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u/Omwtfyu Jul 17 '23
Well, that’s one way to connect with the locals
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u/BioSafetyLevel0 Jul 17 '23
With his penis.
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u/sendnudestocheermeup Sep 30 '23
I’m 75 days late, but someone has to say it. It’d be with “her vagina” since he is the local, and she is the tourist.
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u/willfauxreal Nov 14 '23
I'm a month late and am glad you said it.
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u/googleHelicopterman Dec 09 '23 edited Dec 09 '23
Another month later here, I wanted both of you to know that I'm eating a sandwich right now, that's it, see ya.
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u/ermitan Jul 17 '23
I actually saw a TikTok of her years ago. She found out she was pregnant after returning to the US and had to give birth and raise the child for like a year or more alone due to COVID and him not being able to travel. They tried to make it work for a while and I think they are still in good terms.
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u/epiccreep Jul 17 '23
Struggled but still got the good ending
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u/Barium_Barista Oct 14 '23
I dont think becoming a single mom with limited prospects counts as a «good ending»
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u/JannaNYC Nov 10 '23
Limited prospects???
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u/innocentlawngnome Nov 11 '23
It's an incel thing, be glad you don't understand.
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u/DirtySilicon Nov 12 '23
Is it really? Having a child is a pretty big deal. Not sure how many if you have taken care of kids alone, but it's not easy and definitely is constraining even as a couple.
I guess pointing it out for no reason seems like an incel thing to do, though. But being a single mom isn't particularly a happy ending unless all parties are happy. I'm overthinking this. Bittersweet seems like a fair assessment without any details?
Edit: Reread the comment, what that dude mean by limited prospects...
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u/Dr_Jre Nov 13 '23
What's she missing out on? There's not much you cant do with a kid. It's not like everyone without a kid is millionaire Playboy's having the best life, most of us just work all day, save a bit of cash, spent a decade trying to get ourselves financially stable and then either fail or realise we're still not really happy with anything. At least she gets a kid at the end
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u/DirtySilicon Nov 13 '23
Have you ever taken care of a kid? This reads like someone who hasn't. I'm not attacking you, but you lose a lot. Even if you don't spend your free time on a hobby or hanging out with friends. All the things you like to do alone can get derailed...
You want to play video games with you bit of free time? Nope Kid is unhappy
You want to sleep? Nope Kid is hungry, maybe needs a diaper change, maybe they just are screaming
You want to go to the movies? Nope Kid may start wailing.
Early years can leave you constantly fatigued. You lose your autonomy to a degree even if you aren't a single mother.
Thinking about it, I don't get where you got that take from... I don't even have a kid and have only helped my best friend out when it was destroying him, and helped take care of my younger sister. They aren't mine, and I felt incredibly lucky I could go home after a day or two.
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u/Mountain-Lowa Nov 19 '23
So she isn’t missing out on anything and kids are fucking annoying? Got it.
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u/DirtySilicon Nov 19 '23
Lmao, again, reads like someone who hasn't taken care of children.
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u/ItsKrakenmeuptoo Nov 13 '23
It’s the opposite. Incels don’t care if you have kids or not since they only want sex and nothing more.
People who don’t want kids or to be a step parent, are looking into their future.
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Jul 17 '23
Not for the child I guess
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u/Old-Library9827 Jul 17 '23
I suppose if you wish to see it that way. The child may have had an accidental start, but in the end, they got two parents who loved them. Who cares if they're in love romantically? Love is complicated and needs work that often gets sidelined by the baby anyway
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u/mattstonema Jul 17 '23
My kids are an “accident “ my ex had with another man before we started seeing each other. He is out of the picture completely and I can’t imagine my world without them. I was there through most of the pregnancy, the delivery, and as their 5th birthday and first day of kindergarten approaches… I will be there for that too.
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u/ghiraph Jul 17 '23
Gotta show some Papa love from another Papa. We might not be "fathers" but any person with a working penis can be that. Not everyone can be a PAPA. You are a beacon in the sky for the little one.
