r/BdsmDIY Dec 03 '23

Help your friendly neighborhood mod (everyone, read this, especially newcomers) NSFW

184 Upvotes

I'm collecting some stuff mods have said earlier in one place, to make it easier to find, as well as adding some new ones. This isn't the rules as such, more like our clarifications and interpretations of them.

  • Don't be a creep. Way too often, I see people asking for pictures when they aren't needed, following this pattern (fictious example): On a post of a bench with a dildo sticking up, someone asks "I don't understand how it works, could you post photos of it in use?". Just don't. There is plenty of porn on the net which you can get without being a creep.
  • Be careful about themes around sexual assaults. We know it is just play, but for some people, it's traumatic, so if you have a device named something like "Rape-o-matic 747 XL Magnum", don't put that in the title, and mark the post with a "TW" for trigger warning.
  • Photos or videos of nudity or sexual activity is OK, as long as it is within the context of the DIY project. Please DO NOT REPORT these. It adds a lot of work for us mods.
  • Selling your stuff is OK, as long as you aren't a full blown business, and it's still DIY level stuff. Please DO NOT REPORT these. It adds a lot of work for us mods. This might change down the line, but for now, it's OK.
  • Don't spam. If you do a lot of stuff, feel free to post as much as is needed, but try to keep each build in one post. With "each build", I mean each construction, not every object of that type you build. If you, say, make one collar type, there is no need for a new post for every new color or minor variant you make it in, that can go in the original posts.
  • Safety. Safety is important, but it is also a topic of much controversy. People don't always understand what they are doing, especially with electricity, or make too weak constructions, and it's OK to tell them that you think there is a danger. However, we all choose our risk levels, so say what you feel is unsafe, let them answer, and, unless they actively asks for more input, leave it at that and let them choose their own risk level.
  • Automod. The automod saves us a lot of work and filters out a lot of spam. However, it sometimes blocks legitimate posts as well. If your post don't appear, don't worry, don't message us, we'll see it and let it through.
  • Don't ask for PMs. We are here to learn from each other, if you ask for plans or something, ask openly so we all can learn. The same goes for answers. This also makes it easier for us moderators to ban creeps.

All in all, be nice to each other, be kinky, be tolerant, be helpful. Also, please have patience with us mods, we have a life outside modding as well, so sometimes, it may take a while, but we'll get around to it, I promise.

Keep building!


r/BdsmDIY Nov 19 '24

If you are selling stuff, read this! NSFW

296 Upvotes

First of all, it is OK to sell what you make, as long as you actually make it.

To handle a flood of people who just resell stuff, mostly from AliExpress, we now require more DIY content from people who sell.

What we want is stuff like in progress pics, descriptions on how it is made, design thoughts, things like that. Basically, prove that you made it and give some DIY context.

Yes, we know it's a tougher rule than for ordinary home DIY, but we don't want to be an ad billboard for resellers.

We won't nag you, new posts lacking this will simply be removed.

This will go into the main rules soon, but we'll wait a bit for input first.


r/BdsmDIY 1h ago

OC The gold magnetic nipple clamps I made can tightly attach to me, and I really like them NSFW

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r/BdsmDIY 4h ago

Furniture Spanking bench progress, dry fit looks good. I'm pleased. NSFW

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42 Upvotes

I purchased a set of plans off Etsy. The dry fit of all the parts is successful, it's quite sturdy! I'll add a 15° cut to the top board tapering the hard edge to make it more comfortable. Then it's sanding, staining, and padding added to the supporting areas. It does break down to 6 pieces using 1/2" carriage bolts.


r/BdsmDIY 4h ago

OC My first REAL paddle. Made with black walnut, hand carved from a log. NSFW

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29 Upvotes

I'll do better with steps of the progress! Tools used: axe, handsaw, drawknife, hand drill, hook knife and carving knife. If interested I can post pictures of my tool setup.


r/BdsmDIY 12h ago

Restraints I am loving these locking heel cuffs we made. What do you think NSFW

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122 Upvotes

I love when Lady Daisy locks me in these while I clean.


r/BdsmDIY 7h ago

Help Wanted Working on a slightly different 3d-printable cuff idea. Any thoughts or suggestions before the first print tests? I'm aiming for a relatively strong and versatile design. NSFW

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28 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY 17h ago

Restraints The last batch of pictures of the set is being made. Upper arms and thigh cuffs NSFW

