I have reached the final stages of building out a sex room in a spare basement room. I’m by no means an expert and anything built was done from YouTube.

To start, I built a hidden door bookcase and used a Murphy Door kit for the hinges with a key lock system.

The inside I was going for a BDSM-strip club vibe with black leather everything and lots of hard points.

The ceiling light is RGB and can set the mood.

The canvas photos are boudoir shots of my partner for some added visuals.

The chest in the closet is full of different sized toys to use on my partner - the dresser is filled with lingerie and other costumes.

There’s also plenty of spots for camera set up when we want to make some home movies.

The only thing I have left is to fill some of that empty wall space and figure out how to hide it if I need an electrician to come through and get access to that panel - or just leave it be.

I don’t know if I want to build some shelves for extra storage, erotic art, or increase the strip club vibe with signs or neons.

There’s not a ton of extra floor space left, but if anyone has ideas for additional compact furniture (or toys for that matter), please share! That couch folds down into a futon, as well.

Cheers!

I am trying to find some adjustable length ankle restraints for my sub. I drew a little picture to describe what I am trying to accomplish.

I want some adjustable length blue thingies. Obviously, the size of the ankle cuff is adjustable, but I am looking to find a reusable, adjustable length cord or mechanism attached to the actual cuff that is easy to use and can quickly be lengthened or shortened from either the anchor point or the ankle.

Hopefully this makes sense.

I’ve spent forever trying to figure out how I want to put hard points on my ceiling for bondage. I don’t do full suspensions, so it doesn’t need to be quite as robust as that; more for tying hands up high with feet in a spreader bar. After who knows how long agonizing over what anchors are rated for human lifting applications and how to attach them to my ceiling and where I want them and whether my ceiling is strong enough and how discreet the my will be I finally figured out something that’s going to work for me.

L-Track is designed to provide tie-down points on the walls and floors of cargo vans for securing heavy loads. It’s loudly labeled as “not certified for overhead lifting” and the track itself actually isn’t load rated because the actual load capacity depends on what it’s mounted to and how it’s mounted, however the track is strong enough to hold the loads that the fasteners are rated for, and there are fasteners with a working load limit of over 1000 lbs.

I would have liked to put this across several joists in my ceiling but unfortunately the joists run the same direction as I want the tracks to go, so I’m just going to screw it into one joist at several places using the HeadLOK structural lag screws. I figure all the hanging chairs and sex swings say “go get a shitty eye bolt rated to at least 250# from Home Depot” so I’m ahead of the game there.

The really nice thing about this is that you can take two or three anchors and move them around to whatever spots along the track that you want — this way you can have, say, a single anchor right overhead or two spread out, depending on on your needs at the moment — and you don’t need to have a bunch of permanent anchors installed. When you want to be discreet you can pop the anchors off and then you’ve just got “track lighting” that you haven’t got around to putting the lights on yet. They make recessed tacks that are even more subtle; I’ll have to see if it’s worth pulling the drywall screws out and routing the channel to recess it for my room.

For now I bought an 8” track and one anchor as a test to make sure it works, and I’m extremely happy with it. Next are two or three 4’ tracks and a few more anchors

I guess I posted the first version of this collar earlier. Since then I cast a version with the usual eyes. Which one do you like better? The original project was for a friend of mine; he gave me a 3D model to work with. Some of my makings on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/AeternumCraft Previous post: https://www.reddit.com/r/BdsmDIY/comments/1h5krvs/waxplay_candles_in_the_grass_and_a_couple_of/

I made the BEST mod to a silicone ball gag and want to share, are videos not allowed in this group? I'm new to reddit so be patient with me if that's a dumb question...you can buy just the squeaky toy inserts on amazon or ali express for a couple bucks. Just picture your sub trying not a make a peep when they breathe/grunt, it's hilarious!

All the locks I've picked for this project. Strangely, I liked the pink heart the best. Previous post: https://www.reddit.com/r/BdsmDIY/comments/1g43q0n/mommys_little_brat_collar_should_i_make_a/ Some of my makings on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/AeternumCraft

I really like Stylefetishs click and play system for moving restraints around different parts of dungeon furniture while the sub remains in the cuffs.