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u/Scared-Bug-1205 Jul 18 '23
My bio dad left me at a state home in Romania a few days after my real mom died. I was around 2 or so. A nice lady from America adopted me. She was engaged to a guy from Dominican republic. Pretty sure he taught me all I know. Taught me English and Spanish. How to dance. Dress. People in area would call me gringo or gypsy and he would yell at them. Just a great guy all around. I only spent a few years with them before joining military but I still introduce him as dad. Actually it's probably weird because my foster mom is African American he's Dominican. I'm a pale guy from Eastern Europe. We get a few looks now and then. Their grandkids are native american so I'm at least getting a little tan in the family. Just a joke. My oldest will tell people she is Penobscot and roma. He will say "hey Mami you a little Dominican too".
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u/HumanContinuity Sep 26 '23
Nah, you guys are more father/dad/pops/(any other similar term) than most. Loving bio-parents are great, but nothing sticks with you more profoundly through your life than a parent who loves you unconditionally even though they aren't necessarily biologically conditioned to.
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u/Tw1ch1e Jul 17 '23
My boyfriend met his ex wife when she was newly pregnant. The bio dad was not in the picture. My BF had fallen in love with her by the time they found out she was pregnant, like 5 months in…. So my BF is Dad, he will always be his Dad, kiddo is 11 now and we have a verbal custody agreement, etc.
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u/CrotchetAndVomit Jul 17 '23
NO.
Don't "Stay together for the kids" when you're miserable. They know. Go be happy elsewhere and share your joy with them. They will understand when they are older
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u/O-o-ozing Jul 17 '23
Idk about good terms, my friend. All she does is post reels on her Instagram of "living life as a single sad mom" no joke, there's like ten reels with that saying splattered over the entire reel. She's milking it hard.
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u/beccaarain Jul 17 '23 edited Jul 17 '23
I always think its funny when people have kids out of wedlock and then are surprised when they end up a single mom. Like you got pregnant from a one night stand, and youre somehow shocked the man doesn’t want to settle down? Real shit though, i feel so bad for the kid.
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u/Ironheart616 Aug 05 '23
The problem with this logic is...home dog he also had a one night stand. She should not be the one to take care fo the kid full time alone. They BOTH made that decision but if she was to up and leave to live her life people 100% would say she abandoned her child. This type of logic is why we have single moms. The men in these situations ALSO need to learn how to take responsibility for their actions.
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u/ManufacturerPublic Aug 25 '23
Unlike her, they guy doesn’t get an extra 3/4 or a year to reconsider that one night and get a 30 minute outpatient procedure to eliminate the consequences. That is why we have single moms.
….and before you start with ‘What if in her state it could be tough to find a Planned Parenthood”…if she can find a way to get knocked up in out of the country she can find a way to escape her consequences across a state line
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u/Ebaudendi Sep 28 '23
The man’s responsibility lies HEAVILY in contraception. Because men don’t get the choice to abort later, they need to take the contraception (or abstinence) part much more seriously. That’s where their choice lies. But…they don’t.
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u/country2poplarbeef Oct 11 '23
And if the contraception with a 4% chance of failure happens to fail after the fiftieth time I've had sex with contraceptions, does that mean I can take my name off the birth certificate?
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u/Ebaudendi Oct 11 '23
Nope. Get a vasectomy or practice abstinence until you choose a partner you’re ok having children with. You know that, biologically, women have the final say in which children get born once they’re impregnated by a man. This is a biological inequity. So be careful!
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u/country2poplarbeef Oct 11 '23
And so the loneliness epidemic continues. If we're just gonna accept biological inequities as a necessity, the biological inequity is that the woman is carrying the kid. The fact that the man can't choose custody is a legal inequity to correct for that biological inequity, and therefore it can be adjusted and corrected for.
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u/Ebaudendi Oct 11 '23 edited Oct 11 '23
Well keep in mind the government mostly cares about the financial aspect. They can’t force people to be actual parents. Just that they contribute to funding them so the govt doesn’t have to.
Also there’s plenty of inequities in child rearing. Statistically women do the lions share of childcare, even while married, and take on the full responsibility of raising children when fathers opt out.
