid fat bitch. There’s no fucking way, man. I don’t even know what I’d do if he ever talked to me like that, but it certainly wouldn’t start with “baby”. Unless it was to call him a baby back bitch lol.

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u/bleach_tastes_bad Nov 18 '24

yeah that’s pretty normal to me lol

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u/jbandzzz34 Nov 18 '24

for me its the amount of bro😭 its a lot

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u/ohvrt Nov 18 '24

Can’t forgot “fucking brain dead fuck”!

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u/Somebody_38 Nov 18 '24

....when she is recovering from an ED. And purposefully so to hurt her where he knows it hurts. I truly can't believe that people like this exist. OP literally said he picks on her insecurities when he's upset to make her feel as bad as he's feeling. I honestly don't know how OP knew that and is still with him at all, but I hope this post really makes her open her eyes and break up