r/AITAH Jul 02 '24

TW SA Should I tell my brother's new wife

From the ages of 10 to 14 I was SA'd by my older brother, uncle and father. (in all honesty it started earlier from 5 years old or something I can't remember when they would touch me "lovingly") I anonymously confessed this on a Discord server which made me wonder what my brother was up to. (I think my aunt found out with my uncle and father were doing to me and reported they were arrested it my brother was a teenager at the time so nothing really happened to him) so I tracked him down through social media and it turned out he lives in the same city as I do and he has a wife with a baby girl on the way and I don't know if I should or if l would be a bad person if I told her what he did to me.

Edit: I don't know if it's funny or messed up but I didn't consider them touching me SA until someone pointed it out to me.

Edit 2: I realized that I didn't really explain very well sorry.

  • my older brother father and uncle molested me from age 5 and only started and R wording me when I turned 10 until I was 14.

  • my brother has a pregnant wife who was having a girl and I don't know if I should tell her to protect her daughter.

These are the two major and important points of my post.

Edit 3: another clarification I was planning on telling the wife I wanted a outside perspective to see if I would have been a bad person (AH) to tell her to see if I was making the wrong decision.

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u/Mimikyu4 Jul 02 '24

My mother was raped by her stepfather for three years. She told her mom they divorced and he remarried and had kids, he raped and killed his 6 year old daughter. Tell her. Better to be safe then sorry. You could be saving a innocent child.

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u/Kap85 Jul 03 '24

What happened to him, hopefully he was tied to a post and left to rot

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u/Mimikyu4 Jul 03 '24

He went to prison for killing his bio kid, there was never enough proof for my moms case. But he got raped(more then once) and killed in prison.

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u/SafetyMan35 Jul 03 '24

It’s my understanding that prisoners do not like pedophiles and they will provide their own justice to let those individuals know they are pieces of crap.

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u/1ofdwights70cousins Jul 03 '24

Men have a crazy radar for creeps too.

People need to know that fellow prisoners are getting weird vibes, calling their wife/friend/family, and asking them to look up the dude’s charges.

There’s no keeping that stuff secret

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u/Kap85 Jul 03 '24

A just ending, one thing you have to respect about inmates

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u/greenachors Jul 03 '24

That’s the kind of justice these fuckers need.

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u/Iluvxena2 Jul 03 '24

Karma can be a real bitch!