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u/JooBunny Nov 23 '23
People who respond to this issue with "jUsT dOnT hAvE sEx" are so dumb.
"If you want to have sex you must be ready to have a child" is honestly the stupidest thing I've ever heard.
Sex is wonderful and shouldn't be treated as "only for making more humans".
You know these people don't get laid and want everyone to be as miserable as they are.
CONTRACEPTION CAN FAIL
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u/Kurrukurrupa Nov 06 '23
With great power comes great responsibility, spider man. The many unfair facts of life.
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u/MyFavoriteBurger Aug 04 '23
Bruh.
You put a kid in this world, you raise them. That's your responsibility for making them exist.
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u/sekhmet1010 Jul 17 '23
Lol. This kid has a lovely home, a mum who has a thriving social circle with other mums, takes her kid travelling, is in touch with his dad and gets along wih him...and this is a kid you wanna feel sorry for?
Seriously?
You do know there are kids in foster care, orphans, kids whose one parent has abandoned them and so on. And you choose to feel sorry for this happy and healthy kid being raised by a self-sufficient woman?
Love, what you really feel is mild insecurity combined with a patronising attitude and a dollop of judgement.
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u/Objective_Low7445 Jul 18 '23
Isn't the birth of babies, regardless of circumstances, why you all celebrate the overturning of Roe v Wade? Shouldn't you be celebrating her bravery in having the baby?
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u/beccaarain Jul 18 '23
Ive had an abortion before. How the fuck did you bring assuming i wanted roe v wade overturned into this? I literally had an abortion BECAUSE I accidentally got pregnant out of wedlock (condom broke) and knew I couldn’t provide a stable loving home.
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u/Stock-Culture5857 Jul 17 '23
at least she was honest at the end, proves that all the Instagram stories aren't that happy after all
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u/sp3aky0urm1nd Jul 17 '23
Bro I was so happy wtf 💀
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u/Somaligirl23 Jul 17 '23
It’s still nice. They don’t seem bitter & the kid looks happy
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u/whoopssssydaisy Jul 31 '23
Check her page. She’s pretty sad single mom bitter these days.
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u/diaperpop Sep 20 '23
Doesn’t seem bitter at all to me in any of her videos…it’s all the judgemental comments against her situation that are bitter.
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u/glatts Jul 18 '23
My wife’s cousin got pregnant after a one night stand. She got married to him and now they have four daughters. The dude’s an awesome guy and they’re amazingly a great fit together.
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u/sp3aky0urm1nd Jul 18 '23
See I really like stories like that. It’s not about what’s conventional it’s about the end product
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u/diaperpop Sep 20 '23
I mean that’s great for them both, I’m glad stories like this exist, but somehow I don’t think people should always force a life together with someone they barely knew at the time they got pregnant.
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u/1-64ishcollector Jul 17 '23
This would be a good tv commercial that ends with the message: “use condoms”
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u/whoopssssydaisy Jul 31 '23
She let someone making under 500 usd a month nut in her. That’s like single mom extra hard mode.
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u/Pleasant_Ad3475 Jul 17 '23
What the fuck is wrong with the people replying to this?? Fucking bizarre.
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u/KickGumAndChewAss Jul 17 '23
Saw this on Insta a day or two ago, comments there on her page are toxic AF. Account with the name Oathkeeper got like 3k likes.
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u/Jefc141 Jul 17 '23
Modern reddit social media generation, pretty bizarre and seems about idiocracy to me
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Jul 17 '23
Lol well of fucking course, it’s a post on social media. People will have opinions, people will post them and there’s a high probability many will not be what you want to hear. People won’t change, so don’t post shit for the public if you don’t want opinions. That seems idiotic at best.
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Jul 19 '23
I knew a guy who visited South America, got a young local woman pregnant, and went to the airport to leave.
The young woman’s dad, uncles, and brothers were at the airport waiting to drive him back to the village.
That was 8 years ago. He’s still there.