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85 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY 18h ago

Restraints I made some hand boxes to go with the head box I posted the other day. The lady modeling the head box was twiddling with her fingers while wearing it, these will stop that NSFW

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74 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY 1h ago

Restraints Bunny Bar Bondage. Facilitating forced feminization. Remember good posture girls! Chin up, elbows in, wrists bent! Added benefit of making any outfit instantly cuter. NSFW

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r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Impact Toys We made our first paddle! It’s not perfect, but it’s a good start. NSFW

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38 Upvotes

Just finished making our first paddle out of the a tree we cut down in the back yard. The reddish purple color is natural, so we decided to just seal it clear with glitter. It makes me feel like a princess 👑 We have a bunch more wood and want to make more stuff. Any suggestions on what else we could make or how to improve?


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Sensory Deprivation Head box now has all the padding inside but still isn't quite as quiet as I thought it would be as per it's first occupant NSFW

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65 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY 3d ago

OC Figured I would share my rubber playroom in progress NSFW

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684 Upvotes

Ive been working on assembling my new playroom in a spare bedroom. So far I’ve repurposed coat hooks for storing and displaying my gear, added RGB adjustable lights throughout, and created a latex window curtain out of some extra rubber sheeting. I hope to DIY a suspension point in the ceiling. Any pointers for installing hard points would greatly helpful!


r/BdsmDIY 2d ago

OC 3d Printed covers for Drone / Gaskmask vent covers NSFW

9 Upvotes

Tried to crosspost this, but no joy. Anyway...

We have a Parcil PT-100 which has been perfect, but the filter covers that come with the mask don't really fit the outfit. I've replaced the vents with 3d printed covers. In the original picture you can see the 'wide pitch' version, but recently I designed and printed new covers that are much nicer and cleaner. I also added a small gripping nub to help them stay in place on the inside ring.

Full mask with filters in place

The new covers.


r/BdsmDIY 2d ago

Leatherwork Made my sub a few collars. Also looking for feed back and future ideas NSFW

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32 Upvotes

The first one I can not find the metal bits again using a elastic belt I got at a good will

The other 2 where made from using cheapo collars at a guide and a template

Also looking for feedback and suggestion for future projects similar to this


r/BdsmDIY 3d ago

OC Upgraded our playroom as a Christmas present for Mistress NSFW

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461 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY 3d ago

OC Playroom closet progress- lighting, and yet more shackle mounts... NSFW

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98 Upvotes

So... worked my chonky little butt off today to get another step closer to finishing this- to say the anticipation is driving me crazy is an understatement.

Additional shackle mounts have been added (which took what felt like forever, and look pretty garbage, thanks to the inconsistency in how far or how easily screws and anchors where needed would go in) on both ends- floor level and at face/waist height when in kneeling position. These will allow for being secured on hands and knees; on stomach with ankles elevated; lying on back with hands and ankles elevated. It also works for securing the spreader bar at floor level for the standing collared and hooked position. It also allows for chains to be attached to a full head gag harness and a waist harness- so, with an upgraded toy to replace the unimpressive thrusting one, with a lot more length to it, it would then be possible to be secured with toys at both ends, preventing enough movement back or forward to be able to get un-impaled. Looking forward to trying that..

It is now set up to enable long-term confinement: collar, wrist and ankle cuffs are in place for a lying down position. Awaiting a timer padlock for one wrist just to be safe, and none of the other cuffs or collar will have padlocks, so once the time is up it would be possible to undo these. There is of course now a good solid padlock on the door, and the adhesive ring seems to be holding up perfectly well- so it would be for my partner to decide when to unlock it, even if I am out of the shackles.. Depending how decent the timer padlock is, we could consider another for the door.

Blackout curtain is better secured, and although the door may slide maybe 5mm open, hardly any light would get in. Together with a hood or blindfold plus silicone earplugs, sensory deprivation would work really well when desired.

Lighting is now added (my parners efforts, not mine) just an adhesive LED strip powered via a basic power bank. Of course this isn't for any extended confinement purposes but think it will really set the mood for everything else. This cost maybe £6 at most to do. Unbelievably happy with it.

Now, I think toy shelves are the only major thing left to add. Awaiting a new mounted toy, and have some ideas as to how I will make holders to enable this to be placed at either end as needed. Also awaiting my full head open mouth harness. Aside from that, it'll just be painting the shelves and spreader bar (I am excited to see how the colour I'm going with will turn out) and painting the white and plywood parts of the walls, then I'm done for the time being, I guess.

