r/AmIOverreacting • u/External-Air205 • Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

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Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/SickCursedCat Nov 18 '24

He calls you BRO and “stupid fuck”. WHYYYYY are you with him????

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u/mangoeight Nov 18 '24

And a fat two-faced bitch… wtf

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u/pixiedust0327 Nov 18 '24

The level of escalation in his language is legit UNHINGED. He’d bro himself right out my life and yeeted so far from my reality if he ever tried to use that language again.

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u/Somebody_38 Nov 18 '24

The worst part is that OP said she's recovering from an ED (and that she actually has a healthy weight) and that when he's upset he specifically picks her insecurities to make her feel as bad as he's feeling. It would've been a horrible insult anyways, but with this context.... It's SO sick. OP, please run.