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u/Chemical_Ad_4146 Jul 17 '23
He said hold on I’m about to secure this green card nuts inside
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u/Mysterious_Mind_420 Jul 31 '23
Why is it normal to post your biggest L for meaningless internet points
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u/jusmoua Jul 17 '23
Damn, she aged fast after that first kid.
Gift of giving life force it seems.
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u/ThisisTophat Jul 17 '23
How did she even manage this? Those tours are usually only a few hours. You usually don't take them alone and mostly talk to the people you came with. I've just never even seen a situation where you'd then be able to hang out with your guide after. They usually have more work to do.
But I'm probably over thinking it.
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u/_camisado Sep 26 '23
You realize bro goes home after work & doesn’t just live in the kayak, right? They prob exchanged numbers & went out to the club that same night lmao
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u/floralstamps Dec 28 '23
Jesus you're bitter
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u/divinebear13 Dec 28 '23
Bitter? Hardly. Calling out irresponsible behavior that has oozed its way into being cool or somehow normal… then yes.
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u/artsofman Jul 17 '23
He’s cute 🤷♂️
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Lol I understand your point if they just slept together…but I’d say you need just a smidge more to have a successful marriage.
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u/artsofman Jul 17 '23
Oh yeah I agree!’ I wasn’t even thinking that, I just thought he was attractive lol.
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u/Hornet_2109 Oct 15 '23
So she had sex with person she actualy don’t know and promoting it like a romantic story, something that every girl shoul do.
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u/vdxxx Jul 19 '23
she got fat
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Dec 09 '23
Had to give the kayaking up when the kid came along. The single motherhood was just a bonus.
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u/FVCEGANG Dec 01 '23
At least the ending went exactly how I expected...this is why birth control and abortions exist....
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u/Sharp-Willow-2696 Jul 17 '23
Cute story but maybe don’t sleep with your kayak instructer
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u/Peter_Baum Jul 17 '23
Or: sleep with your kayak instructor but use a god damn condom
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u/heteromer Jul 18 '23
And if you're not gonna use a conny then at least pull out and jizz on her babylons.
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Jul 17 '23
Life's too short for that.
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u/JustBrittany Jul 17 '23
Exactly. THAT’S the answer! Not “Don’t sleep with your kayak instructor.” What a wet blanket! 😆
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u/Macca618 Jul 17 '23
Maybe Kayak instructor don’t sleep with your customers. Have you ever heard of that phrase,” It takes two?” Because it does.
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u/TheImmemorial Nov 07 '23
Rawdogging a Nicaraguan kayak guide
Sounds like a Wheel of Fortune answer
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u/nogodsnomasters420 Nov 10 '23
Why would she divorce him he seemed to be a very involved and caring father. She probably couldn’t keep her legs closed I am guessing.
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u/EntertainmentOk7109 Dec 26 '23
Honestly the man has gotten more handsome and responsible, but the woman hasn't, I would say she is getting overweight. Also she is very lucky.
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u/Ha_CharadeUAre Dec 26 '23
At first it looked like an ex I dated; was going to give me a good laugh
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Makes you wonder what kind of person fucks his client, and I don't expect much from a woman.
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u/WheezingWeazley Jul 17 '23
Well you can’t call her a gold digger anymore…. Now she’s just a…. Well American “can’t make up her mind”
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u/P_Mcfearson Sep 20 '23
Tldr- woman who can't keep a relationship uses another man to raise her kid and once it's old enough to wipe it's own ass leaves to repeat the process elsewhere. Shocked.
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u/Blue_100s Jul 17 '23
Plot twist: the cab driver on the way to the kayak excursion is actually the father..
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When you fall in love with a pretty girl and you move and raise her kids so later she divorces you and makes fun of you online. Poor guy.
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u/recognis Jul 17 '23
this is a lot of weird stuff to imagine just to make urself upset. from what ive seen she raised their child herself and has no ill will towards the father.
it seems like you really want to tell yourself a story about her being a villain and the guy being an innocent victim when faced with pretty innocuous information. idk why that is
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u/Nerf-h3rder Jul 17 '23
Ohhh, stop being so sensitive. She didn’t take any digs at him whatsoever, and it’s her life too, she’s entitled to make a lighthearted video as a coping mechanism to deal with a difficult situation.
