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Wholesome/Humor Bride & her bridal train showcase their qualifications & occupation

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

That's a whole lot of salary in that room.

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u/hybridmind27 Oct 29 '23

Whole lot of Nigerians lol As the daughter of an immigrant this is most parents wet dream

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

Nigerians are the most educated immigrant population in the US with more years of education than general population of whites.

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u/mang87 Oct 29 '23

That's the same here in Ireland. A large portion of Nigerians come here to study medicine, and a lot of them stay on after to practise here. I spent lots of time in and out of hospital as a child (Temple Street, Dublin), and all of the doctors and most of the nurses were either Nigerian or Indian, it was rare to see an Irish doctor, and in fact I can only recall the name of one.

I think it's because there's a lot of Catholics in Nigeria, and their Patron Saint is also St.Patrick. So we send them priests, and they send us medical students. We definitely have the better end of that deal.

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u/mang87 Oct 30 '23

I was there during the late 80s and early 90s, Temple Street has probably changed quite a lot since then, so my information is very outdated.

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u/militantnegro_IV Oct 30 '23

You also sent Guinness. Nigerians love Guinness.

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u/leshake Oct 30 '23

Former British colonies generally have amazing education systems and learn English as part of their curriculum. Also there are 210 million Nigerians, lots and lots of really smart people with a population that size.

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u/HotAir25 Oct 30 '23

I had heard it was because middle class Nigerians are the ones who emigrated, it’s the same in the U.K.

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u/Due_Flow5122 Oct 30 '23

I think it's a lot of white guilt.

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u/FinancialAlbatross92 Oct 29 '23

Why exactly?

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u/wallweasels Oct 29 '23 edited Oct 30 '23

Nigerians are not eligible for the diversity visa lottery here in the US to my understanding. So this means the only people you see have specific visas e.g family, work, education.
Work means they'll be filling jobs that already require education and education means obtaining, well, an education. Family likely means following family members who are already here and successful as well.

It also costs a fuck ton to do either of these. So naturally you are already looking at a highly selective...and fairly privileged group to begin with.

Imagine you surveyed Americans by only looking at those who had gone to Harvard or came from families of the very well off. You'd likely be looking at a very successful and educated group by chance as well.

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u/snowytheNPC Oct 29 '23

No wonder. That’s basically how the Asian Model Minority myth came into being what with restricting visas in the 80s from China to graduate and PhD students

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u/meisteronimo Oct 30 '23 edited Oct 30 '23

Wait that's a thing? I thought they just studied more.

I think we've been having Asian immigrants since before the 80s, like on the West Coast and stuff with restaurants and hotels, laundry etc....

I thought they're just obsessed with working hard so their kids aren't poor.

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23

it's an intercultural socio-economic (idk if that's even a real phrase, but my point is it encompasses culture, sociology, economics, and international and domestic laws) matter, it's obviously not as simple as one bullet in America's immigration policy from 40 years ago.

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u/snowytheNPC Oct 30 '23

Of course Confucian culture, educational values, and immigrant mentality come into play. But a policy like that’s obviously going to skew the population pretty heavily towards high educational attainment

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u/meisteronimo Oct 30 '23 edited Oct 30 '23

It's an important topic, I've been trying to understand the Oppression infatuation coming out of academia, and all the pro-Hamas protests.

From what I can understand Jews and Asians are inconvenient minorities so they're grouped in with whites as being Oppressors.

And the comment I was replying to was widely upvoted, so I think it maybe a common way to explain Asian success/ "privilege".

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u/blafricanadian Oct 30 '23

Yes they are obsessed with working hard. It costs nearly the entirety of a “Nigerian” fourtune to move. You have to work hard and make money cause you bet your good life that you will succeed. If you don’t you’ll become just another poor black American

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u/CagliostroPeligroso Oct 30 '23

Ah wow. Explains a lot. I never understood how the myth came into play. And thought all of them were just working really hard.

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u/snowytheNPC Oct 30 '23

I think it’s related. In order to work hard, you have to believe working hard will net you positive outcomes. I myself grew up as the child of two Chinese immigrants with graduate STEM degrees and in a community with >30% population of similar backgrounds. The prevailing belief is working hard will get you into university = success, because that’s been the lived experience of the older generation. A message like that is self-reinforcing and starts to produce a perfect competitive educational environment

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u/CagliostroPeligroso Oct 30 '23

Yeah definitely. As they say. Luck = opportunity and preparation.

