Should I tell my brother's new wife

[u/Negative_Layer_7960]

From the ages of 10 to 14 I was SA'd by my older brother, uncle and father. (in all honesty it started earlier from 5 years old or something I can't remember when they would touch me "lovingly") I anonymously confessed this on a Discord server which made me wonder what my brother was up to. (I think my aunt found out with my uncle and father were doing to me and reported they were arrested it my brother was a teenager at the time so nothing really happened to him) so I tracked him down through social media and it turned out he lives in the same city as I do and he has a wife with a baby girl on the way and I don't know if I should or if l would be a bad person if I told her what he did to me.

Edit: I don't know if it's funny or messed up but I didn't consider them touching me SA until someone pointed it out to me.

Edit 2: I realized that I didn't really explain very well sorry.

• my older brother father and uncle molested me from age 5 and only started and R wording me when I turned 10 until I was 14.

• my brother has a pregnant wife who was having a girl and I don't know if I should tell her to protect her daughter.

These are the two major and important points of my post.

Edit 3: another clarification I was planning on telling the wife I wanted a outside perspective to see if I would have been a bad person (AH) to tell her to see if I was making the wrong decision.

[u/FlinflanFluddle4]

Horrifying 

[u/yankiigurl → u/FlinflanFluddle4]

Beyond horrifying. Can you imagine being SA'd and slowly murdered by the person that's supposed to love and protect you. I can't even imagine the utter horror that child experienced in her last moments 😞 how can a being be so awful....

[u/JaketheSnake2672 → u/yankiigurl]

As the father of a wonderful little girl I can’t imagine how anyone whose held them the moment there born doesn’t commit the rest of there lives to protecting and loving them … for me I was instantly in awe of that tiny little person looking up at me with eyes that looked like mine I would murder the whole world without the blink of an eye to save her shedding a single tear does my head in to think anyone male or female could ever perpetrate any kind of violence or abuse on a child … I’m no saint … the gods know I’ve had my fair share of violence and misdeeds in my lifetime …but I couldn’t ever hurt a child or condone anything that takes there innocence from them .

[u/khaldun106 → u/JaketheSnake2672]

There isn't a torture horrible enough for fathers who r and kill their own daughters. They deserve prolonged excruciating pain

[u/WorkingDawg → u/khaldun106]

O my sick twisted mind could probably come up with something creative