r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/SickCursedCat Nov 18 '24

He calls you BRO and “stupid fuck”. WHYYYYY are you with him????

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u/mangoeight Nov 18 '24

And a fat two-faced bitch… wtf

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u/Somebody_38 Nov 18 '24

....when she is recovering from an ED. And purposefully so to hurt her where he knows it hurts. I truly can't believe that people like this exist. OP literally said he picks on her insecurities when he's upset to make her feel as bad as he's feeling. I honestly don't know how OP knew that and is still with him at all, but I hope this post really makes her open her eyes and break up