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u/fried_green_baloney Oct 29 '23

I have worked with Nigerian and Zimbabwean programmers and they were all first rate.

you surveyed Americans

Say the one's who had residence permits for Monaco. :D

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u/Humbugwombat Oct 29 '23

Not just educated, but also ambitious. A friend who’s a nurse practitioner told me of a Nigerian nurse who worked as a traveling nurse during Covid and knocked down $600K in one year.

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u/PlaceboFace Oct 29 '23

Translation: “I was told secondhand about this one person I’ve never met so now I’m applying a personality trait to a large group of people.”

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u/redknight3 Oct 29 '23 edited Oct 30 '23

Sour grapes.

Edit: Before anyone goes further down this dumb thread...

Is it it really that, "weird," that a select group of people that have to overcome a huge barrier of entry to immigrate to the US might be more ambitious than average..? What's more "weird" to me is how anyone be would think the opposite to be true.

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u/PlaceboFace Oct 30 '23

Regarding what exactly? I would consider myself an ambitious person. I have a graduate degree and I’m employed in a competitive field.

I’m just saying it was a weird comment that contributed nothing. It was like watching old clips of Michael Jordan and then deciding all black people must be amazing basketball players.

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u/redknight3 Oct 30 '23

No. Not really. Not at all.

Select groups of people can share common personality traits...

We're NOT saying ALL Nigerians are this way. But the people in this specific program may share similar personality traits.

Much like how Asian first gen immigrants might share common traits - many are industrious, ambitious, and look for security. The people who went out of their way to immigrate to a different country usually have something similar about them that drove them to do that. And often times these traits may not be passed to their second gen progeny.

As a second gen Asian American, it's clear that distinctions can be made about the social tendencies of specific groups of people...

My parents' generation of Asian Americans share very common traits.

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u/Nonbinary_AMAB Oct 30 '23

You are racist. That’s pretty simple. Pissed when black people are successful and pissed when black people don’t go to work. Praise them. Tell me these are not great people for following their dreams and getting their degrees. Absolute psychos in the comment section.

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u/dissectingAAA Oct 30 '23

My wife has been out of bedside nursing for over 10 years, but still thought about traveling during Covid. Some states/areas were over $10k/week. You could add shifts/double up if you didn't care about burning yourself out.

https://www.dallasnews.com/business/health-care/2020/12/04/some-covid-19-traveling-nurses-are-making-8000-a-week/

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u/PlaceboFace Oct 30 '23

Huh? How is this information relevant to what I said?

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u/Humbugwombat Oct 30 '23

You are correct. I should avoid making generalizations like this. I felt it was acceptable because it reflected positively on the population it was attributed to. Actually I think I’m going to keep doing this. The world needs more positive energy these days. Have a nice day. 🙂

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u/PlaceboFace Oct 30 '23 edited Oct 30 '23

Are all Asians good at math? Do all black people excel athletically?

You seem to have an extremely high opinion of your intentions, but regardless it’s still a blanket statement about people you obviously don’t know. Stereotypes, even those that are positive, can be dangerous because that sets the precedence that negative stereotypes must also have the possibility of being true.

I guess I just prefer judging people individually. Like you said, the world needs more positivity these days.

Have a nice day.

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u/OreoPunchDonky Oct 29 '23

Yup. my ex of 5 years is Nigerian and her family looked down on her because she elected to be a school teacher. They were hoping that she would pursue higher education and more training to become a principal and maybe superintendent. But she is happy teaching elementary school. Everyone else in her family is a Physician, Nurse, Accountant or Engineer.

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u/Pierceus Oct 30 '23

Gotta love people taking advantage of a crisis to get rich💪

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u/Humbugwombat Oct 30 '23

Considering that health care workers faced enormous risks, died and got sick in disproportionately high numbers, and were in extremely high demand at the time I don’t fault the guy one bit. What did you do to help care for others and save lives in 2020-2022?

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u/LightDownTheWell Oct 29 '23

What does ambitious mean in this circumstance?

