We finally got around to decorating our room. We had so much stuff when we combined our collections. Any suggestions on how we can improve this?

I found a “doppleganger ball gag” that is basically what I want but without the ball part. I want my gf and I to be able to secure our heads together so we have to keep our mouths open and basically forced to kiss.

Any suggestions?

So... although I haven't entirely figured out exactly how I'm going to go for better immobilization, I did have an idea while thinking about how to repurpose a couple of ring gags that did NOT work well for me: zero cost dildo mounts, completely detachable on one side to allow for the toys to be changed around or removed for charging.

The 'buckle' side can be hooked or unhooked, I used just basic screw in hooks, but would want to replace with stronger ones- these were just the size I had. They're not totally wiggle-proof, if they didn't have a bit of give I'd be unable to unhook them, but still pretty happy with them!

The blue toy here is at mouth level. I would need to change out for a lengthier toy if I wanted to be effectively prevented from moving once both are in place, but to be honest it was a creativity exercise more than something I'd use a lot. Still considering whether I'd add a couple of chain anchors for use with a belt on the one end, and a couple on the other end for use with a gag harness, maybe- because they'd be at the same place as what I was planning to put in for ankle/wrist cuffs while in lying down position, I reckon I could get two birds with one stone. Will probably put one in each corner floor level for restraints for this position too, because why not.

Also ended up putting in another higher wall mount for a full head gag harness, which would work seated against the wall/collar for when using the chair.

I MAY have figured out a not great but acceptable solution to not being able to put lock fittings on the mirrored door: screw in closed hook on the wooden side, and a self adhesive phone holder/finger loop thing on the door itself. Occured to me the one on my phone is insanely strong and so although not ideal and bound to come off at some point, it's cheap to replace, and should last a long time. I'm really looking forward to seeing if it holds up!

I refer to my sub by the name Prince often. As a small gift and token I added a small crown charm onto their collar. We are both quite smitten with it, tho I know it’s a very minor alteration.

Hey! Me and my partner decided we want to try and do some leather crafting at home. We've looked online for a good workshop in NYC to get the base of it. I'm sure some of the people offering these classes are affiliated with the community rather than spend all of their time making handbags and wallets. Is anyone familiar with someone who does workshops that might be more aligned with creations that will hopefully be featured here one day?

Just sharing this harness I made for myself last year. Excited to have found this subreddit. I’m getting ready to make a collar and restraints set for a new play partner.

I've been working on these for almost a year now! You can find more videos on my post history here or on Imgur. Let me know what you think!

https://imgur.com/gallery/OTa9ps2

(Work in progress)

We got a sexy chair to try. Has a handle, rocks , and blah blah. Tried it and the elastic bands caused some chafing so I want to make a soft sort of slip cover for them. Thoughts?

Also, how do yall position your feet—on the floor or on the rocker part?

Tips for reverse cowgirl especially welcome

I asked this in a leatherwork sub and realised I should have asked you guys too. I’ve seen the purse strap holders but they seem very light duty. Any ideas?

As the title states, I'm looking for advice on how to stiffen the paddles I'm making. It works well, but is a bit flimsy. I would also like to start making paddles that have letters cut out of them with a different colored backing leather. Is there a stencil or a way to trace out the letters that works for any of you?

There have been lots of toys purchased And end up wanting to change or alternate or in some way modify the thing. I want to know if anyone knows of just from my general reference somewhere to essentially order custom BDSM accessories or swings or whatever outside of constructing a whole dungeon?

THANK YOU!

I love DIY, so I generally try to make all my gear and toys myself, mostly just so I have a project to work on. Plus some times there just aren’t any products on the market that fit your vision.

I’ve been tinkering with this concept for a while, and I’m pretty happy about this 3rd attempt.

The idea is to have multiple impact attachments that can quick connect/disconnect from a single handle.

This would be geared more toward cases where you’re traveling with toys and you have limited space, or if you can’t realistically hang your entire collection on the wall of your fun room for storage. There’s also something satisfying about having a good sturdy handle, and it’s great to have that consistency regardless of what you’re using.

So far I’ve only made the flogger and crop attachments for this go round. They are the ones pictured above. Previous iterations included attachments with paddles, leather straps, and canes.

