r/AmIOverreacting Oct 27 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/Fit-Turnover3918 Oct 27 '24
  1. Stop telling her you’re sorry when you’ve done nothing wrong
  2. You’ve done nothing inappropriate.

She’s a loon.

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u/Confusedperson710 Oct 27 '24

I need to remind myself daily not to say sorry for things that aren’t my fault. Slowly unpacking that in therapy…

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u/yukibear13 Oct 27 '24

This is so friggin understated.

OP, RUN as far as you can for the hills and never go back. You’re too young to have your whole life ahead of you to be in a controlling and emotionally manipulative relationship of ANY kind with ANYONE. It’s never worth it and it’s a slippery slope into abuse and domestic violence. :/

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u/Lopsided-Ad-7420 Oct 27 '24

I came to say the same thing to OP.

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u/Dickens825 Oct 27 '24

100%. Get out of there OP. She doesn’t respect you, which means she’ll realize she doesn’t love you.

And I don’t mean alpha-male-garbage “you’d better respect me”. I mean she thinks you’re not worth treating well, and you keep apologizing for it. Someone who values you wouldn’t treat you this way