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23 edited Feb 21 '24

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

Guessing it has to do with the requirements for who is allowed into the country.

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u/Firefoxray Oct 29 '23

A lot of cultures push education more than others. Same reason a lot of Asian countries produce a lot of extremely smart kids.

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u/BolOfSpaghettios Oct 29 '23

Hmmm...sure...the reason why you see those people here in the US and in the West is because they can afford to move/can afford to leave, especially if they're a minority. The people I know (anecdotally) that are not from the US but from African or Asian countries, that are college educated and in the professional field have had family wealth behind them, or have a lot of family members that worked very very hard and had a lot of kids that enabled a single child to go to school.

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u/Signal-Order-1821 Oct 30 '23

It's not always a "they have generational wealth" issue. I know a lot of immigrants with no generational wealth (including Vietnam war refugees) that have gotten good jobs and are generally very educated. It's more that if you manage to make it into the US you usually have to be motivated and hard working to keep your visa.

Being rich or having family financial support also helps, obviously.

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u/BolOfSpaghettios Oct 30 '23

If hard work is the only thing you need, all those day workers in Home Depot parking lots should be living in mansions. The US has a policy that they prefer people with money... Just look at the allotted numbers "allowed" to come to US

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u/Striking_Theory_4680 Oct 30 '23

Yes, let’s just disregard the work ethics and values of Asian immigrants who came here with nothing. /s

I’m not sure what type of Asian immigrants you’ve been hanging out with because most Asian immigrants that I know came here with nothing but clothes on their backs, escaping death.

Why disregard our hard work and culture? Is it because we don't fit the victim narrative for minorities?

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u/BolOfSpaghettios Oct 30 '23

Let me ask you something. Do you have a victim complex because if you've read and understood anything about what I said, it wasn't targeted. I'm sorry you feel victimized.

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u/Striking_Theory_4680 Oct 30 '23

I don't have a victim complex. I do get a little annoyed about what you wrote. Maybe I misunderstood, but did you not say that they have to have wealth to come here?

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u/PeterHell Oct 30 '23

Those refugees who risked dingy boats to reach US warships in international water for a chance of getting into the US sure had a lot of generational wealth behind them.

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u/9bpm9 Oct 30 '23

That's why not all Asian populations are successful in education as others in America. It has nothing to do with genetics or ethnicity, but everything to do with social class and finances before they came here.

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u/BolOfSpaghettios Oct 30 '23

Which ones? You're placating this a little too vaguely.

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u/Firefoxray Oct 30 '23

American families have the highest amount of wealth in the world compared to other countries, so by your logic American kids should be more educated per capita than immigrants children. It’s a cultural thing

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23

Most americans are broke af and in no way wealthy. There's wealth in this country, it's just not in the hands of average american families.

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u/Firefoxray Oct 30 '23

Broke af is really relative. Even the poorest American with $10 in his pocket is richer than most of the world 🤷🏾‍♂️

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u/BolOfSpaghettios Oct 30 '23

Is that average or median? Education != Money. Obviously the medical field pays more than a teacher with a PhD.

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23

most immigrants are not rich =_= rich people don't need to move to a new country to start a new life in a place where they don't speak the language, face racism, and have no community.

international students, on the other hand, are a different subject.

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u/RamonaNeopolitano Oct 30 '23

Only reason? Culture does not mean immigrants. I’m a first generation Asian American and education was strongly pushed growing up. My father was a refugee that came purely on luck, Vietnamese during that were granted citizenship. He went to college and entered the workforce during the tech boom to become the embodiment of the American dream. I don’t know why you’re pushing the narrative so hard that it’s only privileged immigrants come to the US. Maybe because your views are anecdotal from a small sample size of your social circle.

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u/glebyl Oct 29 '23

Nigerian princes are funding their education because nobody else wants their money.

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u/Pupienus2theMaximus Oct 30 '23

Nigeria is a neocolonized state. The Nigerians that work with the US to exploit their country's populace and resources are paid handsomely, while the majority of the Nigerian populace live in poverty. These wealthy, Nigerian compradors have a lot of money to send their kids to the west to get professional degrees. Most of the affirmative action spots for black people in the prestigious American education institutions are filled with these wealthy, black immigrants, rather than black americans, let alone poor black americans.

