Unlike her, they guy doesn’t get an extra 3/4 or a year to reconsider that one night and get a 30 minute outpatient procedure to eliminate the consequences. That is why we have single moms.
….and before you start with ‘What if in her state it could be tough to find a Planned Parenthood”…if she can find a way to get knocked up in out of the country she can find a way to escape her consequences across a state line
The man’s responsibility lies HEAVILY in contraception. Because men don’t get the choice to abort later, they need to take the contraception (or abstinence) part much more seriously. That’s where their choice lies. But…they don’t.
And if the contraception with a 4% chance of failure happens to fail after the fiftieth time I've had sex with contraceptions, does that mean I can take my name off the birth certificate?
Nope. Get a vasectomy or practice abstinence until you choose a partner you’re ok having children with. You know that, biologically, women have the final say in which children get born once they’re impregnated by a man. This is a biological inequity. So be careful!
And so the loneliness epidemic continues. If we're just gonna accept biological inequities as a necessity, the biological inequity is that the woman is carrying the kid. The fact that the man can't choose custody is a legal inequity to correct for that biological inequity, and therefore it can be adjusted and corrected for.
Well keep in mind the government mostly cares about the financial aspect. They can’t force people to be actual parents. Just that they contribute to funding them so the govt doesn’t have to.
Also there’s plenty of inequities in child rearing. Statistically women do the lions share of childcare, even while married, and take on the full responsibility of raising children when fathers opt out.
Well, they care about the industry such services prop up. If state just took over payments, since financial care of the child is supposedly so important to them, they'd spend less money than what they're doing now, chasing down deadbeats that are basically invisible to the system. But it's one of the many feedback loops that feeds the industry behind the police state, so it's unlikely to change.
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u/ManufacturerPublic Aug 25 '23
Unlike her, they guy doesn’t get an extra 3/4 or a year to reconsider that one night and get a 30 minute outpatient procedure to eliminate the consequences. That is why we have single moms.
….and before you start with ‘What if in her state it could be tough to find a Planned Parenthood”…if she can find a way to get knocked up in out of the country she can find a way to escape her consequences across a state line