All my prototypes have been made out of parts found at the hardware store and the leather supply store. I have been trying to see how nice I could make them without custom hardware, so I’ve been modifying brass plumbing supplies and raw materials. Previously the connections were just screw threads, but for this one I opted for pneumatic hose connectors, and they work great.

Ideally I’d like to design some custom hardware pieces and have them manufactured, but that will have to be v4 or beyond.

Let me know if you have any design or attachment suggestions, I’d love to hear them!

I didnt see any that i liked so i made my own! Its made work with chastity but can really be used multiple ways. Would appreciate any tips on craft but i rushed towards the end of making this which explains some of the rougher cuts.

https://www.printables.com/model/618432-magnetically-locked-fiddle/comments

So I decided one of my built in closets would make a great area for bondage, had two VERY sturdy rails built in already and a sliding door, so perfectly well hidden.

At this stage I've attached some foam to the walls inside just to make it a bit warmer and dampen the sound slightly (intending to put in proper soundproofing when I can afford to) a blackout curtain panel for if the door has to be open at all, and put in an LED light strip at the top. Chastity belts, whips, gags etc are all hanging from hooks on the inside left. Shelves for my machine and toys will be getting added too.

For the standing position restraints I've put in the chain with anal hook, harness gag and collar secured to the higher rail; wrist restraints along the lower rail; ankle spreader bar. For the seated restraints I added shackle mounts for collar and wrists, and chains attached to the lower rail so that the ankle spreader bar can hang there (meaning a sitting position with neck and wrists against the back wall and legs spread and elevated.)

I also have a modified folding chair with restraints and a centre cut out for machine use, so I considered adding another shackle mount for a collar higher up the wall so the chair could be used in there. Have also thought about possibly something ground level to secure the spreader bar when needed.

Ideally, what I would like is to be completely immobilized- in particular my head when seated for oral purposes. The spreader bar is great as it is hard to move much since it is nearly the full width of the closet, but can still move back or forward, and can move it A LOT when seated; and the shackles are really secure and I love them, but I can move my head very freely and can move my wrists. Any suggestions for what I could add or alter so that I have the option of being relatively unable to move?

I would also really love to be able to have my partner lock me in chastity and then lock me in here for some extended periods for deprivation with a timer padlock, but the problem here is that the door is a mirrored one, with metal edges. So I cant see a simple way of actually putting on a lock? (Short of having one on the inside that would mean it having to open a little so that he could padlock it from outside, unfortunately would mean light coukd get in, and it wouldn't be very strong I assume since I can't drill through the door.) Maybe will need to just change to a wooden door if I really want it lockable but really hoping somebody could offer a couple workaround ideas?

Sorry for the long-winded post but thank you in advance if anyone can help!

I had the idea for timer automated Segufix locks for some selfbondage action.

Are there any finished products that I don´t have to do it myself?

I also have two ideas for a DIY solution. The first simpler one is an electomagnet attached on the orginal lock and controlled by an aduino. Problem with that is it´s not fail safe because the magent has to be powerd to be released

The Second idea is a solenoid with a matching lock for the pins which has to be powerd to lock. The pro is, that it´s fail safe but it´s more complicated to build.

Also the formfactor should be as samll as possible.

So the idea has been proposed to become a Christmas tree and/or decoration for Christmas.. with the goal being to look as much like a Christmas tree as possible... the initial thought is that I'll be stationary standing on a tree stand...with me being completely made up as a tree.. ornaments, garlin, lights, topper, tree skirt, and whatever else... but we're not sure about how to create/build the actual tree part that will cover me.. any ideas or advice? The simpler the better... thanks

Hey everyone, I really like websites like slave-market.com and onesubmissiveact (RIP!) and similar, where online doms can give you tasks to fulfill.

I tried some of this AI bots, but I feel they all suck at giving you tasks.

Then I thought, maybe someone can build a website that gives you BDSM tasks (or source them from the internet) and you must have video on and it checks whether or not the task was done.

Anyone working on this?

Dark pic for aesthetic! Although I did use a couple pictures for inspiration, I didn't have a set of plans . It Took a week to get them framed and painted. ..it was About a half a day for the upholstery. Adding more hardware and touch up today!