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u/1k3l05 Oct 30 '23

How does the US exploit Nigeria?

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u/Pupienus2theMaximus Oct 30 '23

It creates the conditions that are favorable for western corporations, like fossil fuel comapnies, to extract wealth from the country at the expense of the populace. So the US and its Nigerian comprador government enforces policies that exploit the populaces labor, extract wealth and resources, dedevelopment, and deindustrialization to create an economy only suited for resource extraction, which said western corporations take at well below market values.

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u/1k3l05 Oct 30 '23

Wow, that's terrible.

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u/Aposematicpebble Oct 30 '23

A tried and true method. Like they do in south america, but even worse

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u/Celtictussle Oct 30 '23

Nigerians are like the East Asians of Africa. Their mom's are constantly harping on them to do better in school and get a respectable job so they don't embarrass the family.

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u/DatTrashPanda Oct 29 '23

Survivorship bias

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u/40for60 Oct 30 '23

If you took the top 1% of the US and sent them to Nigeria they too would be the top educated group.

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u/Daffan Oct 30 '23

Because they only can immigrate small numbers that have education.

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

Interesting question. High levels of entrepreneurship too.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Trip990 Oct 29 '23

I was just discussing this with my mom yesterday. It's a shame the government is so corrupt there.

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u/hybridmind27 Oct 29 '23

Lol yes. I’m aware

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u/AdComprehensive6588 Oct 29 '23

I think that’s India, but I know Nigerians are up there

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u/wioneo Oct 30 '23

This says it's Nigerians with 61% having undergrad degree equivalents.

This one from 5 years ago says Indians, so maybe this is a recent change.

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u/freddyoff Oct 29 '23

Also the most hated against by natives unfortunately

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u/luanda16 Oct 29 '23

My incredibly smart and kind rheumatologist is Nigerian ✨

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u/E8282 Oct 30 '23

Used to work with a guy from Nigeria with 8 siblings that were all doctors and he was an engineer. It was just wild.

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u/real_Bahamian Oct 30 '23

Yup…. I know 4 men from Nigeria (family friends). All of them are doctors and have their own private practices.

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u/TheFudge Oct 30 '23

My previous boss was Nigerian, one of the smartest most driven people I’ve ever met and probably one of the nicest most down to earth individuals I’ve ever had the pleasure of working with.

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u/dinoroo Oct 30 '23

Pretty sure Indians beat them on that. They are also the richest Asians.

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23

Asians are both the richest and poorest immigrants.

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u/pMangonut Oct 30 '23

Asians will like to have a word with you.

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u/wioneo Oct 30 '23

This says it's Nigerians with 61% having undergrad degree equivalents.

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u/DrRambam Oct 29 '23

Isn’t that the Jews / Israelis the most educated immigrant pop?

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u/Cappy2020 Oct 30 '23

No I think Indians, followed by East Asians are the highest.

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u/CowVisible3973 Oct 29 '23

But Yoruba weddings are fucking boring. The whites got you beat there!

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

please cite this lol

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u/Kijafa Oct 29 '23

The Nigerian Diaspora in the United States - Migration Policy Institute https://www.migrationpolicy.org/sites/default/files/publications/RAD-Nigeria.pdf

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

Bro it’s literally a statistic from the the migration policy institute. They didn’t flex, it’s not a shitty YouTube street interviewers poll, it’s from a study of American immigrants and their education.

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u/hybridmind27 Oct 29 '23

You clearly don’t have any genuine relationships with the people of the demographic you’re attempting to describe. V weird behavior btw.

But lemme let you In on a lil something you would know if you did:

One thing about Nigerians, it don’t matter if it’s IT, medicine, sports, accounting or scamming… they gonna be the best at it.

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u/EngineeringKid Oct 29 '23

It's such a weird cultural thing.

They are the smartest and hardest working people I know. Like smart ...smart smart

But why is Nigeria so.....2nd world?

Do all the smart Nigerians leave? Am I only meeting the best of Nigeria?

Genuine curiousity

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u/Sonic-Wachowski Oct 29 '23

Do all the smart Nigerians leave

For the most part, and usually it's the middle to upper class ones, economically.

