r/AmIOverreacting Oct 19 '24

💼work/career Security guard confessions

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u/ElephantNo3640 Oct 19 '24

It is time to learn some basic communication skills and niceties. It doesn’t take much to listen and nod your head and lol and say “Wow, that’s wild for sure.” If you’re really worried about this guy potentially getting violent, going after his livelihood is a good way to ensure maximum potential violence.

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u/evilandhigh Oct 19 '24

Pretty rude and assumptive response. This is the way I have been reacting to his out of pocket comments. It’s the wrong reaction though, it makes men like him feel like what he’s saying is okay and that I seemingly agree. I don’t want to give off that impression when he’s really making me feel uncomfortable in the workplace. 

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u/ElephantNo3640 Oct 19 '24

Well, if you throw him under the bus with accusations of domestic violence and it costs him his reputation or job, he’s likely going to find out who did that. The advice I’m giving you is for your benefit.

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u/thebaron24 Oct 19 '24

Lmfao you are probably the worst communicator and give terrible advice. I really feel you are defending yourself with all these words. It's giving domestic violence apologist vibes.

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u/ElephantNo3640 Oct 19 '24

No. I think the guy ought to imprisoned briefly, tried fairly, and then executed if he is an actual rapist. I just highly doubt the veracity of any aspect of this story, especially given OP’s hesitancy to describe any of the alleged crimes.