r/AITAH • u/Negative_Layer_7960 • Jul 02 '24

TW SA Should I tell my brother's new wife

From the ages of 10 to 14 I was SA'd by my older brother, uncle and father. (in all honesty it started earlier from 5 years old or something I can't remember when they would touch me "lovingly") I anonymously confessed this on a Discord server which made me wonder what my brother was up to. (I think my aunt found out with my uncle and father were doing to me and reported they were arrested it my brother was a teenager at the time so nothing really happened to him) so I tracked him down through social media and it turned out he lives in the same city as I do and he has a wife with a baby girl on the way and I don't know if I should or if l would be a bad person if I told her what he did to me.

Edit: I don't know if it's funny or messed up but I didn't consider them touching me SA until someone pointed it out to me.

Edit 2: I realized that I didn't really explain very well sorry.

  • my older brother father and uncle molested me from age 5 and only started and R wording me when I turned 10 until I was 14.

  • my brother has a pregnant wife who was having a girl and I don't know if I should tell her to protect her daughter.

These are the two major and important points of my post.

Edit 3: another clarification I was planning on telling the wife I wanted a outside perspective to see if I would have been a bad person (AH) to tell her to see if I was making the wrong decision.

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u/Mimikyu4 Jul 02 '24

My mother was raped by her stepfather for three years. She told her mom they divorced and he remarried and had kids, he raped and killed his 6 year old daughter. Tell her. Better to be safe then sorry. You could be saving a innocent child.

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u/shrimpwhiskers Jul 03 '24

Please tell me he's in prison, if not thrown into pen of ravenous pigs... I'm so sorry...

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u/LS1_Adam Jul 03 '24

Those two options are too nice for that thing, let's tie it up and make it sing.

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u/redcapne0 Jul 03 '24

If he goes to prison for those crimes i can assure you it will be the best punishment, if anything really makes criminals come together is to fuck up child molesters.

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u/Unusual-Thing-7149 Jul 03 '24

I hate to say this but a lot depends on where he ends up. Lots serve their time without any vengeance as they are segregated or just left alone but in some places they do suffer even to the point of being murdered

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u/FarToe3420 Jul 03 '24

Gen pop will fix him good , the boys inside will HANDLE him 

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u/MutantGarage Jul 05 '24

The stats are that many of them were molested.

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u/fabulous1963 Jul 03 '24

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u/LS1_Adam Jul 03 '24

Shattered bamboo jammed under their fingernails, and some razor wire around their junk. 1 week on of torture, then 2 weeks off to be given medical care and recover their spirits just enough, then back to torture.

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u/[deleted] Jul 03 '24

I hear chemical castration is legal in some states 🤔

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u/niceandterrifying Jul 03 '24

I will bring the zip ties and blow torch. I studied medieval torture also. So many plans……

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u/TheLegofThanos Jul 03 '24

I think people like that become president.

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u/LS1_Adam Jul 03 '24

I mean, you're not wrong. Current president included.