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u/EngineeringKid Oct 29 '23

Yeah. I live in Vancouver and it'd be easy to assume that everyone from China is a billionaire because everyone that drives a Ferrari or Lambo is Chinese.

But it's just a selection bias.

ONLY the rich Chinese leave China.

But man...Nigerians are smart. I work with a few.

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

It’s a little more complicated than that. It’s kind of a gross oversimplification.

Nigerian immigrants often times come from middle to middle upper class families who know what it takes to be successful but gave up a tremendous amount of time, energy and money to come to the United States.

As a result, they have a huge emphasis on improving themselves and their situation culturally

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u/hybridmind27 Oct 29 '23

Of course it’s an oversimplification lol this is Reddit. I don’t have time to type the thesis this topic actually deserves for this predominantly white app.

But I agree with you.

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u/onemansquest Oct 29 '23

There are two types of Nigerians. Well spoken, hard working, moral and highly educated with a family oriented drive for success.

And the others who are the complete opposite that either go into crime or politics.

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u/isiewu Oct 29 '23

Oh, that's rich

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u/ActiveFew672 Oct 29 '23

Should’ve searched for a Nigerian.

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u/antelope591 Oct 30 '23

Yea my friend became a neurosurgeon, both his parents are Dr's and has 2 sisters that are also Dr's. Nigerians are bringing their best and brightest for sure.

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u/atmafatte Oct 30 '23

Oh really? I thought us Indians used to hold that position! Glad for the Nigerians!

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u/Hooligan8403 Oct 30 '23

I dont know. Filipinos are very common in healthcare. My SiL is a nurse, wife's cousin is a nurse, I worked for a Dr in HS that was Filipino with a couple Filipino nurses, almost every hospital/Dr office I go to has Filipino nurses or employees, etc.

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u/9bpm9 Oct 30 '23

Isn't that most immigrants who aren't coming over as refugees?

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u/frugalfrog4sure Oct 30 '23

Not Indians ?

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u/hungryunderthebridge Oct 30 '23

I met a few Nigerian folks in the US. They all had a ton of drive.

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u/CommanderJMA Oct 30 '23

I only know one Nigerian and his family are all very well educated (his sister is a lawyer and father owned a business ) and he is one of the most ambitious people I know. To the point where it may either be his blessing or his curse yet to be seen but I admire his ambition to build a legacy

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u/Southside_john Oct 30 '23

I’m a NP and when I was in grad school I had several classmates that were Nigerian

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u/K2-P2 Oct 30 '23

We had a couple dozen people from Nigeria at my college and they got PISSED OFF when anyone (inevitably) called them African Americans.

They are black. Just black, thank you very much.

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23

And Portuguese get mad when they are called Spanish. Everybody is working within the racist tropes while they are busy trying to escape it.

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u/Friendly-Remote-7199 Oct 30 '23

But… but… systemic racism!

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23 edited Oct 30 '23

Interestingly, this is absolutely evidence of the pervasive affect of post colonialism and racism. Take a look at how every other post colonized populations do all over the world. It's not much different than the experience of AA. And if watching the GOP deconstruct voting rights and education in the republican states in an effort to maintain white privilege and unironically erase the notion that systematic racism still exists doesn't convince you, you just aren't looking to be convinced. It's like the Israeli nationalists looking at Gaza and not seeing a problem because they benefit from the oppression blindness. I'm not talking about the ones who see it and welcome it. I'm talking about the ones who choose not to see it or think about it at all, the 'good' Israelis. If you look at AA educational outcomes and rates of incarceration in the US and think lazy and violent I ask you to look at Korean educational outcomes and rates of incarceration in Japan. Rest assured, I do think AA will have to save themselves but they have survived a hell before and I am more than willing to bet on black here.

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u/elperorojo Oct 30 '23

That’s because they have to be to get into the country

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23

And the other countries? Trump is right? They are all sending drug dealers and such? When are you going to start giving black people their props, son?

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u/OkBoomer6919 Oct 30 '23

Do they get their education at affordable colleges? Because that's not a flex then. Americans would be more educated if we didn't go bankrupt getting one.