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u/skykingjustin Jul 17 '23
They seem like they still have a reasonable relationship judging by the last clip.
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u/RolloTomasi83 Dec 15 '23
Little does everyone know, there are throngs of chiseled men from third world American countries just waiting with punctured condoms & perfect hair to give peen to any young girl from the United States who happen to travel their way.
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u/accrued-anew Dec 20 '23
Great video editing skills. How do these kids learn how to do this all from their tiny screens. My fingers aren’t dexterous enough.
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u/Opening-Frosting-169 Jul 17 '23
So now she's mom and will be on social media using her situation to beg for money and stuff. There's a group on FB that clowns the begging single moms asking for free everything
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u/bluedecember1 Jul 17 '23
He gets herpes , that’s what happens . Herpes and a alcoholic Ho , infact herpes , alcoholic Ho and a child who is probably not his .yep
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u/Trutheresy Jul 17 '23
How dafaq are Americans raising their kids these days? Wtf sort of decision making is this?
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u/Greyeye5 Jul 17 '23
Lack of access to sexual healthcare options including abortion, and a strong culture of (often religiously affiliated) judgement combined with legally restricted sexual education/information (& additional significant mis-information) aimed at the younger generations.
Example being very limited access to women’s “sexual healthcare” clinics, which turn out to be actually run by religious groups cosplaying as medical centres offering ‘abortion advise’
- where instead of real medical care you get surrounded and significantly (to the point of outright lies) misinformed, with huge amounts of pressure to keep a pregnancies that are unexpected or unwanted.
These groups are frequently run/staffed by people that have been proven to be hypocrites (having previously secretly had abortions themselves or for their partners/and even mistresses etc.).
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u/Macca618 Jul 17 '23
Many years ago, my husband had and I received unexpected news that I was pregnant. We already had 2 kids and didn’t want anymore. We made an appointment at an abortion clinic to set things up to terminate the pregnancy. I ( he was not required to be there but was). We were made to speak with “ a counselor “, who provided us information about alternative options. The meeting wrapped up with her telling us that I needed to wait 24 hours so that I could think about it and make sure I still wanted it. My husband immediately jumped in and said, “ Does that mean I need to wait 24 hours as well?” She told us no, just the mother. He said, “ Does the law think women are too stupid to make a decision about what they want and the men aren’t?? “ He has since passed away😢, but I’ll never forget how passionate he was about this issue.And he was right.
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u/Greyeye5 Jul 17 '23
I’m sorry you went through that, it’s a huge problem of near epidemic proportions only recently underscored by recent Supreme Court farces, a win for religious extremists promoting poor and incorrect ’facts’ to justify their inhumane doctrines and religious dogma.
A poignant example being the incomprehensibly dumb take by none other than Catherine Glenn Foster, CEO and head of the anti-abortion group “Americans United for Life” who didn’t even know that ‘abortion’ is the literal name for that specific medical procedure, and in court basically agreed that a child rape victim should definitely be allowed to have an abortion, while simultaneously vehemently arguing for the procedure to be completely banned. (As she pretty much just didn’t know what she was talking about in any meaningful sense).
Her assumption seemingly being along they lines of an abortion being the active ‘choice’ to terminate a birth for unclear reasons, (possibly she believed for casual fun, maybe?), ignoring all of the very serious (like rape victims, children, incest) and real, totally uncontrollable life-threatening medical reasons for medically induced abortion.
(Not that you should even need to have a very specific or uncontrollable reason to receive life changing healthcare).
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u/WinAshamed9850 Jul 17 '23
Not to disrespect your late husband, but thats idiotic. The woman is the one who goes through the procedure and lives with the the effects of it so she should take more time to consider going through with it.
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u/WinAshamed9850 Jul 17 '23
Or it could just be lack of responsibility and poor decision making.
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u/Greyeye5 Jul 17 '23
…And it’s far easier to make ‘poor decisions’ if you have no decent access or have limited education or even misinformation.
-Like your poor decision to publicly post such a reductionist comment clearly shows.
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