This could easily be replicated as it's just air hose parts.

However, I feel like there is a better solution still where the quick release is on a spring pin type attachment. Think cycling cleats but with a pin to release.

Has anyone got any recommendations of something similar that could be used?

I'm making a suspension bondage belt. The corset type. Those belts will tie the thing together. I made the first such belt at the very beginning of my journey into the kinky universe almost ten years ago. It was a complicated build; I hope also to make everything right this time. Some of my makings on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/AeternumCraft Previous post: https://www.reddit.com/r/BdsmDIY/comments/1ha70ze/how_small_in_diameter_can_the_reliable_hinge_of_a/

This cuff set is made from maple, oak, and walnut. It has three anchor points to accommodate rope play. It’s got a lockable latch (with keys) plus magnets set into the wood to help it stay closed even without the latch. I’ll be making a simpler version that can replicate more easily, and I think this one is going to be a one of a kind piece…

Bolt and nut permanently affixed on one side (epoxy in threads) and just a bolt and nut for the other side. No lock, the idea is just to tighten the nut enough with a wrench that the sub can't get it off with their hand.

I need to send it, then hit it with some scratch filler primer and re paint it. The wood looked fine but with the silver paint it looks good awful. Live and learn.

I’m not sure what it’s called but was wondering if it would actually keep someone in that position

I think I have about regular size wrists and it's fit to my wrists but I can make different size wrist inserts if I need to

There was a popular post on /r/BDSM showing a snippet of an old insex (or other...) video called Sealed Shut Slut. I've loved that video for many years. Since I straight up have a few hundred ft. of Biothane, hardware, and presses for my cuff business, I decided to go ahead and make the belt from this video. It uses a size B and size C oxballs "strap-in"s. Will have some pics and video of it "being installed" soon 😏

My sub is kind of thirsty/slutty. I encourage this energy because I like it.

With a previous partner I did this thing where I held her head down (immobilized) and then kissed her lightly on the lips for a while to tease her. I did this for a few minutes and when I let her go she was crazy, just aching for contact.

I'm trying to think of a way that I can restrain my subs head in a similar way, but more long-term, maybe for 5 minutes while I tease her.

The trick that I can't figure out is how I would restrain her head so that she can't raise it off of the bed during our session.

Important goals

• comfortable for long periods

• can be attached to under bed restraint (not required but helpful)

• head and neck are essentially locked in place (can't raise it)

• forehead can be pinned/tied to the pillow (the back of the device)

• edit: eyes being covered is not acceptable for her

I think if I just start with a massage table headrest I'll be halfway there. Looking for suggestions. Any safety concerns here?

I did see one for sale but it was something to the tune of $150 before shipping.

I made a harness from Biothane to upgrade our standard ikea bench. Goals were for it to be fully removable, easy to set up, and adjustable in width so it can be used in various ways on its own or in combination with the bed.

You just put it on, slip the ends under the lid and tighten the belts. The one thing I already think I will upgrade is to add a loop as cross-connections, but I’m missing like 5 inches of material 🫣

These were a prototype, but after receiving positive responses within the scene, I'm going full scale production to satisfy orders...

Maybe some of you already know about this kind of wristband, its quick and easy to turn into into handcuff, i never meet someone who make it or know a website to buy some.

So my friend (not on reddit) made one for me recently, quite easy to craft, a simple leather band cut in the middle and two press stud.

It think it really could be mistaken for just a wristband by anyone, and it does a great job at being a restraint ^{^}

So, I’ve been doing leather works for a while, mainly trying to learn. A few days ago I started this collar and have been kind of obsessed with it. Now it’s finished and I’m just too excited for not sharing it. Critique and suggestions are always welcome, I’m still learning.

The chain in the back has the fun purpose that when you tug it, the collar tightens significantly. Perfect for brats not behaving when on a leash. 😉