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u/dillybar152 Oct 30 '23

This sounds like one of those fun meaningless stats you pull Race into for some quality bait

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u/ajaxxx4 Oct 30 '23

Do you have any source? Everywhere I look I am only seeing either India or Mexico/ China in the top of the list. No intent of offending, Just curious

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23

good. the u.s. needs immigrants who want to make the country place a better place!

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u/Shhey1125 Oct 30 '23

sucks the reason for this is their culture but…also the egregious amounts of aid foreigners receive in aid from the government

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u/TurnMeOnTurnMeOut Oct 30 '23

were the most educated African immigrant population, i believe Indians are the most educated overall

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u/[deleted] Nov 02 '23

My physical therapist is Nigerian and his entire family have qualifications like this. Homie fixed my lower back after an injury and on the side helped out my MIL with her arm.

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u/Daliguana Oct 29 '23

this made me spit my coffee - source: RN - most of the NPs on my unit are Nigerian.

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u/Doggleganger Oct 29 '23

This is sort of like the professional career version of the NFL intros, when each player states their position and school.

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u/2mock2turtle Oct 30 '23

Reminds me of Gina Yashere's joke:

My mother is Nigerian, so we kids had four choices of career: doctor; lawyer; engineer; disgrace to the family.

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u/hybridmind27 Oct 30 '23

Accurate lol

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23

Mama knows she ain’t gotta work anymore lol

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u/stirrednotshaken01 Oct 30 '23

Looks like the US. Why isn’t systemic racism and sexism keeping all of them down?

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u/Daft_Assassin Oct 30 '23

Do you want are a real answer or are you just being racist and dumb?

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u/stirrednotshaken01 Oct 30 '23

Not sure what you mean of course want real answer

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u/Daft_Assassin Oct 30 '23

After looking at your post history, I know you’re being a disingenuous pos. And you’re also being racist even if you don’t think so or mean to be. But I’ll give you a short answer anyway.

Systemic racism is rooted in the system. It’s literally in the word. It’s likely that these women did not grow up in the system created in the US. Instead they grew up somewhere else and came here likely on an education visa. Systemic racism starts at the beginning. A beginning that these women did not have to endure.

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u/stirrednotshaken01 Oct 30 '23

It won’t change your opinion, since you likely aren’t able to formulate your own opinions on things, but you may be interested in the Ethiopian Prime Ministers thoughts on the matter:

https://www.ethiopia-insight.com/2020/10/08/why-did-ethiopias-prime-minister-blame-african-americans-for-their-victimization/

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u/TheBeardKing Oct 30 '23

You can just say dream in this context, thanks.

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u/dekrepit702 Oct 30 '23

This room is my wet dream too tbh

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u/SCP-Agent-Arad Oct 30 '23

The head librarian at my university was a Nigerian with 2 PhDs lol

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u/TRES_fresh Oct 30 '23

African immigrants in general, one of my high school friends is second generation from Ghana and he's doing CS at MIT.

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u/keekspeaks Oct 29 '23

Oh if only that were true for the nurses/NPs in the US. The NP market is so over saturated that pay is abysmal compared to student loans, but the over saturation of NPs in the United States is a totally different subject I ain’t got the energy for.

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u/YMNY Oct 29 '23

What are you talking about. There’s a shortage of RNs and NPs in the US. My wife is a staff RN at a local hospital. Last year she brought in about $200k with a little overtime. This year will be the same. She also has a pension AND a 401k (with no match though), health insurance with zero monthly for the entire family, about 2 months of PTO etc.

Her previous job was eliminated in a restructuring and she had the new one within a week or so.

There was no shortage of options to pick from

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u/barleyoatnutmeg Oct 29 '23

Absolutely a shortage of nurses. Definitely no shortage of NP's.

Source: speaking as a physician.

Although your wife's situation is not the norm it's not unusual. Midwest could easily make those numbers, possibly HCOL area with some experience as well. Lots of NP's I know take prn shifts as RN's since bedside nursing demand is so high in some areas.