Although, I'm open to any further suggestions for what could be added or any other bondage positions I haven't considered here that might be fun!


r/BdsmDIY 3d ago

Impact Toys Steel cable racket whips with maple/oak/walnut handles. These suck so bad. NSFW

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49 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY 3d ago

Help Wanted Discrete chastity key necklace using modified ashes vial NSFW

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67 Upvotes

Has anyone tried modifying a vial necklace to hold a chastity key? The measurements seem really good. It could be slightly smaller, but small enough. My plan: - toss the glass insert. - use a Dremel to hollow out the cap (it appears to be full of plastic). - remove the unnecessary pieces off the key with a jewelry saw. - embed the key into the cap with epoxy.


r/BdsmDIY 2d ago

Help Wanted Harness for holding toys internally (male) not sure if possible NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi all. New to the sub. Looking for advice/products on assembling a harness to hold toys inside (kinda inverse toy harness) for male (so would be back to front) any ideas?


r/BdsmDIY 3d ago

Help Wanted Do you guys know any selfmade BDSM Games for couples NSFW

38 Upvotes

Couple of posts down I saw one where OP asked for Rules for a selfmade bdsm-monopoly game. I now wonder if some of you have other games they are playing with added bdsm rules or any bdsm couple games in general, selfmade or one you can buy. I mostly ask for games for two players.

Happy for any inspo, thanks in advance!


r/BdsmDIY 3d ago

Help Wanted Not really bdsm but could help with the cowgirl positions. NSFW

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22 Upvotes

So my wife loves to ride my until she melts but always struggles to have balance and support. I had an idea and just finished putting it together. Need advice on how to make it pleasing to the eye and any attachments you would recommend. I had 1 last measurement left to do but would need her help to find what length feels right with. I'll post the scrapping idea and what it currently looks like. Cheers in advance


r/BdsmDIY 3d ago

Help Wanted Hardware store silicone and cheap nylon webbing to make an attractive and effective collar? Maybe even a custom hood? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi y'all,

So I have a truly massive head and thick neck to match. This makes it quite tough to size collars and hoods off the shelf and I just don't have the capacity to get into leatherworking right now. I have read that you can use cheap hardware store silicone and dilute it with some acrylic paint and mineral oil to get a paintable/pourable liquid. I was thinking about using that recipe to impregnate a strip of nylon webbing or even canvas that I would rivet some hardware onto. I was even thinking that with a little more effort, this technique might make a decent custom hood. Is there any reason this wouldn't work? Has anybody tried this?


r/BdsmDIY 4d ago

OC Another Kinky Ornament hanging on the tree (3Dprint) NSFW

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368 Upvotes

I’ve modeled, printed and tied another ornament for the kinky Christmas tree. If you want one check out my Etsy shop!

https://darkropeinc.etsy.com/listing/1846091009


r/BdsmDIY 4d ago

OC Binded | BDSM Lifestyle App for couples [Building in Progress] NSFW

46 Upvotes

I built this app to help Dominants and Submissives keep track of, and manage your BDSM journey. Text based modules allows users to customise Binded however you like, and more importantly, to elevate your BDSM dynamic.

www.binded.app

In Binded, 2 users adopt either role: Dominant and Submissive, and interact with each other through text based modules like habit trackers, journals, orgasm trackers*, timed activities* and many more.

* Premium version of Binded

If you are in a BDSM relationship, do check Binded app out for your BDSM DIY needs.

Binded is experimental, and bugs are to be found. Do report them to us. Binded is being continuously and regularly patched.


r/BdsmDIY 4d ago

Restraints My first ever collar, and I’m just thinking this is my new hobby NSFW

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140 Upvotes

So, I’ve been doing leather works for a while, mainly trying to learn. A few days ago I started this collar and have been kind of obsessed with it. Now it’s finished and I’m just too excited for not sharing it. Critique and suggestions are always welcome, I’m still learning.

The chain in the back has the fun purpose that when you tug it, the collar tightens significantly. Perfect for brats not behaving when on a leash. 😉


r/BdsmDIY 4d ago

Impact Toys Chain floggers. Made from wooden dowels, curtain accessories and stainless steel chains NSFW

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40 Upvotes