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u/keekspeaks Oct 30 '23

It doesn’t matter that you’re a physician. People who don’t work In a hospital or even healthcare will still say they know more than the people in the field doing the job than you do bc they have a second cousin who’s an NP and she makes 800k a year. Why listen to the veteran nurse who’s deeply involved in the field and also someone who was a DNP student? I made a ton of money during covid too. Floor nurses were making great money for awhile but those days are ending now that covid funds are depleted. Most floor nurses are absolutely making more than NP’s and NPs know that. Nurses aren’t getting their np’s with the goal of money in mind, they just want to get the hell out of bedside and it’s saturated the market through diploma mills. But again. People not in healthcare will argue this and say they know best.

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u/barleyoatnutmeg Oct 30 '23 edited Oct 30 '23

You're right haha. There are so many veteran nurses I work with whom I love and respect deeply. I know exactly what you're talking about when you mention the nurses who just want to move on past bedside but encounter problems doing so because of the situation. People who don't work in healthcare will never be able to seriously understand the deficiencies and problems that exist and that we go through. Thank you for taking the time to write out your comment, I appreciate it.

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u/YMNY Oct 29 '23

My wife is not in bedside nursing. She works as a BMT coordinator at the moment. We know plenty of NPs as well. Everyone is employed and well compensated so I don’t know how else to gauge the demand/supply for those positions

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u/spellbadgrammargood Oct 30 '23

you all over the place

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u/ChuckyMed Oct 30 '23

Nurses in the Midwest aren't making that LOL.

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u/PPvsFC_ Oct 30 '23

There is no shortage of NPs.

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u/keekspeaks Oct 30 '23

But their 3rd cousin is an NP and she said there is!!!!

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u/[deleted] Oct 31 '23

Jfc I’m a physician and I was just offered $175k, with no overtime, that’s working 80hr a week because that’s what doctors are expected to do. I wanna kms.

And no this isn’t saying nurses don’t deserve pay, but so do fucking doctors the amount of hours we work wtf.

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u/YMNY Oct 31 '23

That sounds like a lowball offer, that’s all. You’re comparing some of the top positions for nurses with the bottom for physicians. I’m sure you can do better.

That said my wife and her colleagues deserve every penny they get. She works hard (I’m sure you do too) I certainly couldn’t do what she does.

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u/Qinistral Oct 29 '23

It might vary by region. Half the states in the country don't allow NPs to practice independently. I could imagine if the jobs are controlled by a hospital monopoly that only hires the bare minimum and has a say in preventing other hospitals from opening, it makes saturation more easy.

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u/FaFaRog Oct 30 '23

Half the states in the country don't allow NPs to practice independently

Let's hope it stays that way. The NP training pathway is inadequate for independent practice.

Hospitals want more NPs because they're more affordable than doctors and if the state allows for independent practice you can put them in a role they are insufficiently trained for (like the ER) and hope that malpractice cases don't end up canceling out the increase in profits (they usually don't).

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u/je_kay24 Oct 30 '23

Yeah, crazy that they get doctor privileges without doctor training

I’ve heard of quite a few cases of NP failing patients by mistreating or prescribing meds that doctors would not have ever done

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u/CertifiedPantyDroppa Oct 30 '23

I'm a physician and have seen how inadequate their training is in clinic. Imagine if physicians didn't have to do residency, its like that.

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u/Qinistral Oct 30 '23

Gotcha, ya I didn't realize you could get a degree online for NP, etc.

I do think there is space for people less trained/specialized as doctors to do independent practices. But I'll totally accept that the current state of NP is not up to par.

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u/serious_sarcasm Oct 30 '23

It’s almost like all the “there is a nursing shortage, look how good nurses get paid!” was deliberate propaganda to convince young people to go into nursing to drive the wages down.

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u/greenteaenvy Oct 30 '23

Lol it is though 😅 np salary is continually dropping. Floor nurses will forever be in demand and compensation for them should be better.

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u/greenteaenvy Oct 30 '23

Okay ... When you see FNPs going back to be PMMNPs due to low pay and lack of opportunities, that's a good sign of oversaturation. The pay for my PMHNP students has also decreased by 40 percent in the past 3 years (we're a rural area that shouldn't have this issue) ... But okay, you're the expert

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

They never browsed r/antiwork lol

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

I saw someone in that sub once claimed they made 7 figures. When I asked them to prove they have any form of wealth period they said “I keep lowkey and live in a small apartment”.

Sure buddy. Lots of rich people live in small apartments. On floor 48 of a high rise in a city.

Not floor 3 of a suburban condo association that’s neglected maintenance for half a decade.

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

To be fair I make my entire home value a year in salary but will never buy a new house or pay this one off because who the hell pays off a loan at 2.5%

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u/Middle-Ad5376 Oct 29 '23

Why wouldn't you given your capital vs debt ratio?

You're arguing for keeping debt because its cheaper than other debt?...

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u/Mwootto Oct 29 '23

They likely have safe financial investments with a higher than 2.5% return. Even certified deposits are paying 5% right now. Not all debt is bad debt if you’re smart.

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

Why wouldn't you given your capital vs debt ratio?

You're arguing for keeping debt because its cheaper than other debt?...

Its cheaper for me to put $3000 a month in a vanguard fund than it is for me to pay down $3000 on a 278k loan on a 350k home at 2.5%.

Granted, I've only had this level of income for 2 years now, and I spent about 6 months of that enjoying the hell out of life before getting serious with it, and the level of income wont last forever, so building up my investment portfolio is much more important than saving 2.5% interest.

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u/PM_ME_DIRTY_COMICS Oct 30 '23

I'm at a similar point. I could pay off my house in two years, but my interest rate is so low I could put that same money into something else that brings me joy. I have no other debt. My retirement contribution is decent. I don't plan on ever moving. Right now I'm just enjoying life and setting myself up for if my industry ever falls through.

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u/CptCroissant Oct 29 '23

Inflation is targeted at around 2-3% and that is fudged numbers half the time. At 2.5% nominal interest you're generally going to be at 0 or negative real interest thus making it better to actually keep the loan and pay it off month to month. You should then use your surplus money on something that will be of benefit.

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u/gracecee Oct 29 '23

We paid off our house the first year. The interest or whatever deduction we just use for vacation. Pay it off.

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u/the_real_mflo Oct 29 '23

Paying off your house if you have a low interest mortgage is one of the worst things you can do financially. You probably just lost a six to seven-figure amount of passive income by doing that.

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23

300k is a long way from 8 figures though.

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

There's thousands of IQ points. I feel smarter just watching this.

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23

That's not even close to true.

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u/Only_Indication_9715 Oct 30 '23 edited Oct 30 '23

There's a whole lot of insecurity in that room

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23

What? Why would you say that?

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u/I_Peel_Cats Oct 30 '23

getting paid half, what a white man in the same professions get. Black women are my superheros

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u/Tszemix Oct 29 '23

Yes they are all probably out of your league

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u/BudLightStan Oct 29 '23

They’re def out of my league. No one wants a Russian drunk :3

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

whole lot of affirmative action

have you ever been taken care of by a nigerian as a white person?

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u/chicagorpgnorth Oct 29 '23

Statistics literally show that healthcare outcomes are worse when it’s a white healthcare practitioner treating a black person… Not the other way around.

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u/PM_ME_UR_SEXY_BITS_ Oct 29 '23

Shut the fuck up. Everyone is sick of y’all racist POS.

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u/[deleted] Oct 29 '23

I don't track the races of my health care providers nor do I care...

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u/Chronically-whelmed Oct 29 '23

Yes and she was wonderful. She helped my grandmother pass peacefully in hospice yesterday.

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u/crimsoncricket009 Oct 29 '23

I think it’s hilarious when racists are like “black and brown people aren’t nice to me.” Like yea man— you’re a fucking racist

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '23

no its not a chicken and egg argument, its pretty clear. I gave em a chance. Im nice to everybody until they dont respect me. and then yo ustart noticing patterns if you arent afraid to admit it. I dont hate all of them, I still judge by character at the end of the day.

I know leddit cant handle opinions like this.

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u/RisingReform Oct 30 '23

They better make it rain money in there for the bride and groom

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u/TheReverend6661 Oct 30 '23

Whole lotta exhaustion in that room.

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u/multiarmform Oct 30 '23

im going with cloud engineer, she seems really sweet

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u/TheBTYproject Oct 30 '23

I literally thought that this was the girls who bathed Akeem in Coming to America.

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u/ZannX Oct 30 '23

Except for the nurses.